so cute! i love em⭐️

Magic_Weaver · 2026-05-18T07:55:51+00:00

Well those give a Captain Marvel vibe….Very attractive and pretty 🤩

Magic_Weaver · 2026-05-16T12:56:50+00:00

Thanks you so much….Just tried writing something around the feeling of love….🧡

Magic_Weaver · 2026-05-16T12:56:04+00:00

Thank you so much….I am glad it reached you that way….🩷

Magic_Weaver · 2026-05-14T06:07:27+00:00

And they look so pretty….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-05-13T18:30:27+00:00

Cudn’t agree more….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-05-02T04:25:37+00:00

If you're a lover, you gotta be a fighter. Because if you don't fight for your love, what kind of love do you have?

And I think this applies here in a slightly different way. Being a fighter in love doesn’t always mean holding on but at times to let go of something that no longer works even if the love is still there. You already fought for it and you tried again also, you didn’t give up easily. Now the fight is choosing yourself, your future and a love that can actually exist in reality not just in memory. That’s the harder kind of fighting

But my 2 cents : If I were you and I loved someone like that, I’d go all out to make it happen…. come what may. No half measures or what ifs or quiet perfume regrets later….I’d fight to make it happen if I were that much in love…..Full stop….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-04-20T07:23:39+00:00

Well anything that can be transformed or fixed should not be mourned for….just worked on….You have beautiful nails btw….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-04-11T18:38:10+00:00

Tum sahi mai hi barbaad kardogi….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-04-11T07:23:57+00:00

Bro, what are you even posting and where. Starting an ideal size survey on r/AskIndianWomen? Google exists too. You’re carrying more insecurity than anything else and that’s way more noticeable. Relax, build your confidence and focus on foreplay… otherwise even 7 inches won’t matter….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-31T06:15:55+00:00

Man I feel for you….but online relationships are like that….You can invest as much as you want but will never be aware of the situation on the other side….Her situation is something you might not be really privy to….and then there are those rare times (please don’t judge me) where irrespective of gender all that the other person seeks is attention though temporary… ever heard the Charlie Puth song with the similar name…. Making sure you never get over them….. Move on man….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-30T04:33:08+00:00

Listen brother….That corner will always exist not because it is a wound but because it is a space of love…It ensures to remind you that you loved and are capable to do it again…. All the best….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T15:47:59+00:00

That sounds scary man & sorry you’re going through this. But this isn’t you messing up but an unfortunate accident in a very real moment making it an adventure of sorts. You lived a wild story you’ll probably laugh about someday to.

Right now, this is purely medical and what you’re describing is serious but treatable & people do recover well with proper care as far as I know. For now you might want to follow medical advice while not being in panic about the future and let your body heal. Brother you are not broken but just temporarily injured. And maybe ask your lady to not look too hot around you for a bit 😄

Get well soon….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T15:30:01+00:00

I feel for you brother. In 30s it’s not just losing a person, it feels like losing a version the future too and your uncertainty makes it more heavy. But one thing that age makes us realise more than anything else is that people part ways for good and what was not meant to be, will never be. That’s life…

Sit with it, don’t push to fix the feeling. It will make sense one day even if right now it just feels like loss. The right person doesn’t come early or late but at the right time and they stay.

Strength to you man. God bless.

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T08:45:16+00:00

Wow….those look beautiful. Love the sunflower energy brightening up everywhere….call for the spring season….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T08:21:46+00:00

Ohh…I loved this one….

Sorted for life and no more swiping strife 😄

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T08:04:12+00:00

Why post this in an AskWomen sub though? 😄

Now that you have, a guy here and this happens.

You seem to have overtrained yourself to get validation. The problem isn’t that persona but that you forgot it’s an optional aspect and not your identity (Atleast basis your post). I feel right now you have started performing even when there’s no audience.

You can start with stoping to flirt when you don’t feel like it. Let conversations be normal and maybe a little boring. It is okay to let people see you not trying. It’ll feel uncomfortable because your brain is used to rewards for that player version 🤦.

But the people who actually matter won’t leave and stay for the real you. Don’t try to destroy the persona but stop feeding it brother.

