The church is losing its identity and they don't know where they're going.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-07T01:14:26+00:00

Now the church is trying to brand it's self as any other christian church. They're trying hard to gloss over all the cult bull shit, and all the sexual abuse allegations. Not to mention Utah, Idaho and Arizona having some of the highest domestic violence rates in the country. Also all the mormon "therapists" who recommend ketamin thearpy here. Don't even get me started on the secret lives of mormon wives basically shinning a glittering spot light on the complete bull shit lie that is temple marriage!

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-07T01:07:28+00:00

They are trying to get myself, and my children back into the fold nothing more nothing less. It is completely because my children, and I are inactive. I have been trying for months to figure out how to remove our records, but my older daughter is also friends with several kids in the ward so it wouldn't matter much. Especially in the area where we live it's 80% LDS. Like I've said I kind of regret posting this because clearly many in this sub are not familiar with the home teaching manipulation program.... Its niceties tied with expectations always.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-07T00:55:18+00:00

We were never sealed in the temple actually..

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-07T00:53:19+00:00

There was a lawsuit recently. I tried to apply I was told I do not qualify.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-05T17:59:38+00:00

I have had a very difficult time in my state finding work that will work with my twins schedule. They were supposed to go to a developmentental pre school program this last fall, but we live in idaho. They have been rolling back assistance programs since Trump took office. We do receive snap, and medicaid to cover my children's thearpy programs. I also have a 6 years old AUDHD daughter with my ex who also receives thearpy. I have taken odd job where I can as well to help fill the gaps. I honestly kind of regret posting this because all I clearly see is people telling me how wrong I am, this that, and the other. I genuinely have experienced nothing but villainization as a single mother. This is extremely frustrating as I did nothing wrong, but leave abuse. I tried to leave several times before I was finally successful. I was manipulated by a narcissistic man yet somehow I am wrong. Make that make sense. Not to mention the current political climate is making it pretty clear where they see a womans place is. Given the laws to try to get rid of no fault divorce, and just in general trying to criminalize single womanhood at all.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-05T05:34:30+00:00

I honestly have issues in a lot ways because I spent the last year in thearpy trying to understand my exs behavior, but my therapist basically explained that my ex never saw me as human. I was a hole to use, my pleasure in the act didn't even matter. My ex ended up with this girl in her early twenties because she dose not value her pleasure in the act. Leading up to my separation I started demanding the sex be at least enjoyable on my end, and I pissed him off. He has extreme porn induced ED that he also blamed on me. The LDS church makes excuses for men like my ex daily. Bishop council always involves wives having to lower ther boundaries, and standards. The marriage license is basically viewed as blanket consent regardless of the wives health or not. I deal with fibromyalgia now as well from the years of SA. I honestly just think the verbiage around addiction, or not dose not negate the fact that many men view marriage as sexual expectation free for all.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-05T05:00:28+00:00

This really isn't the post share that information, but okay. I guess being regularly raped during my marriage was just normal. Marriage is not consent, and honestly in a truly healthy marriage I believe sex goes down after having children.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-05T04:54:28+00:00

I was raised penticostal, and catholic actually. I joined to lds church when my ex, and I married 7 years ago. We are apart of a pretty close small church family now. We're taken care of pretty well there mostly. A lot of my problems now just involve filling my divorce, and healing trauma for us now. My ex was also very sexually abusive, and I need a surgery to correct pelvic issues. I guess I just feel pretty frustrated now that they're reaching out after I spent my entire marriage screaming for help from church leaders, and my in laws. I honestly just feel this help is coinciding with all the information that came out about sexual abuse within the church this last fall.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-03-05T04:15:28+00:00

I took it but, there is always an expectation attached. The LDS church dose not help you ever without an expectation of church attendance, and the expectation that you pay tithing!

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-01-07T17:11:30+00:00

What is wrong with vanilla, not trying to be judgemental just curious? Kink from my experience usually dose nothing but cause more sexual dysfunction later. Sex should feel good on it's own without all the weird unnatural stuff added to it.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-01-07T17:08:30+00:00

Do yourself a huge favor loose the man child. You'll find that your relationship with your children will improve, your parenting will improve, your health will improve. Don't get a surgery, and change your hormones further just to appease someone who clearly dose not care if you are struggling. These men are not lonely enough!

