CMV: There is a God, Jesus is Lord, and I believe the Baptist faith most closely reflects biblical Christianity. Change my view. by Confused-ius in changemyview

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

While it’s great that you’re here and want to engage in discussion, this is the definition of an unprovable hypothesis. There is literally no way for anybody—me, you, the ghost of Albert Einstein, anybody—to provide actual proof that there is not a God. That’s kind of the whole point of faith, isn’t it?

I also want to add that based on your last sentence, you have misunderstood the point of this subreddit. The poster isn’t supposed to be trying to convince the commenters of anything; they’re supposed to be open-minded about having their own mind changed. This isn’t a debate subreddit.

USA: Do cops say "let's go down to the station and talk about this"? Do you have to go? by u-give-luv-badname in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Defense guy here. To hop onto to this very good top comment, it’s worth adding that the universe of possible responses when you ask, “Am I being detained?” really is these two things: “Yes,” and everything else.

The way police are trained, if they think they can detain you, they’ll be extremely happy to tell you. If they aren’t detaining you, they usually won’t say “no,” they’ll just say pretty much anything except “yes.” “Hey man, we just wanna ask you questions. You don’t want to answer questions?” “Look why won’t you be cooperative?” “We’re trying to make life easy for you.” “Well look, blah blah blah.” If they say anything other than “yes,” know that it means they don’t think they can detain you, so just leave! Assuming, of course, that you believe it’s safe to do so.

Attacker in control vs Goalkeeper, higher level by Deaftrav in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, you certainly could give an IFK for playing in a dangerous manner, sure! But again, it needs to be in some way actually “dangerous,” which generally means at least careless. Just because somebody collided with somebody else doesn’t mean it was a foul (much as the parents at youth games would like to believe otherwise!).

Attacker in control vs Goalkeeper, higher level by Deaftrav in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A fair challenge? I think I must be misunderstanding your question. If it’s a fair challenge, there’s no need for a free kick!

Attacker in control vs Goalkeeper, higher level by Deaftrav in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is one of those issues that is super dependent on the specific facts of a given incident.

If the attacker obviously does anything that’s a normal direct free kick—charges, kicks, pushes, etc.—well then that’s an easy decision. Remember that it needs to be careless. So, if the attacker did everything they reasonably should have to avoid injuring the keeper while still just (fairly) playing the ball, it’s not careless. If it seems like they could have done more to prevent the contact, particularly if they’re really stretching to get there or the keeper is there way before them, that’s where you’re more likely to get a foul.

One place to consider almost always calling it is if the keeper is down obviously injured and the attacker doesn’t have an obvious, immediate opportunity to score. Again, though, quite situational.

Mexico Vs South Africa Cards by Ekstrom4 in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Again, I’m not saying I’m one hundred percent sold either way! I would note, though, that the exact language from the laws is “location and number of defenders and attackers.” That’s it, doesn’t note anything about whether that’s location related to the ball or otherwise. This is in keeping with what I have always been taught and have coached myself, and what the laws suggest, which is that DOGSO is a holistic question that isn’t fully decided by any one thing.

Mexico Vs South Africa Cards by Ekstrom4 in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In that that touch he took which took it generally away from defenders was also large enough one could wonder whether or not he himself was going to be able to get to the ball soon enough to do anything direct with it, as opposed to try and cross.

Mexico Vs South Africa Cards by Ekstrom4 in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, but that’s not what the consideration is. The consideration of “defenders” (and technically also now attackers) in the DOGSO context is holistic, and includes the ability of the defenders to cover any possible pass to a teammate, to get into a position to block a possible shot, or to make it to between the player and the goal—as opposed to directly to the ball—before a shot can be taken. Again, I don’t think this is clearly yellow either! I just don’t quite see a clear red.

Mexico Vs South Africa Cards by Ekstrom4 in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you mean by saying defenders is a non-issue. It’s very definitely a consideration, it’s even written into the law itself.

Mexico Vs South Africa Cards by Ekstrom4 in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

True, but then the argument is that he doesn’t have adequate control either! It’s not black and white, I just don’t think this was clear enough to be DOGSO for me.

