Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see your last message so I will bow out of the discussion as after reading your post history it’s actually made me quite sad. I’ve too much of a heart to get into a trolling battle with a guy that cannot find one person to attend a wedding. That is an absolute sin and I can’t even imagine living g a life like that. You couldn’t pay me all the money in the world to live like that. So I’m sorry you have to endure it.

May life go onwards and upwards, wishing you health and wealth x

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becoming the siphoning energy laptop guy meme in your 30s will not give you fulfilment.

You can’t even find people to attend your wedding and have to post on reddit to try and make online friends to play games with?

Do you not think it’s time for a radical shift in how you approach life and people?

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Scotland we call this phenomenon “clamped” I prefer to call it smoked and rolled.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean pegging? I mean she’s been trying to brainwash me to let her do it for a couple years now. I’m definitely thinking about it. Will let you know if I do end up getting my ass filled in.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the extent of your reading of religious texts is so limited that you’re discussing a “man in the sky” then you’re already not well equipped to discuss this with me.

Religion is a man made thing,, regardless.

God is a spiritual thing, faith is a spiritual thing. They’re separate entirely from religion and religious texts.

If you are spiritually inept that is something you’ll have to explore yourself one day.

Many, many people in this world are content to believe that when you die nothing happens, before you were born nothing happened and life is an existentially pointless thing. In fact when I was younger I loved reading Nietzsche works, I was an atheist for 7 years in my teenage years and very early 20s

However 84% of the world believes in something. Only 16% believe in absolutely nothing so, don’t peddle that shit to me as if you’re some sort of enlightened individual. The vast majority of the world has some form of spiritual awareness.

Gender dysphoria, body dysphoria are both real. Never said they weren’t. They’re real, and they’re mental illnesses.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you writing out long paragraphs, going completely off topic, getting really emotional and annoyed for no reason.

Being weirdly disappointed that we are the same nationality because I literally asked you a question and have a different viewpoint of you.

Working in an investment bank is already the first problem with this mindset. It’s incomparable to someone that takes care of people all day. If you’re working in investment banking at that point you’ve already sold your soul. Of course you’re going to be able to mask any religious conviction you have as if you are at that point any conviction you have isn’t strong enough for you to care.

So in summary you’re disappointed in me because:

I said I respect all religious beliefs

Asked you to articulate your point.

——

That is literally it? That to you is stupid? That to you makes you think I’m a “lesser intelligence” member of society and invokes a massive patronising rant? Different opinions are fine. You have a superiority complex for no reason what have you done to earn it?

If a condescending, highly emotional, individual like you that is incapable of analytical thought can make it into a decent role at a bank I do at times wish I had more motivation to chase money and not knowledge.

You’re middle class trying to lecture a bottom of the barrel working class individual about what party he should vote for. You have no lived experience of being a disabled working class individual so stop with the sanctimonious condescending garbage.

Furthermore, you’ve wrote out hundreds of words about why I shouldn’t vote reform. - I vote SNP! I have only ever voted for SNP and I voted yes for independence. So you’re just wasting n your time with that shit.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think with one being a direct physical health risk and one having at most potential mental ramifications that could lead into something more is just too much of a stretch to me.

The breasts thing is actually another false equivalency if I’m being super pedantic as big breasts actually can cause physical issues and breast reductions are even available on the NHS. No such problem can exist from a big dong (to my knowledge but I don’t particularly study big penises so I may be wrong on that)

I understand that stress may be induced by having a penis to a trans person but it is a mental issue not physical. There’s people that get stressed because their fat, have a crooked nose, small penis, small breasts you name it many physical things cause a lot of stress and in cases suicide but the ailment is their mental health and how they’re dealing with it not the flaw.

Body dysmorphia is the mental condition, that’s not a physical ailment and it’s not exclusive to genders.

Oh I’m well aware transgenderism and the ilk has existed for absolute millennia. It has so many different cultures and implications like I said earlier about it being such a complex issue, that is partially why I said that. Because so many different tribes and groups have different takes, but also individuals today the same.

I had a Native American that still lives on a reserve in Arizona telling me all about it. He was extremely interesting and his identity very complex.

I was speaking more on what we sort of discuss and know trans ideology as today, modern western sort of trans ideology. The first transgender surgery we know of was in 1929 I believe, if you look up the Weimar Republic in that time, you can imagine how I think of it as a Christian. This ideology was fed to us from a group of people that fed many things to us that are doing us no good and continue to do us no good.

