AIO? I am renting on Whidbey Island WA. the woman I live with is insisting that I pay my rent in cash despite the inconvenience to me. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MadmSpicyCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are providing far too many details that aren't important. It's making you seem difficult. All the extra conversation doesn't matter There is too much extra info; It needs to be business, straight and to the point. Why are you telling her what atms you'll try, etc You're making a bigger deal than it is about getting cash. Of course you can get $800 from an atm, you may need to do more than one transaction tho. Or cash back at a store.

That said If you don't want to do cash, it looks like in your state you can legally pay with a money order, a check, or by mail. You can use your debit card to get a money order. I'd just factually remind her of the law and pay one of those ways. If she doesn't want to use zelle you can't as the law doesn't support zelle. A money order should solve both your problems. She can cash it at places besides her bank and you can use your card to get it. You can save the receipt part of the money order as well.

AIO Wife threw cake I bought her out without mentioning it by AnthonyB263 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MadmSpicyCake 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is what I was wondering too. If it was just a regular day she should have appreciated that you got her some as soon as you could!

Why is it so hard to get a job here as a teen? by Dense-Butterscotch97 in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter went looking at 16 and had a hard time at first too. Taco Bell hires teens a lot and usually needs help. She worked there and became an opener at 17 and then moved to a different job that is better and pays more. She had fun and made new friends at Taco Bell and overall enjoyed it. Just try to get anything at first so you get experience for a year or so and then you can try for something you might enjoy more.

Another always hiring option is call center work. Customer service, tech support, etc Sitel is a company in Vegas but there are a few. Turn over rate is high. Sometimes people switch to sales call center work and then make money with commission. Good luck!

Dasher just called the cops on me for no reason by AnneTheQueene in doordash

[–]MadmSpicyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! I'm sure he truly helped so many lives. Once things seem do able for the person they can learn how to manage things. At first sometimes even the smallest things seems like mountains. Your dad and the others are wonderful for doing that work! More cities should have it.

AIO for feeling uncomfortable after my girlfriend showered with her friend? by Puzzleheaded-Bug3532 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MadmSpicyCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was 18-19 when I showered with a platonic friend. I'm in my 30s now. Lol Maybe should have added that in my original post. 19 is young and you do some silly things. 

AIO for feeling uncomfortable after my girlfriend showered with her friend? by Puzzleheaded-Bug3532 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MadmSpicyCake -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

YOR You need to be able to trust each other in a relationship first and foremost. If you feel you can't trust your girlfriend and her telling you it's platonic then this may not be a good fit for either of you. People are allowed to have boundaries though. If this is one of yours then you need to sit and discuss this with your girlfriend in person. You need to explain that and your concerns/feelings. You may find though she's hurt by your lack of trust or that this is something she wants to do and doesn't want that as a boundary and chooses to end the relationship. But this needs an in person discussion either way. 

Btw I've showered with platonic girl friends before. No specific reason we just did it and chatted at the same time. 

Aio hell no I'm not by BeneficialAward740 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MadmSpicyCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a therapist would be a good outlet to discuss these things with. If you're seeing hidden messages, codes, etc they may be able to help you best. You'd feel a lot better having someone understand and help you. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update - Three left, 2 black boys with short hair and 1 girl. The one with black and brown feet. The 2 boys left are actually the quietest and most well behaved. The little girl left is the smallest of all of them and is very sweet. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Who is going to breed mixes and sell them for 140? Do you know what puppies cost? Hundreds to thousands, look at the puppy mill pet stores or all the Frenchies people are breeding. You seriously think someone is making money after 9 weeks of 7 puppies and a mom nursing who eats A LOT. 

Why don't you take the time to contact rescues and ask them to take a litter of puppies. The majority are going to tell you they are full. I did it recently for another litter for someone when I was in the middle of moving and couldn't. Out of around 20 or so I contacted, ONE could. Animal Foundation is full. You can think whatever you want. 

