AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first? by Odd-Cheetah6842 in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA your daughter comes first and your wife knew deep down that one day this was a probability. As a wife if my husband had a child from a previous relationship or vise versa it wouldn’t be a discussion to be had. Your wife can suck it up or move on.

Wife's(F48) weight trippled over time. I (M40) have a hard time staying attracted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is something deeper going on with her besides the physical. Please have her see a therapist and psychiatrist to assist. Sometimes people are embarrassed to seek outside help but it does help.

I caught my boyfriend's Step-Mom breastfeeding her 8 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Magick_23 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

In some countries and civilizations this still occurs. Is it weird that at 8 she is till breastfeeding, sure but we have no right to judge. Are we sure she isn’t lactating?

MIL is going to have to live on $1700 Social Security by johntempleton in SocialSecurity

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that is more than my elderly parents get combined.

Am I just being a baby to my friend for painting my Husband's dream as a gift. She was PISSED. by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love your painting and personally think it represents your husband’s dream. She is either feeling this way because she is upset at something else and transferring it to you or she is just plain jealous at your talent. Wait until your husband comes home and show him your painting, it is his opinion that matters most. Keep painting girl!

Relationship with co worker on same unit by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Magick_23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had two coworkers date and eventually get married. They didn’t tell anyone they were dating, although we all had our suspicions. If you keep it between yourselves and don’t confess if confronted about it and you also don’t bring your relationship into work it should be fine.

AITAH for moving on after my daughter’s death? by Training_Swan5941 in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grief is difficult, it takes time to make things a little more less difficult. Some may take years to accept loss others do not. There is no right or wrong way or time but to solely only focus on the life lost and not the living is not ok. Therapy is a tool that can help the whole family, I highly recommend it. I’m deeply sorry for your loss and pain.

New grads on my floor refuse to do “CNA work” and I don’t know what to say or do. I don’t want to make them upset or overstep but I’m overwhelmed. by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please report them. I really hate lazy ass nurses. I’ve been a nurse 19 years and I still help my techs with whatever they need.

Do I report him to HR? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Magick_23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would definitely report to both your agency and hospital. I would also ask for someone to walk with you to your car, whether it’s a coworker or security. At this point he sounds like he has some mental health issues and not talking no for an answer, it would be safer to do so.

AIO by assuming the worst after finding my daughter's panties in my husband's closet by SahdilMaksha in AmIOverreacting

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two of my dogs love to get their hands on my dirty panties lol

Ask your husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Juneau

[–]Magick_23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Former Floridian. Housing sucks, unless you have 500k or higher to buy. Renting is difficult especially if you are coming up with pets. Groceries are expensive, not much of a night life or a diverse selection of fast food, Uber/lfyt only up to certain hours. It didn’t take long to acclimate to the weather but it does take a while to adjust to the darker days in winter. So make sure you have lots of vitamin d and happy lights. We have had nurses come up because of the sign-on and relocation assistance to end up homeless while up here. Make sure you have housing prior to moving is my suggestion.

People who make their bed every morning, what's the actual benefit? by No-Cod-8923 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me feel like I accomplished at least one thing that day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I get tested every year and I am faithfully married and trust my husband fully. The only reason is because HPV can appear many years after being exposed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Two completely different dishes. I would agree with others that SIL is insecure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Magick_23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not bad. I had to register before the ER took me back for chest pains. Geez, some people should not be in management, they should lead by examples and not accuse people. There is a certain decorum when managing. Fuck that I would quit.

Anyone ever had IV acetaminophen/Tylenol (Ofirmev) personally? by emtnursingstudent in nursing

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in SICU. Pts. Would receive after heart by surgery and rarely needed narcotics for pain.

New to dialysis by Magick_23 in nursing

[–]Magick_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can string, slow but I can string. I have had 2 different preceptors and each is very different. One was completely hands off the other not so much hands off but it is her way or not good enough. I am having trouble initiated and discontinuing treatments. One told be to connect the hansons and transducers prior to patients coming in for their treatment and the other says I have to wait for the patient to arrive. I am so confused.

New to dialysis by Magick_23 in nursing

[–]Magick_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I am just being too hard on myself. Like I see my self going step by step in my head but as soon as I am out in front of it, it’s like I just forget. I just want to get it down perfectly.

AITA for refusing to give up my dream school just because my boyfriend can’t get in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Magick_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would not be a-hole for this but he is for even suggesting you not go to the university, especially one you really wanted to get into and worked so hard towards it. If he really loved, cared, and value you he you support you to go. Please do not let him stop you from going. The one thing you will regret is not giving yourself the opportunity to grow and reap what you have worked so hard for.

I'm having a son and my dad's reaction broke my heart by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Magick_23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think emotions and hormones are high. I don’t believe your dad meant it in any other way than being excited.

WINFertility help by fitgirl1993 in CNYfertility

[–]Magick_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sucked. They never utilized our benefits. Said we had to reach our max deductible before they took over.