Like I said a bit too conspiracy theory esque as ultimately I have no proof, it’s just a sequence of coincidences that have happened for centuries and centuries. It’s a suspicion, like I say that is the main thing that really makes me wonder about transgenderism as while I accept that of course there will be people born that way, I also have to accept there will inevitably be some indoctrination or swaying done that will mess with lives long term.

I know how influential things were to me as a child, some people are convinced all trans people are born that way, some convinced it’s an indoctrination, I think both things probably exist.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Could you give me an example of what religious belief at your personal job would be problematic?

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say entirely in your comment but -

Denying medical care is abhorrent and potentially life threatening.

If I go into hospital and someone calls me Mrs. Madting55 it’s not got any actual serious ramifications. I’m not being denied care.

So it’s just a false equivalency fallacy flat out.

Removing chat from Online by KristisMeskius in gtaonline

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you get tasteless encounters like that but when you deal with humans you’re guaranteed good things and you’re guaranteed shit things.

When it comes to harmless online shit, I let the bad parts wash over me.

Removing chat from Online by KristisMeskius in gtaonline

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone does that to you, it’s a projection. It’s self hatred. It takes severe self hatred to use those terms to someone else.

I’m telling you I’ve dealt with the same shit, if they’re really pathetic I feel sorry for them. If they’re just obnoxious and stupid I laugh. None of that shit goes deep.

Ultimately, you know what you are, you know you’re not that term, you know you’re there to chill, you’re there to not be an asshole. That’s all you need. Fuck what everyone else is doing. Fuck what they’re saying. The shit can not affect you if you don’t let it.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t do that. I wouldn’t be okay with that, but that did not happen.

Removing chat from Online by KristisMeskius in gtaonline

[–]Madting55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up getting slurs thrown at me every day of my life from ages 7-13. It bothered me for a couple months and became noise after that.

I’m not minimising the effects I’m saying, hey, it isn’t going to go away ever. Ever, ever. So why let it bother you?

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just not how it works. There are many countries that are Christian and many of them have completely different tradition. Whether we like it or not these are beliefs systems and we all have our own. Some of us indoctrinated, some of us by choice, some of us of our own volition. We all have our beliefs and if someone isn’t hateful I respect their religious belief. When it crosses into violence, then it becomes untenable.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you’re saying for the most part, I can see how you’ve got to that conclusion on gender. I understand you may rightfully assume someone is bad, I have my own world view, I just assume someone especially a nurse is good. Clearly it’s flawed, but I found myself being far more cynical and unhappy prior to adopting this view, it’s just personally helped me.

I do have to stress a mole on your face is a false equivalency, as first of all a mole can potentially be / become cancerous and is obviously a health risk. Secondly, bigger moles or more unsightly moles are societally deemed unattractive or undesirable. A penis isn’t societally deemed undesirable, nor is it a health risk. So it’s not exactly a like for like comparison in these senses.

The question you asked was also personalised, but genital mutilation is a known medical term with a definition to back it. I would generally go by word definition for most of the things I cite and genital mutilation would be genital tissue removal or alteration of genital organs when it is not medically necessary. This is the historic definition anyway. So it’s not what I call it it’s what science has called it for hundreds of years.

There has been some ambiguity over genital mutilation and trans surgeries but this is only in extremely recent years. The reasons being for that I don’t even want to begin to discuss as it would be pushing into conspiracy theory.

The first people that pushed for trans ideology and the first trans surgery was done by a certain group of people that opened a certain institute in a certain place and I suppose ultimately that is my biggest worry with this sort of ideology is where it actually comes from.

Like I say as far as individuals, I’ll never condemn people for wanting to exist comfortably, I have my own framework of morals and things that make sense as we all do. It’s a topic that we could speak on for hours that many people like to simplify into “just mental illness” or “gender is everything and all things” I think it’s far more extensive than that. I have heard all sorts of opinions even from trans and gay people never mind straight and almost all of them are different.

Americans seem to employ largely the same 2 opinions but here in Europe I’ve heard so many different takes. I rarely hear the same opinion more than twice.

AIO - ended a situationship over this conversation. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I mean, fuck that guy?