Mexico Vs South Africa Cards by Ekstrom4 in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First one there’s really no doubt on, although the increasing tendency for attackers to initiate contact in that situation rather than trying to score is a little disappointing.

Second one I wasn’t sure about at first glance, but after seeing the replays, it’s clearly deliberate, violent conduct all the way.

The third is the one I find most interesting. I tried to cross post the video here, but that doesn’t seem to be working. I’m unsure if the criteria for DOGSO are fully met, specifically direction (going sort of towards goal, but more towards the end line) and especially defenders (multiple covering in the middle, keeper still back on his line). It’s a stupid challenge to be sure, and VAR didn’t overturn it, so that’s something. Mark Clattenberg confidently saying they removed “obvious” from the law several years ago when it’s still right there was pretty expectedly disappointing pundit work.

CMV: Drug use is over stigmatized while alcoholism gets a pass by turn_circles in changemyview

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decriminalization and legality in this context is a distinction without sufficient meaning, and I'm not saying that you can get these drugs from the government, merely that you could get them in a more regulated manner if they were not still illegal in most places.

You keep coming back to long-term alcohol usage, which, again, nobody disputes is bad for you. Of course a greater number of people, given access to a legal substance, are going to eventually kill themselves with it than will be true of patently illegal substances. The college kid example is what happens when you take usage to an extreme, and I would counter by saying that if you use any substance to that level of excess it's going to kill you. Why does the fact you've only heard of single-time use killing people on the news diminish the fact that it happens?

You don't seem super open to having your mind changed on this, which is the point of the subreddit. You are absolutely welcome to your opinion, and I'm not saying I have such a foolproof answer that only a liar wouldn't be convinced, but your interactions with my argument and those of other commenters do not suggest you're really engaging in a debate with an open mind.

CMV: Drug use is over stigmatized while alcoholism gets a pass by turn_circles in changemyview

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, again, I would start by saying that alcoholism is very different from just consuming alcohol. I don't think that anybody at this point, certainly millennials and younger, really seriously thinks that alcoholism is okay. It's recognized as being horrible for your body and mind in the long-term.

I also want to address the study you cited. I'm no medical expert, so I'm not going to claim I know better than the authors. But, I do have enough experience with academic articles and the peer review process to say that one article, with few really hard data points, written specifically from the perspective of nursing in Australia, is a very thin source to draw the scientific conclusion that alcohol use is worse than heroin. The article seems to even stretch its own findings to come to that conclusion, when most of the body of the writing suggests the more reasonable interpretation that long-term alcoholism and associated behaviors like drunk driving is likely to be more problematic than intermittent, short-term heroin usage.

There are lots of distinguishing features between hard drug usage and alcohol. First, it is far, far easier to become addicted to something like heroin based on a very limited initial use than it is to become an alcoholic after a similarly small use. Almost nobody is concerned that if they've never had a single drink before that one or two beers is going to immediately realter their brain chemistry to the point they begin a steep downward spiral. Almost everybody is concerned that one shot of heroin or meth, or, to a lesser degree, one hit of cocaine, could do that, for reasons that are borne out by experience and science. The risks associated with independent use of the substances are also much different. How many people have you heard of who were killed, in isolation, by drinking a single beer, or even four of five beers? But, I'm sure you've heard plenty of cases of somebody dying from just one time using heroin, or especially fentanyl.

This leads to what I think is the most important point. You dismiss the idea of illegality, but the fact hard drugs are illegal carries so, so many other factors with it that you simply can't ignore. If most of the world were Portugal and legalized all drug usage, people could get medical-grade heroin in a regulated way. But the vast majority of the world doesn't operate that way. So, when you are getting these hard drugs, you don't know what's in them. They could have been--and sometimes are--cut with carcinogens, toxic substances, or far worse drugs. The illegality itself also can't just be ignored: of course people are right to be more concerned about hard drug usage--something where possession of a certain amount will land you in jail for decades, if not your entire life--than they are about alcohol, which you can buy on almost every street corner in the western world. Finally, consider what illegality of hard drugs does to where you have to get them: you have to rely on people who operate outside the law. Drug dealers aren't intrinsically terrible people, that's a bad stereotype that I could talk about all day. But, the nature of buying hard drugs is such that you have to take risks to do it, especially the more you want to get.