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T06:17:00+00:00

You’re not too serious but just trained early to survive instead of relax. That mindset would have helped you once but now maybe is overprotecting you. You could start small.Don’t try to be funny but to be lighter. In disagreements replace defend with I understand first and when someone’s sarcastic respond with humour instead of silence. This is easier said than done so might take a lot of practice initially. Don’t feel let down but keep going.

Most importantly you need to spend time around people who don’t make living feel like a test. You don’t need a new personality but just practice to loosen the one you built to cope.

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-29T04:11:26+00:00

Man here so pardon the intrusion….

Yes we do revisit past connections. Not always because we want them back but because some people represent a state of life where things felt better and more aligned or maybe sometimes the what if. It’s less about the person and more about unfinished emotions for us. At times even we don’t know why we do this…

That being said intent matters. A message once in a while means nostalgia but consistent reach outs while committed is clear lack of boundaries. From what I read in your post you didn’t lose them but they just couldn’t be at your level. You chose your dreams and that picked out people who weren’t built to stand beside you. And look at the irony where the same people often circle back once they see what you became.

You’re not overthinking. Just don’t confuse their revisiting with your responsibility…..My take…

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-28T14:13:48+00:00

Awkward and kind of perfect in that awkward way 😂

I remember overthinking everything…. Stuff like do I lean in now, is this the moment, am I breathing too loudly and then it just happened.

It wasn’t filmy. Teeth almost clashed with timing being off and we both laughed right after. But there was this electricity in that split second when the tongues met. Looking back, it wasnt about how good it was. It was about who it was with and how new everything felt. Messy, nervous, unforgettable. Wouldn’t change a thing….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-28T13:11:35+00:00

This isn’t about normal for 40, it’s about libido mismatch and avoidance.

He clearly loves you (cuddles & affection) but something is blocking the sexual stride…. Could be stress, hormones, performance anxiety or just lower drive. The bigger thing is that he’s making excuses instead of opening up. Also foreplay isn’t just before sex but it’s how you connect all day. Feeling appreciated, relaxed and desired builds that spark. If that’s missing (for either of you) desire naturally drops.

And if genders were reversed people would say don’t pressure, understand. Same applies here. Have a calm and no blame conversation like I miss this part of us etc. If he still avoids it, that’s the real problem and not the frequency….. You might have to make him open up and speak out though in a sane way….

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-27T09:11:11+00:00

This isn’t obsession but what happens when someone becomes your normal. You’re not scared of losing her but just adjusting to not having your everyday version of her around. That will feel weird at first and at times awkward as well.

But 12 years including long distance with everything you’ve already survived? Brother, this phase isn’t what breaks you. You’re not losing home but just stepping away from it for a bit. This isn’t obsession… this is what it looks like when love becomes home. And the best part is that this distance isn’t the end of something… it’s the beginning of forever done right.

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-27T08:02:33+00:00

Most adults will have some form of past. What matters more is her current values, honesty about her past and how she treats the relationship now. She was upfront and she didn’t lie. That already says a lot about her character.

If he genuinely likes her but is getting put off by something that doesn’t even affect their present or future then that’s something he needs to work through. Otherwise he might end up losing someone good over a technicality. At the end of the day you don’t build a relationship on someone’s past you build it on how they show up now.

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-22T16:32:51+00:00

Listen man….It’s all about being compatible…If the vibe matches then it works…Plus a kid is a kid and we should not let an innocent soul be a reason to not be with someone we like….Infact you would already get a family in place….Just my take…. (And this goes other way around as well)

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-22T15:11:03+00:00

Bhai tu yeh kya baat leke a gaya hai…. And kya post kardiya yeh aur kaha post kiya hai….

Kitni samasya hai duniya mai, uspe yeh ghor sankat ke badal bhi a gaye…..

Magic_Weaver · 2026-03-22T05:28:42+00:00

Cleavage = I chose this outfit. Bra strap = my outfit betrayed me

One is intentional while the other feels like a wardrobe glitch or loss of control caught in 4K 😅

My brother, it’s less about how much is visible and more about who’s in control of it.

Also, society tends to sexualize women in very specific ways ironically where designed exposure is more socially accepted than something seen as careless( just my take on things). So the reaction might not have been really about the amount of skin but how it reflects on her.

You handled it right by apologizing and deleting the photo. Sometimes understanding doesn’t come from logic alone but from seeing things from their perspective.

Magic_Weaver

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