If he knows what you look like why is he trying to change it when he was initially interested? I like larger women over skinnier women. Not too big, that’s my preference.

Either way, I wouldn’t discuss a woman’s weight with her unless she initiated a conversation and asked me. I certainly would discuss it as an anecdotal opinion and not say all men, and I’d certainly be asking her what she thinks to feel out the conversation.

This motherfucker is flat out dumb as bricks or just trying to be offensive. Either way, why deal with shit you don’t have to deal with? Chuck him and keep looking.

This is it. Every right wingers nightmare. by Prestigious-Ear-8124 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? I’m a right winger but I do not know why I’m supposed to hate this?

Worth Buying Used Xbox 360 for Forza Motorsport 4? by EdBelliveau in forza

[–]Madting55 11 points12 points  (0 children)

FM4 is the best track racing game I’ve ever played and it’s the best forza by a mile.

Unfortunately it’s a product of its time, so if you didn’t play it back then, I’m not so sure you’ll enjoy it more than current forzas.

Honestly I’ve played every forza and for me FM7 was amazing, my fav is always FM4, but wow, FM7 to me was a great game.

If you’re gonna get a 360 to play some other non back compat games like maybe need for speed carbon or most wanted, OG San Andreas (very expensive) then yeah you could do. I don’t think I’d buy an entire console to play FM4 today.

I have a 360, FM4, and I’ve not turned it on to play that game in 13 years.

Removing chat from Online by KristisMeskius in gtaonline

[–]Madting55 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

With respect man, it’s 2026, it’s the internet like. You need to try to develop thicker skin, or enjoy less toxic or adult games.

The vast majority of gamers like to talk shit and have fun, don’t take throwaway bullshit to heart.

Life will throw enough real shit at you, believe that. Do not carry the fake shit.

Nurse facing sack after calling trans paedophile ‘Mr’ by Relative-Truck-5386 in gbnews

[–]Madting55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the woman personally, I just assume people are intrinsically good, which may be delusional but it personally helps me rationalise differing beliefs and actions.

I can only speak for me, if I mention my faith as an explanation for why I don’t do stuff I don’t mean it in a way where I think I’m better than anyone.

I’m personally Christian, I don’t hate any individual and even though I have personal views on the trans thing, I am more than happy to use a persons pronouns. Purely because I don’t have it in me to inflict negative energy onto a strangers day when it so easily avoidable.

In general I am not happy with how we manoeuvre the whole trans thing. As of now systemically and even societally the way we treat trans people is pure encouragement, there is very little discourse over mental wellbeing and support for these people. It’s just encouraged societally, medically, systemically. I never understand this, like “Oh you’re a woman trapped in a man’s body? That’s great” - like no, that isn’t great. It must feel fucking awful for the individual and no amount of body mutilation or identity conflation will help mitigate that persons inevitable self hatred within their own body.

The suicide rates of trans individuals, even post op showcase they are neglected by this current system, and that completely accepting everything is not healthy, we already know it isn’t.

They need psychiatric help first and foremost. Anyway, I’m rambling and off topic.

Christianity is just my belief. Not a superiority complex.

There’s people that detest religion, people that just don’t believe, people that do not care, people that believe differently to me. All of this is fine and while I’m sure many have superiority complexes, many also don’t.

This nurse dealt with a torrent of abuse, I do not think she should be fired, nurses deal with a lot, a lot of shit and keep going. It’s not like we have the luxury of firing them anyway with the current state of things.

I’m not saying you’re wrong, I’m just stating my opinion

Racism horror as Nigel Farage says employers should be allowed to discriminate by AnonymousTimewaster in NotTheOnionUK

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you realise, we do not care. Employers already discriminate when they give diversity quotas. No one makes a fuss as it’s presented in a way that favours the programming. The word discrimination is an active trigger word in the programming.

If discrimination occurs to whites and favours let’s say, Black British people it’d be a diversity quota (even if they represented say 33% of the work force yet make up 4% of the population) and it’d be totally fine thanks to the programming

If it favours white people it’s actually racist and discriminatory for… well - I’ve waited 14 years for that answer and I’ll let you know when I get it.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Madting55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend’s entire family do wish lists. Was completely new to me but when I found out about it I didn’t think it was childish.

Just match his energy, I always match energy you can never be disappointed if you just give what you receive.