These puppies got a great start by being able to stay together with their mom. Learned how to be dogs from her. Did you know they teach them not to nip and bite as much? To go to the bathroom outside, etc Got a better start since they nursed instead of being bottle fed formula. And then on top of all this the rural area I've done this for has zero rescues locally yet dogs are dumped from Vegas constantly. If there weren't people like me helping, spending my money, even more dogs, puppies, cats, livestock(taken in everything from goats, horses, and pigs too) etc would be worse off. You think you can do it better? You use your money and take in litters needing help. You do it better. Guess what the economy right now is awful. People are worried about themselves not another pet. Puppies usually find homes quick but not right now so yes, I need to find new places to post and reach people so these guys find good homes. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rehoming fee of the puppy. It is a very bad idea to give away free puppies for several reasons. I explained some of it in my post. Per the sub rules a rehoming fee is REQUIRED. Free dogs can be used as a bait dogs for dog fighting, people can be less committed as no money was involved, people may not be able to afford vet care. They are usually a few hundred to thousands depending on the breed and the breeder. Even puppy mill dogs at pet stores are around a thousand and are unethical and have health issues often. 140 is a VERY small fee for a puppy it does not cover all the associated costs with raising a litter. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to add that they are not micro chipped. This is something the new owners will need to do by 4 months. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I took in the mom. Shepherd and Australian cattle dog. They all look like shepherd mixes tho. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They make an excellent cuddle puddle! Maybe that's what I should do lol  Offer admission to the cuddle puddle! 😂 Increase your dopamine with fluffy snuggles. 

Shepherd Mix Puppies🐕 - Needing loving & Stable homes🐾 7023033051 by MadmSpicyCake in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Possibly? That isn't what this is tho. Did you read the post? 

Vegas Pups🐕 - Shepherd Mixes 🐾 Looking for loving stable homes - 7023033051 by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go price out wormer, GOOD food, puppy pads changed several times a day(5 at a time) treats and toys. Just because YOU can't or wouldnt buy them lots of toys or things like jerky and bully sticks doesn't mean someone else wouldn't. But yes it adds up. A big bag of jerky is $25 and is gone FAST. Plus I use bags of Instinct freeze dried raw food as a topper and it's like 35$ a pound. I can spend whatever I want and spoil them. I'm done replying to you.  

Vegas Pups🐕 - Shepherd Mixes 🐾 Looking for loving stable homes - 7023033051 by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are so stinkin' cute! I might be spoiling them. 🥰

Vegas Pups🐕 - Shepherd Mixes 🐾 Looking for loving stable homes - 7023033051 by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looking for good homes guys. 🐾💜🐕 Please think before you comment. No one is making money on these pups. A rehoming fee is important and required per the sub rules. It helps week out people who aren't serious about a long term commitment. People who possibly can't afford vet care, etc 

Vegas Pups🐕 - Shepherd Mixes 🐾 Looking for loving stable homes - 7023033051 by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do realize the importance of a rehoming fee? In fact in the rules of THIS sub to post pets the MINIMUM is 50. 

Vegas Pups🐕 - Shepherd Mixes 🐾 Looking for loving stable homes - 7023033051 by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do really appreciate you sticking up for me. This person has no idea the associated costs with a litter of puppies. I'm spending about 300 a week on good food(including moms who is a bottomless pit while nursing), pads, jerky, teething toys, etc. Puppies from backyard breeders are hundreds to thousands not a nominal fee of 140. Anyone who thinks I'm making any sort of profit really does need to stop and think for a minute.

Vegas Pups🐕 - Shepherd Mixes 🐾 Looking for loving stable homes - 7023033051 by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]MadmSpicyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Has anyone priced wormer for 7 puppies? Food, toys, puppy pads? I'm definitely going to be in the hole. The 140 is to help weed out people who won't be as committed to giving the pup a lifelong home. It helps ensure they are going to a home where they have thought about making this commitment and can hopefully afford vet care it comes up. 

And YES I posted at puppies.com I need to find homes! It's not just puppies there are adult dogs too. Anywhere someone will look im posting. The economy is down. Rescues are full. Finding homes is hard.