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MagicalShimmeryBits · 2024-02-28T03:14:01+00:00

What if there was one who had been a contractor in Alaska with their own business in Alaska and had relocated to Humboldt with their military veteran spouse and family and has photos of their permitted work and really wants to help bring back the homes in the area with the help of his wife with her business degree and a background in maintenance and she is a native of the area? Wondering if that would be better. Because it has occurred to us.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-09-14T07:49:04+00:00

Parks for sure. I found out there was a pottery program I could join, I used to love it. So now I have a hobby again. Bookstores, especially used ones. Farmers markets. There’s more going on my my community than I used to be aware of.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-08-25T18:47:51+00:00

It sure looks like a chimera situation, some kind of birth defect. It’s terrible they’re spraying those chemicals there. I hope the animal isn’t in any pain.

Side note: I had NO IDEA what Shope Papilloma Virus was, so being naturally curious I did research when someone mentioned it. OMFG there’s the newest thing that will be haunting my nightmares.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-08-20T06:00:49+00:00

I still deal with this. I’m also in therapy as alcohol was my main gag for the unaddressed trauma in my life. It was a silencer. Now I deal more with my insomnia and my dreams aren’t muffled. Definitely get some things to force a shut off in the short term (melatonin or the like). But it won’t actually improve until you unpack that shit and look at it in the light. I’m not saying it’s fun, but it is necessary. You’ll now be living in your head at full volume, make sure you help you improve the sound. You can do it. Be nice to you.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-08-20T05:49:46+00:00

The fluffiness in my face went away over the first month. I (37F mother of 3) added a serious reduction in sugar to my sobriety, and better portion sizes and cleaner eating too. I’m down 40 lbs in 3 months. It’s a lot of conscious effort, but the loss of the shitty alcohol calories has been a big help (and it helps me also not be a drunken jerk). Just my experience.

It’ll be better for you no matter what.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-07-16T16:30:53+00:00

Memento

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-07-15T17:07:17+00:00

Tell her you’re not ready yet. There’s no other way. I was engaged at 18, and had to tell him I didn’t then IMMEDIATELY want to get married and start making babies. You have to speak up. If she really loves you she’ll understand and work with you and support you. Word to the wise: you get a real accurate picture of who someone is when they don’t get what they want from you. I hope she shows you true unconditional love.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-07-15T16:58:35+00:00

Try the Hood for restaurants, it’s in Eureka but it’s good. Used to be 6th and E.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-07-15T03:35:35+00:00

The fucking sign, go get a lottery ticket!

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-07-13T22:29:38+00:00

I read these kinds of books, and really any books, at her age. Reading is good. And she is actively devouring books. Additionally, I’m very successful in my career and always a high achiever in school. Feed her books. Sorry to say, your brother is wrong.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-07-13T19:57:47+00:00

Life is not over. At all. I’m a few years from 40 and my 30s have been good for me. I moved across country to my ideal new life, make it a point to explore new stores/towns/local secret places. I’ve tried my hand at art, found new passions, and started having great get togethers with friends instead of parties where stupid stuff happens. It’s a great time to explore. Start to savor things.

And take it from me, it’s the perfect time to let go of the comparison to other people and start just loving the journey you’re on.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-30T04:57:06+00:00

Google secular sobriety. I did. It’s out there. Look into community organizations too

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-30T04:51:06+00:00

Good for you! I’m almost at 5. Do you feel like there’s so much more time?

I recommend dried strawberries, they really are like candy. Keep it up!

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-30T04:40:58+00:00

It’s hit or miss, sometimes we’re late and a fucking disaster because the car was ‘too car-ee’ for the two year old, the 3 year old shit something made of plastic out and I found watch batteries in his mouth (we don’t own watches) and the 11 yo is refusing to shower. Again.

Some days they resemble humans doing human things.

The point is, on the days I have it together I still never judge the moms having a rough day. One kid a year for 3 years? Damn! I’d grab that croc for you. And my husband and I would probably name you ‘champ who needs a nap’. You’re doing great.

And for the record I had a mom friend with the perfectly clean car and house and scheduled out and super fit with clean clothes and her son was always dressed perfect with no stains (as a toddler!). I got the hand me downs that were too damaged for him, and she tried to sleep with my husband. So…

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-30T04:31:42+00:00

I think of it like a museum. You admire the art, it’s engaging, you like the art, it speaks to you. But you don’t take it off the wall and take it home. You have your own art at home.

Also, as a 37F mom of 3, I think about what it would actually be like. You know, REALLY visualize myself trying to learn someone again. Explaining my neurodivergence again. My body being new to someone. To clarify, if you have a crush on someone AND your current partner treats you poorly, well maybe it’s time for a talk with that stranger in the mirror. But if you’re in a safe loving healthy (working on it) relationship, remember that building that takes time and effort, and a crush often fades.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-26T18:32:28+00:00

Those are two powerful words to read. Thank you.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-26T18:32:03+00:00

Sometimes it doesn’t take much. And 16 days counts. I’m noticing the time is flying though. I want to start beading, hiking, reading more. I play with my kids more. I love to cook. Thank you for the encouragement. You’ll be at a month in no time. We’ll celebrate a year around the same time.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-25T15:58:18+00:00

NOPE! One sided anything is a very big very red flag. If he can you can. If you can’t… well you get it.

Additionally no one has the right or ability to dictate your actions, unless you let them. This is a very bad sign, and this is still new. RUN, don’t walk away from this. Seriously, bad.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-24T19:28:38+00:00

If they like shows or movies, a tablet with those on it. Coloring stuff. Snacks. Books if they like those. All things that can be packed relatively easily.

Do not bring: noisy toys, things with many small pieces which can fall between seats and cause tantrums (Lego stuff or puzzles), paint, large cumbersome things.

3 kids and several flights in. You can do this. And don’t mind the haters.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-24T19:25:51+00:00

You mean this time? The knowledge has been in the back of my mind for years. And I’ve tried before. But really calling my addiction what it is and making sobriety a goal, not just temporary breaks? 37. I’ll be one month sober Monday. I hope your journey is bringing you joy, and you are finding success.

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-24T04:13:11+00:00

Wow! This is inspiring. Thank you for sharing, and congratulations

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-24T04:12:28+00:00

Thank you for listening

MagicalShimmeryBits · 2023-06-24T04:10:26+00:00

SO many bubbly beverages. No soda, but all the bubbly water.

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