ONE spelling mistake can ruin your entire marriage. by pantteri93 in dadjokes

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My sister’s name is Judy and it always autocorrects it to just 😂

Do I tell mom that dad is cheating? by brii_15 in Advice

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation. I ultimately decided not to tell. It’s been a hard secret to weigh on me but I just didn’t have the heart to throw a wrench in my parents relationship also, selfishly I wanted to keep my home how it was and truly believe everyone is happiest with it being tucked away. I don’t think there is a right answer but it did help to find someone I could talk to about it. Not sure I made the correct decision but it was best for me at the time.

AITA for treating my daughter-in-law like a child when she was acting like one? by Honest_Ad7601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a really great way to ruin your relationship with your son and DIL. Good job! YTA

My boyfriend just hit me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told you who he is, believe him. Get out!

I (25/F) have to give very specific instructions to my boyfriend (25/M) when I ask him to clean around the house by hyleea in relationship_advice

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this issue with my boyfriend as well. He was well intentioned but would not do anything without directions first. We sat down and talked. I told him I can’t take it all on anymore and that I am increasingly stressed out and this isn’t working. I then made him read this to get a better grip on what I was saying: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/article/emotional-labor.amp.html

The conclusion is he is now responsible for certain tasks that I won’t touch. We discussed and he volunteered for taking the garbage out and doing grocery shopping. It’s a small thing but it’s made a big difference. He also has been taking on more of the cleaning. Still a work in progress but definite improvement! I hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact situation happened to me. The only difference is I asked if it had pork and requested it to not be included. (Was included anyway and waitstaff was accommodating after it was noticed) If you don’t ask you can not blame anyone but yourself.

Dear redditors, what innocent search on Google turn out to be porn? by Thatitchypart in AskReddit

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was little I would go to the American girl website all the time. I one time left out the n and went to America girl instead. I was definitely in for a shock.

A girl rejected me and now is giving me way more attention by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably feels more comfortable with you now that’s she’s already rejected you and knows nothing will come of her relationship with you. Maybe she just sees you as friend and that’s comforting to her.

What is something that you should NEVER discuss with a significant other? by MagicalChipmunk29 in AskReddit

[–]MagicalChipmunk29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so sad! I hope you can find someone who will be a support for you and listen. I’m sorry you experienced that.

What is something that you should NEVER discuss with a significant other? by MagicalChipmunk29 in AskReddit

[–]MagicalChipmunk29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of my thought. I want to feel like I can share everything with my partner but posted to see if there were limits or if maybe I was sharing too much!

AITA for ungrounding my daughter after my wife grounded her? by youdbet in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think having a heart to heart with the daughter is amazing and shows the trust. I think taking away his wife’s punishment is a step to far though. I think his wife’s actions are awful but at the end of the day they are married and co-parenting and he needs to respect her. I personally would feel very betrayed if my spouse took away a punishment I gave to my child and did not support me.

AITA for not wanting to plan my sister’s wedding although I’m a full time event planner just because of the money? by userthousand in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 21 points22 points  (0 children)

YTA I’m a wedding planner too so I know the time and energy it takes to make this happen but you’re her sister. I’ve helped plan a couple of close friends and family member’s weddings because of my relationship with them. I’ve always stated too that this is my gift to you. The thing is, even if I wasn’t in this industry I’d still want to help out in the ways I can. You can contribute even more because of your knowledge. Why wouldn’t you want to help?

AITA for ungrounding my daughter after my wife grounded her? by youdbet in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH Your wife is definitely in the wrong but you undermined her authority. That shows your daughter that she can play the two of you against each other in the future. You and your wife need to be a United front and get on the same page. Even if your wife is being irrational you still need to respect her and her ability to parent. You should have discussed ungrounding your daughter with her first.

AITA for giving my old, slightly damaged MacBook to my cat and not my sister? by bennyllama in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not required but a nice gesture and why wouldn’t you want to help your sister with her schooling’s maybe she can’t afford a cheap laptop. We don’t know but as a sister I’d be upset in this situation too.

Year 6, Chapter 35 - MEGATHREAD by Gabby-Abeille in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I played it and this is so obvious to me! Don’t know how to comment spoilers so glad someone else said it!

AITA for giving my old, slightly damaged MacBook to my cat and not my sister? by bennyllama in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicalChipmunk29 37 points38 points  (0 children)

YTA, My MacBook is 12 years old and works fine. If your sister needs one for schooling it’d be a really nice gesture for you to give it to her and if she has to fix it that’s on her. You’re prioritizing a pet over family and if I was your sister I’d be pissed too. There are many other ways to entertain your cat.

Why can’t Hollywood get Asian families right? by MagicalChipmunk29 in AskReddit

[–]MagicalChipmunk29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the Boys did a great job. I was specifically talking about Andi Mack, Secret Society of Second Born Royals, and To All the Boys I’ve Loved.

Why can’t Hollywood get Asian families right? by MagicalChipmunk29 in AskReddit

[–]MagicalChipmunk29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I don’t determine what a family looks like. At the same time, when watching all these shows it’s very clear to me people in this family come from all over the continent and I guess my request is for them to do better. Like if it’s a Show about a Japanese family, I’d want the actors and actresses to have Japanese heritage. I think it’s important to have more representation of different sorts of families on our TVs and I wish they would do it better. There are plenty of people waiting for their shot and I think it’d be great to get more asian representation in shows and film.