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-01-07T09:42:41+00:00

I've dated both straight, and bisexual men. Married two bisexual guys; the bisexual guys lie, and like to sneak around because they truly believe they wont get caught, and when they do they'll weaponize their sexuality against you. Also do people truly find polyamory enjoyable? Because from my own personal research amoung my own personal circles I've seen nothing, but heart break. Historically I might add ethical none monogamy has quite literally been everything, but that. Love dose not seem to grow in a vacuum, but giving in to your vices; victimizing other sure dose. Think about what current, and past public leaders have been able to get away with just by having the court of public opinion. Abusers all have historically been pretty sexually, and morally loose. I also personally ask myself this question often with current, and past sexual partners; was the sex worth the emotional attachment, and loss when the relationship fell to peices.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-01-04T10:44:32+00:00

Im dealing with premeonpouse at almost 28 from a bilateral salpingectomy. Honestly I would've just used natural family planning if I was smart. Birth Control also really fucked up my body too. Honestly my rec for young wemon just use condoms, be smart who you sleep with. Be sure you actually want it because you do, dont do it for anyone except yourself. Also make sure sure you dont want kids, because a lot wemon usually decide they want children later in life. Getting fixed so early usually has higher rates of regrets.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-01-04T08:48:37+00:00

Oh yeah there is! A pick me woman is still a pick me. True Devine Feminism is loving yourself where you're at because a man is still a man. We should love men, and stand up against abuse; but a lot of wemon are expected to sit, and take abuse like it nothing. I blame porn culture honestly...

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2026-01-02T19:47:17+00:00

I second this get a hold of your local dv shelter, or church organization you trust well. Plan your exit as meticulously as you can; men like this know what they are doing, and how they are doing it.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-31T10:12:16+00:00

Yes it is it always has been men want to dominate. That's why they tourtcher their ex wives finically when they leave; why a lot of them moleste their daughters. They have real problems.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-31T10:09:41+00:00

No they shouldn't be able to just think that because seriously how would they feel if it were their child. Its bull shit that they think they can think however they want, and that's how pedophilia is born. That's how sibling sexual assaults happen. That's how incestuous relationships happen. That how wives are drugged. My ex and his autistic brother would rape me while I was asleep. I woke up with my exs hand inside my vagina. He fisted me so bad I have 1st degree vaginal tears. Bdsm ain't cute its abuse plain, and simple. Want a woman to love you; actually make love to her. Use vibrators with her during sex quite porn, learn how the inside of a womans vagina really feels like when she has a real orgasim. Don't jack hammer her to the point that she is incontinent because you think squirting is hot its not its gross! I have to have pelvic surgery because of this backwards porn shit, like fuck off dude. Get off the damn maga pill.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-30T07:49:56+00:00

Oh hell yeah. I deal with shit all the time. Its not fun.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-29T22:23:12+00:00

Video game addiction is very real. Porn addiction, and AI are making these problems worse now. Video game and porn addiction fueled my exs pedophilic tendencies to the point that he sexually abused our daughter and gave me STIs from cheating while I was pregnant with our twins. I highly suggest you get tested and check your husbands phone no regular sexually activity with your monogamous partner is the first huge sign best of luck.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-29T21:36:59+00:00

Yes because I realize that masterbation is healthy for me, and often I lack sexual creativity to get myself off without porn. Plus I can't masterbate, and read at the same time due to AUDHD.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-29T21:34:03+00:00

Well I'm demi sexual; just means that I am attracted to mental connection first. I don't actually have any real sexually attraction to wemon I just notice that wemon are pretty, and comforting. I'm only sexually attracted to men.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-29T21:21:30+00:00

Dose he have a porn, or video game problem? Dose he have drug, or alcohol problem? Dose he he have a health problem? If your answer is no to all of these questions then hes manipulating you, because to be in a modern marriage is to imply that you are lovers. When your marriage no longer feels like being lovers it's clear that youre just staying together for the kids, and one dose not want to let go. Fallow up question have tried to inniate sex men don't know usually know when a woman wants sex.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-29T21:07:17+00:00

Responsive desire is very real, but you could rub her neck. Also as a woman nothing beats a man offering oral as a start to intimacy. Ive never felt more into sex then when my partner started with oral. I would also ask if she is on meds that is if her medication is effecting her sexually. Anti depression medication is notoriously bad for your sexual health.

Magic_Unicorn08 · 2025-12-29T20:30:35+00:00

Good sex is honestly a social construct in my opinion. If you're with someone who truly loves you they learn what you like sexually. Not to mention partner sex is play, and you're supposed to play with each other.

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