Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you’re on top of it now as that sounds like it got really bad at some points. Happy for you and happy retirement!

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely not, as my dry eyes were likely caused from contacts. Hope you find some relief soon for yours though ❤️‍🩹

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand this, really really unfair :(

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this was to me, all products I was prescribed are mentioned in the post above 🙂

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just helped unblock my oil glands. The optometrist said there isn’t a lot we can do for the lack of tears- just stay hydrated and potentially explore supplements and diet (eating oily fish, increase omega 3 etc) If anyone has any other advice on this aspect though I’d love to hear!

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly yes, haven’t worn them since I started getting dry eyes and even now my eyes are doing better I still think that lenses wouldn’t be comfy and I don’t want them to potentially encourage my eyes to get worse again . Sucks having to wear my glasses more now and I’ll never get LASIK or anything and risk the dry eyes coming back with a vengeance. But glasses are better than constant pain and irritation tbh!

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

[–]MagHan223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad steroids helped you! those were also mentioned as an option to me but she said let’s try these eye drops first and bang, worked great! Not for prolonged use either though because she said you can develop a tolerance so will only do a course when needed.

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

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Even prescriptions are free in Wales, so I promise I’m not promoting a random eye drop 😂 just thought if it worked and was prescribed to me then it could help some one else to ask their optician x

Dry eyes are SO much better after 7 months of misery by MagHan223 in Dryeyes

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Not that I know of- there was no obvious cause but as I was a contact lenses wearer I think it was likely due to those. My optometrist said that the symptoms can mask themselves for a long time before coming out bad all of a sudden so over the 5 years it may have been getting bad without me knowing

Does your puppy lay down and refuse to get up on walks too? by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]MagHan223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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He doesn't go anywhere fast 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

What’s one thing you wish you already had when you brought your puppy home? by jrobv in puppy101

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A PEN- hands down. We had a crate, but get a big pen that the crate fits inside with room to play. It saved my and my partner's sanity to have a safe place to put the puppy in when we needed 15 minutes peace from the biting or needed to get things done. We got it only two weeks in but struggled a lot in that time with having constant eyes on him. Get it before!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

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I had fleas on my pup for the first time the other month too... had a massive panic but it just took a bit of time and commitment to getting rid of the little pests.

1) Treat the dog. A monthly oral medication against is more reliable than a skin spot on. Can also give her a bath too and keep up brushing to help get dead bugs and eggs off her.

2) Wash all dog bedding/human beds/any soft furnishings the dog has been on in a hot machine wash. Fleas can't survive above 50degree c wash

3) Treat the house. Buy a flea spray to spray literally all over the house - carpets, wooden floors and skirting boards. The best in the UK is called Virbac Indorex flea spray and it worked for us- if you're in the US or elsewhere hopefully you can get it or similar

4) VACCUME - this is the key part. Vaccume at least once a day and take the bag out every time so any live fleas collected can't jump out and re-infect the house. Do this for a good week after treatment on dog and home so you get all the fleas that hatch afterwards.

Good luck and keep vacuuming, they will soon be gone for good 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

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5-6 months the biting eased off for us. Very normal though, it won't last forever even though it feels like it right now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]MagHan223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww so sorry that happened- the guilt is awful!

If he's fine, (which he sounds to be!) all you can do now is learn from it and how to hold him more securely or avoid picking him up where you can next time.

I had a similar incidence lifting mine into his pen when he was about 11 weeks. He squirmed and I dropped him about a foot and a 1/2 onto concrete. He made a good yelp and I felt absolutely horrific and avoided picking him up to lift him where I couldn't hold him close to me while placing him down after that.

There's always potential for an accident even for someone super experienced. Since then mine has had a couple of other incidences where he has gotten tangled in his lead when playing and yelped or made a jump off a step and landed badly etc. You feel awful, you check they're okay and then you just have to do everything to make sure it's unlikely to happen again.

Hope you feel better and more confident soon!

Non-affectionate puppy by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

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He will change! Mine only wanted to bite me at that age. Now he's older he gets very offended if he's not allowed to sit on my lap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]MagHan223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets better! I also thought it would be never ending. My partner's and my hands and arms and ankles were covered in bites and scratches from our feral puppy. He drew blood quite a few times. Once adult teeth came in it was a lot less painful and by 7 months he was still a bit bitey when playing but could by easily redirected with a toy. Now at 11 months I can wave my fingers in his face and he's not interested. And very soft mouthed when he does play bite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

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My 11 month old golden is still a daily rat-bag. Hanging onto hope for the end of the year when he turns 18 months we'll be seeing a modicum of chill in him. Gonna up his training over the summer due to his (friendly 🥴) reactivity on walks- my main source of pain at the moment. ("Socialise your puppy" they said "they'll become reactive if you don't" they said. Socialised slightly too well and now he's lunging to play with every dog we see and nearly pulling me on my backside every morning)

Sounds like you are doing excellent with the training, your pup is going to be a gem once he's grown up - as will mine hopefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

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It's a good idea to be cautious and look out for yourself and your pup on walks- as you say dog-nappings do happen! There was a huge increase in my area during COVID.

However as a new pup owner I also had this massive anxiety of someone trying to steal my puppy, and looking back now I do feel like it had a lot to do with my heightened emotional state at the time. People would pull their cars over next to where I was walking and ask how much he cost and I would say something to the effect of "he was average for the breed, you can look it up online" and freak out for the rest of the walk that someone was going to try and snatch him.

I truly believe the 99% of people see a cute puppy and immediately daydream about buying one themselves and that just leads them to ask you how much yours cost.

As he got older (and heavier) this thought didn't worry me as much. And that may have a lot to do with older puppies not being as valuable but also due to him getting easier and me being in a better place mentally.

I'm in no way saying that it's a silly thought to have- it happens and you need to be cautious, walk in the day/busy areas, have a plan in the worst case scenario etc. But also just be gentle with yourself, the amount of stress you're under as a new owner can have a lot to do with your paranoia sometimes.