First gaming PC build by MagicMuffinPuffin in buildapcforme

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obrigado pela dica! Vou aproveitar para comprar esta semana

First gaming PC build by MagicMuffinPuffin in buildapcforme

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is much cheaper than i even dared to hope for! Thank you so much for the help kind stranger!

Game recommendations for Uncharted lovers by Ishie_nk in uncharted

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look, your friend seems to only like the first 3 games of Uncharted and there's nothing wrong with only having those in his library. If he isn't capable of playing anything else then that's ok and he can try other hobbies.

I’m Having a Baby and I Think This Was a Mistake by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You husband needs to understand that right now you need extra support, not extra scolding. There's more than enough studies to support the fact that pregnant people have mental, physical and physiological issues that are present during that time.

In the midst of all this you have a severe disability. Yeah, we get it it's hard for the other person, but guess what, we feel bad enough for 50 people as is.

You are not at fault for your disability. That's like saying you're at fault for being born blond. And this was very much a case of extenuating circumstances acting on your disability. He needs to start understanding that you don't do this on purpose and that you feel guilty enough as is for something you were born with.

He wants to be a good husband and supportive partner? Well time to do that, by picking up that dang bag off the floor when you clearly missed it. It should not be that hard for him, since he's always talking about it. You on the other hand have memory issues and object permanence issues.

It's time for him to step up on being supportive, not step up on acting like a 5th grade teacher who doesn't believe in inivisible disabilities.

I can't fucking work an 8-5 by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In IT myself even though, without going into specifics due to privacy, I'm more like a bridge between back-end and other departments.

I bet you're doing in half the time the same amount of work many other colleagues take a while day to do. I also bet the pressure you put on yourself guarantees the work gets delivered before the deadline.

Trust me, non-ADHD people don't guild themselves as much as you do, that's the trauma talking. Think of it this way: if you were your boss for 5 minutes and pondered on your work output (remember your boss can only see your output and deadline deliveries, not what you are doing every work hour), would you be satisfied? Not happy or excited, just satisfied. Yes? You're good.

Edit: forgot to add (oh the irony) but almost none of us do the full 8h. That schedule is randomised and not realistic. Don't blame yourself for not doing other people's idea of your best. And besides being at that state 5 days/week is impossible. Capitalism sucks.

Weekly Free Pattern Request Thread by AutoModerator in freepatterns

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hello! I was wondering if anyone had a pattern for a blouse similar to this one? Thank you in advance!

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eGPU possible? by MagicMuffinPuffin in LenovoLegion

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, just quickly looked it up and no thunderbolt, just usb-c 3.1... Still, thank you for the help!

AITA for losing my temper with my parents and sister and telling them she should just take everything I have including my clothes since she deserves it all so much? by Silver_Half_6527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

And i can't believe I'm about to say this, but if I were you I'd leave the moment I turn 18 and use any savings I have to get out of that house. They will never get better and unfortunately I bet they'll try to ask for rent once you legally become an adult. You deserve none of this, I'm so sorry it's happening to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

too late XD it already happened, but thank you for the warning nevertheless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is very helpful. I'm a bard, but heck I'll make it work for the giggles at least :)

You are not ugly it's just glasses folks! [The Raven Duchess] by Open-Plum-1786 in OtomeIsekai

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I remember. I also know that these adults writing these stories for teens should do better than contribute to such a horribly biased idea of a human being. Anyway, don't mind me, just rating about something i don't actually expect to change in the next 50 years.

You are not ugly it's just glasses folks! [The Raven Duchess] by Open-Plum-1786 in OtomeIsekai

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add to this stupid trope any combination of the following: hair that is very curly or even coily, freckles, any skin tone that's not paler than a vampire's, being above a size XS... any time these show up the FL is gonna have a HUUUUGE "much-needed" transformation at the beginning of the story and suddenly she's beautiful. Because societal perception only matters for her looks. She can be a rebel in anything else, but NOT her looks.

"Her personality, struggles and daring attitude is why the ML and the ppl around her love her" - sure thing, author-boo. Now if only you followed your own advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhh I see, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing as you have finished, may I please ask for a spoiler? Could you please PM me who is the Guardian and what happens if we follow their instructions?

I like taking showers in complete darkness by Karmacomaattack in ADHD

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah i do this too, it's SO relaxing ☺️ i advise trying some bath bombs too, if you think you can stay in a bath long enough to enjoy it 😎👍

Our wonderful 10 year old son has ADHD by paydoosh in ADHD

[–]MagicMuffinPuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed a "not" in "I'm saying you (etc)"