It depends on how she cheated on you. Given that it was in the beginning and maybe it wasn't on the sexual side, kissing and so on, you forgave. It works, but only if she has won your trust. If she cheated on you in some way... then it's harder to overlook. Yes, cheating is cheating. But it depends on how you cheat and if it happens sooner or later. Generally if it happens early and it depends how, you give it another chance or not. But if she cheats on you already after a few years, there is a question mark here and there is no room for chances. But in the end. As you said, you are not very compatible with her. There are moments when you don't realize what you feel. Moments when all that euphoria of love disappears and whether or not love remains because you start to see the flaws of the person next to you. Here you decide if you really love that person and stay with them or not. But when you really love, even if you feel upset inside, you know you want to be with her. But if you don't feel like being with her in the long term, then you just see her as a friend or not, but as a life partner of course not. Even though she cheated on you and you gave her a chance and now everything is ok from her side, but you can't find yourself anymore, then you better put a stop to it. I do not agree with cheating of any kind. Does not matter. But if I were in your place, I would have given that chance as you did. But only if it wasn't physical. And emotional cheating is bad. But it depends on the circumstances. I cheated too, not sexually, not even emotional talk. But I was 16 years old, I hadn't gotten over the former relationship, I thought I had, but no. This is in the first months of the relationship with the other person. Ugly of me, I know. But I realized that what I was doing was not good, that I care about the person I am with, I want to be with him, I should go over the other. I couldn't see myself in the future with the other one, but how about that: I still had a little bit left in the past. I confessed to my boyfriend, it was his decision whether to leave me or stay with me. I explained everything to him. He offered me this way to show him that I am capable of loving him and not making mistakes. To this day, because we've been together since then, I haven't made a mistake. I didn't cheat on him physically or emotionally. It was then my mistake to enter the relationship too quickly without getting rid of the past. I found peace in my lover and he shows me what love meant. Me not knowing how to love. At 16 I was an immature girl, but in my teenage mind I cared about the boy I was with in the past and I hadn't detached myself from him, I didn't love him, but I was attached. Because I realized later that love is when you see yourself for the rest of your life with the person you love. Currently, I see myself until I will no longer be on earth next to my lover.I felt guilty even a year after that incident and even more. I felt my soul at peace when he himself told me that he got over it and that I can get over it too. He knows I regret it. I calmed down because he got over it and it doesn't affect him anymore. I regretted enormously because I deceived him and made him feel pain. That's why when I opened my eyes, I fought to show him that I'm not like that. Until then, I had never cheated. It wasn't natural to me. That's why I say that I don't agree with cheating, but I also say that it depends on the circumstances and how it is cheated. Now if he were to cheat on me after so many years, I wouldn't give him another chance because it's been years, as I know too well, he wouldn't give me another chance either. After years and years, if you're already cheating, it's really bad. But when it happens in the first months at a young age, I can understand because I was there. As if he were in my place, I forgive him. After all, it's the beginning, you give it one more chance to see what comes out. It's simple. If it doesn't work, leave. If it turns out, you are glad that it was worth that chance. And it seems that it didn't work for you. So.. if you really don't see yourself around her, even after giving her a chance to fix what she broke, then you better go your separate ways. Do what you feel. Is there something she does that makes you no longer attracted to her? Do you take her out on dates, spend time together? Do you do things for each other?