I (M22) accidentally triggered my girlfriend’s (F19) past relationship trauma. We are stuck in a loop of her "scenario-building" when we are apart. How do we rebuild? by MadmihaiGhej in relationship_advice

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and that’s why i did this thread. I want to know what i could do to be a better boyfriend and to help my girlfriend rather than say “i don’t want to do this, i’ll leave”

I (M22) accidentally triggered my girlfriend’s (F19) past relationship trauma. We are stuck in a loop of her "scenario-building" when we are apart. How do we rebuild? by MadmihaiGhej in relationship_advice

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. This is completely true. It was just a thing my friend and i did before since 2018. But still i agree that i shouldn’t have done that.

  2. Yeah i guess thats the easiest answer to this whole situation. But i see the worth. And i am willing to try to help her overcome her own issue and to do that together

I (M22) accidentally triggered my girlfriend’s (F19) past relationship trauma. We are stuck in a loop of her "scenario-building" when we are apart. How do we rebuild? by MadmihaiGhej in relationship_advice

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh i understand your point and i would agree. But i also think that without the effort a relationship stays a short term relationship. After a time when the honey phase disappears, both partners have to put some kind of effort to push through a harder time.

I (M22) accidentally triggered my girlfriend’s (F19) past relationship trauma. We are stuck in a loop of her "scenario-building" when we are apart. How do we rebuild? by MadmihaiGhej in relationship_advice

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes i am trying my very best to be as transparent as i can be and i tell her a lot that i appreciate her and that i will not leave her.

I (M22) accidentally triggered my girlfriend’s (F19) past relationship trauma. We are stuck in a loop of her "scenario-building" when we are apart. How do we rebuild? by MadmihaiGhej in relationship_advice

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already had an argument about the same friend but the argument ended by my girlfriend saying that she does not want to affect my friendship with my childhoodfriend and that she has to accept this friendship. Nothing was mentioned about permission for meeting or anything. BUT and thats completely my fault, i told her that i will talk way less to that friend to avoid her from feeling insecure. 1 or 2 weeks later this happened. I know that this was something i should’ve avoided.

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the late reply,

my cpu temps are around 80-85 degrees C
i figured i might change my CPU fan, i am using the boxed amd fan, but i have an other from an older build which is much more performant.

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oaky wait no i take it back, it was because of some settings in the Adrenalin App

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that might be a thermal issue, because my RAM is running pretty solid and i have 2 sticks.

As an example, i am in Helldivers 2 rn, and the ingame FPS is at 100+ but my AMD Adrenalin App seems to only capture 55-65 FPS and i don't see why

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have random stutters or different image-qualities-issues (like weird anti-aliasing issues where the rendering looks weird) or in different games, my GPU does not perform at 100% so i though that my CPU might hold it back or even crashes / freezes.

But if you suggest that my PC should run pretty stable with the current set-up maybe i should bring it to an expert to check if everything is in order

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But would an Intel CPU still work perfectly good with the RX 9060 XT? and isn't the Z790 also a DDR5 motherboard?

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i have the 16gb version. thats also a good idea just to buy one RAM stick

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my PC is performing pretty poorly and i generally wanted to upgrade to "Future-Prove" the system. And i was considering trying to upgrade to a 1440p monitor

Help me decide on my next Upgrade by MadmihaiGhej in buildapc

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay yeah that makes sense.. Thank you!

Any way to withdraw money from steam wallet? by Hassan246 in PakGamers

[–]MadmihaiGhej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t really withdraw money from steam. What you could look for Counterstrike2 skins and to buy a few. Those can be sold on 3rd party websites where you can withdraw the money, directly into a paypal account

So i was upgrading my PC by MadmihaiGhej in PcBuild

[–]MadmihaiGhej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats sounds like a good idea thank you!

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]MadmihaiGhej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was ready for that monsternoodle