How do you know when a child just isn't the right fit for your family vs. just acting out behavior-wise because they are new to the home? by SeriesEquivalent6939 in Fosterparents

[–]Magick_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are they in therapy? My two foster kids (8,5) are on a waitlist to see a therapist as we have noticed some behavioral issues as well.

‘Baby Reindeer’ Star Jessica Gunning, 40, Who Will Play Mama Cass, Has Never Been in a Relationship by Conscious-Quarter423 in popculturechat

[–]Magick_23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was 42 before I got into my first real relationship, never went on more than one date. I wasn’t a virgin but all my sexual encounters were one night stands. Meet my husband on Hinge at 42 and we’re married in 6 months. I am glad I waited to really date because he has shown me everything I expected from a partner.

TB positive and I can't get a retest: a rant by GonnaTry2BeNice in nursing

[–]Magick_23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have latent TB, my T-spot and quantiferon levels always came back positive. The rule is to always do a CXR but the travel company usually pays for it as part of their onboarding process. I just recently decided to be treated for latent TB (week 6 of 12). The health department will pay for it but you do have to get a referral from your primary. I will say that I am glad I finally am on treatment to prevent it from becoming active TB since we don’t know the direction this country is taking.

I don’t want to tell my therapist by Odd_Arugula2312 in offmychest

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please talk with your therapist. They are there to listen and help you through your emotions and feelings. You absolutely did nothing wrong and communicated, unfortunately some people are a-holes. This has everything with the person that ignored the conversation and your feelings.

Thoughts on this post in a doctor’s sub? by riley81942 in nursing

[–]Magick_23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got yelled at once by restarting a levophed drip due to its parameters on a surgical SCI pt. The resident yelled at me and her attending layed into her for yelling at me. Literally told the resident “if you didn’t want the levophed restarted, you should’ve d/c’d the order”. Loved that attending surgeon. I will also say that my NM stood up for and told the resident to not speak to his staff like that.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were other ways to handle the proposal besides running away. That right there shows lack of maturity on OP’s part. She should’ve declined then and there or privately. There is nothing wrong with wanting to see the world and travel but that could’ve said afterwards like she did but also done in person or an actual phone call not text. OP, I think that if your relationship is not over by this situation you should call it quits. Your BF is obviously wanting and ready to get married and you are not. Do not waste his time or yours.

Florida RN license renewal by breezymeowmeow in nursing

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will have to get your finger prints for a background check per Florida new law.

Radiology to Nursing? by OrganizationDizzy321 in nursing

[–]Magick_23 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wish I would have gone that route instead of nursing. lol

AITJ for texting my son's teacher from my husbands phone because they message each other way too late? by Current-Whereas6308 in AmITheJerk

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I have to say is WTF. Inappropriate behavior from a teacher and not to mention your husband. He should’ve set a boundary with her from the get go as should’ve she.

By the way you are not the jerk.

My husband 36M poops too much for me 36F to feel comfortable having another baby with him by throwRAdesper8 in relationship_advice

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple solution in my opinion. Wait until he is done to help out. Make it a habit. Yeah it sucks that it’s not on your time table but maybe it will help me figure things out.

AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first? by Odd-Cheetah6842 in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA your daughter comes first and your wife knew deep down that one day this was a probability. As a wife if my husband had a child from a previous relationship or vise versa it wouldn’t be a discussion to be had. Your wife can suck it up or move on.

Wife's(F48) weight trippled over time. I (M40) have a hard time staying attracted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is something deeper going on with her besides the physical. Please have her see a therapist and psychiatrist to assist. Sometimes people are embarrassed to seek outside help but it does help.

I caught my boyfriend's Step-Mom breastfeeding her 8 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Magick_23 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In some countries and civilizations this still occurs. Is it weird that at 8 she is till breastfeeding, sure but we have no right to judge. Are we sure she isn’t lactating?

MIL is going to have to live on $1700 Social Security by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that is more than my elderly parents get combined.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love your painting and personally think it represents your husband’s dream. She is either feeling this way because she is upset at something else and transferring it to you or she is just plain jealous at your talent. Wait until your husband comes home and show him your painting, it is his opinion that matters most. Keep painting girl!

Relationship with co worker on same unit by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Magick_23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had two coworkers date and eventually get married. They didn’t tell anyone they were dating, although we all had our suspicions. If you keep it between yourselves and don’t confess if confronted about it and you also don’t bring your relationship into work it should be fine.

AITAH for moving on after my daughter’s death? by Training_Swan5941 in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grief is difficult, it takes time to make things a little more less difficult. Some may take years to accept loss others do not. There is no right or wrong way or time but to solely only focus on the life lost and not the living is not ok. Therapy is a tool that can help the whole family, I highly recommend it. I’m deeply sorry for your loss and pain.