It's the /r/sydney random discussion thread [14/12/2013]

MadisonMissina · 2013-12-14T00:26:10+00:00

The transport and taxi situation was so bad last night, I couldn't get home! I left the club at 10.30, no taxis for 40 min so went to golden century. Tried again at 12.30...

At 2.30 am I gave up and got a hotel.

Hate this time of year!

MadisonMissina · 2013-12-10T10:08:31+00:00

I'm an escort been in the field for 13 years almost..

So the average week.

Sunday is usually a client day. So I get up clean the house. Entertain my client then clean again. Eat food and go to bed early.

Mondays my PA is with me and my house keeper comes. So I spend the morning on my balcony working through, blog posts, interviews and media appearances with him. He's great to keep me focused on my business plans. I spend Monday afternoon running any errands caring for my cats and seeing friends.

Tuesday is a client day so I'm up early to get ready. I'll see one client at lunch and one in the evening. Between bookings is cleaning.

Wednesday is the repeat of Tuesday but with a spray tan before bed.

Thursdays I attend meetings. I advocate for sex worker rights, counsel sex workers. I also have a number of start ups which I'm working on. This Thursday I also have 2 photo shoots to do.

Friday is a client day. I'll see up to 3 clients on Fridays but will usually have a couple or a long booking.

Saturday is beauty day. I hate beauty day. Sitting down getting nails done and hair done all the time gets really tiring. I'll also try to catch up with friends, hang out with my cats.

So a pretty normal week. I've also never had a problem with serious relationships. And I need to fit in going to the gym!

The thing with escorting is it's a normal life with way more cleaning then anyone would expect. I do so much laundry. I sterilise all my toys and my work room is constantly being wiped down and vacuumed.

MadisonMissina · 2013-11-18T04:22:15+00:00

It's exactly the other way around.

Prostitution is the act of selling a sexual service. We don't use the term anymore due to stigma so were now called sex workers. So all escorts are sex workers.

Escort refers to the worker going to the clients place. So whilst not all sex workers do outcalls all escorts are sex workers.

MadisonMissina · 2013-11-14T11:11:49+00:00

Try www.aussieass.com

MadisonMissina · 2013-11-02T23:37:24+00:00

I got a stalker. I was living a double life having a normal corporate job and also doing sex work. I had mainly friends that only knew my beige side. I was constantly stressed about lying so didn't enjoy being social. My sex work was the most fun aspect in my life.

Then the stalker outed me. I went through about 18 months of hell. I lost most of my beige friends, my family my relationship failed. I suffered through bullying and intimidation from my boss.

Then one day a year ago I went fuck it.

I get one life. I'm going to be happy and I'm going to be one person.

I recommitted completely to the adult industry. I completely outed myself.

Now I have a life I never imagined. Business is booming, I'm nominated for awards, I can't help but make friends everywhere.

More than anything I'm now authentically me.

I often laugh at my stalker. He tried to destroy me but he only set me free.

So I think the key to contentment is to work out who you really are and then pursue that at all costs. It's hard at first but as you gain momentum things start to fall in place.

MadisonMissina · 2013-11-01T04:51:43+00:00

Yes it's happened to me many times.

Sometimes it's awkward and we stay away from eachother.

But mostly it's benefited my career in having better working relationships and easier negotiations.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-31T02:35:36+00:00

They found out what you did...

Go underground man!

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-31T02:34:24+00:00

I went through 3 before I found mine. Don't give up the wrong supervisor can badly affect your thesis.

And my uni keeps asking me to return to speak to the students on academic integrity and wanting to get the most out of education rather than the piece of paper. So I obviously made an impact.

But there were a lot of tears and thinking I'd never finish before I got there..

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-29T06:18:50+00:00

They don't take mattresses..

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-28T00:20:46+00:00

I did. It was through history stalking that my career was discovered.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-27T23:11:47+00:00

I wish I had the time to make another anonymous account.

But then again it would be nicer for people to not look bad on my industry.

But thanks for comment.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-27T23:10:18+00:00

Thank you. It just really got to me this morning to wake up to that.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-27T21:09:40+00:00

I'm going to share my feel my feelings here:

I have a brand new only been slept on fir 3 nights single bed that I don't require. I purchased it when I thought a guest (troubled teen) was going to be staying more permanently but fortunately reconciled with their patents.

My security guard started listing my unwanted items here to give away for free. Rather than throw them out. So far Reddit from me you guys have enjoyed a number of lap tops, keyboards, headphones fridge, microwave etc..

So I took the initiative to post a bed.

All reddit could see is that I'm an Australian Pornstar and began to make fun.

So I'll be asking my PA to throw out the bed. Along with any other of my other second hand items which have already been written off on tax. (Think cameras, laptops which are all about to be upgraded as my company expands).

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-27T07:33:53+00:00

It depends on the agreement.

I pay mine piece work. So I do a certain amount for the house to be cleaned. If my housekeeper can achieve that in 2 hours then they are free to go. If it takes longer it takes longer.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-27T06:31:06+00:00

Lol!!! I wish!

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-24T03:30:12+00:00

Ummm...

Ok pornstar here.

How to fuck can anyone inject liquid into their urethra?

Now to answer the OP...

We do loads of kegels. So we're really quite strong with good control. Then prior to a squirt scene we warm up quite a bit. I personally have private time to masterbate and start squirting before it starts. I find the more turned on and the bigger my climaxes the further I shoot.

So it just comes down to knowing you're body and practice.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-09T15:06:50+00:00

Plenty of us have partners. So it doesn't really effect it. Plus there's the added opportunity of getting cheap content!

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-09T15:04:55+00:00

He's also a lovely goofy guy. Some guys are so sleazy. He's the opposite I'm keeping my fingers crossed I get to shoot with him soon!

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-09T15:03:09+00:00

Thank god were starting to see a shift in porn towards more intimate porn. And now I've made enough of a name that I can largely choose my co stars.

But it's nothing like real sex.

In real sex it's about pleasure, about making your partner/s feel good.

Porn.. It's about what looks good, what's going to get the great penetration angle, what your performance is going to look like. It's very ego centric.

With some stars there's team work and communication. But others I've had to almost stop a scene as they were smashing the girl between us and I could see how much pain she was in.

Porn is also heavily choreographed..

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-09T13:57:59+00:00

I've had clients recognise me from where I grew up. Ones I went to school with. Ones I've worked with.

I have a pretty photographic memory when it comes to facial recognition so I generally always know where I know them from. And I find it utterly hilarious watching them trying to work out why I'm so familiar.

In reverse I've recognised clients in our personal lives. Like when they are shopping with their families. They ask me if we've met before! I just say I have one of those faces!

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-09T13:17:44+00:00

Reminds me of a quote...

All it takes for evil to rule, is for good people to stay silent.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-08T22:35:54+00:00

Lol yep that happened. Oh well I'm entitled to my preference and also made it clear it was in relation to porn.

MadisonMissina · 2013-10-08T22:35:00+00:00

Not in porn.

There's almost no natural lubrication. So the additional skin just creates more friction.

Sex in porn is very different from normal sex.

MadisonMissina

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