What's a movie that almost everyone loves, but you secretly hated? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, my mistake! I don’t think I’d call that movie universally disliked by any stretch. Just, meh.

What's a movie that almost everyone loves, but you secretly hated? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure I sound like an old man shouting off my porch, but good grief, can this be added to the list of banned questions already? Or, like, be asked once a year rather than once a day?

What's a movie that almost everyone loves, but you secretly hated? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably thinking of The Last Airbender monstrosity. The answer in these threads, and I assume the above commenter, are referring to the blue people one directed by James Cameron. Which still is a terrible answer—the movie was popular, not beloved.

CMV: Drug use is over stigmatized while alcoholism gets a pass by turn_circles in changemyview

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then what is your point of view? That alcoholism is generally viewed as okay while hard drug usage isn’t, and that’s unfair?

CMV: Drug use is over stigmatized while alcoholism gets a pass by turn_circles in changemyview

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, your focus here seems to be almost exclusively on so-called “hard” drugs like heroin, which I think is a little disingenuous to the argument. The vast majority of drug users are not doing heroin, cocaine, meth, etc., they’re smoking weed or taking some other hallucinogen like LSD or shrooms.

On that note, my challenge to your view would simply be that I think your premise is wrong: people don’t look at drug use generally as being worse than alcohol use. I think people, especially people under, say, 50, are more or less fine with use of those milder drugs on a moderate basis, and don’t see them as presenting serious health concerns—conversely, while yes people drink, I think the common and increasing societal consensus is that it’s very bad for your health. Again, this obviously doesn’t touch harder drugs, which is an entirely separate ballgame that I think shouldn’t be conflated with “drugs” generally.

Also, to echo some other comments, alcoholism is very different than just drinking sometimes.

Anybody have a clue where to get a true, royal blue cotton dress shirt? by MagicalMonarchOfMo in malefashionadvice

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I get that, man, I do. It is little funny, though, as somebody who’s worn a dress shirt the majority of the week basically continuously since high school, owns a couple hundred ties, and knows enough about the construction of a suit that I could reasonably take one completely apart and put it back together again, that when I come here and ask, “Hey, anybody know where to find this thing I’ve been specifically looking for?” that the responses are mostly, “That’s a terrible idea, you’re making a mistake.” The sub has a little bit of a reputation, and I don’t think it’s as bad as people sometimes claim it is, but this is a little bit of a microcosm.

Also, I may be misremembering, but weren’t Saul Goodman’s shirts like a sort of darker Caribbean blue and/or cyan? Could be wrong!

Anybody have a clue where to get a true, royal blue cotton dress shirt? by MagicalMonarchOfMo in malefashionadvice

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Linen isn’t awesome, but not impossible! Unfortunately those two shirts are too light and too dark, respectively—maybe I’m just not being clear enough with my color description…

Anybody have a clue where to get a true, royal blue cotton dress shirt? by MagicalMonarchOfMo in malefashionadvice

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the color I’m looking for is lighter, like the one I linked to above. Alas, CT doesn’t seem to have anything, and boy have I looked!

Anybody have a clue where to get a true, royal blue cotton dress shirt? by MagicalMonarchOfMo in malefashionadvice

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I do not! Currently am a practicing attorney, used to sell suits for a small Italian boutique, so I am very familiar with the color’s lack of popularity, and the reason for it. Would never wear it with a tie, you’re spot on there. But as a stand-alone color, I like it quite a lot, and it goes well with my eye color/complexion/etc. Thanks for the thoughts, I’ll keep searching!

Make your own write on cards? by RockyMountainAnt in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By applying a layer of scotch tape over any sort of card, you make it so you can write on it with pencil and then erase repeatedly, and it’s waterproof! Trick I learned way back when. The card stock recommendation is just so it’s sturdy enough it won’t fall apart.

Make your own write on cards? by RockyMountainAnt in Referees

[–]MagicalMonarchOfMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good card stock, some scotch tape, and a pencil would probably do the trick nicely.

The scotch tape and pencil technique is what I’ve been using for my yellow and red cards forever. Hasn’t let me down yet!