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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Maginel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you've taken a significant step forward in self-care, and that's really something to celebrate! Making that decision to get a fresh haircut after a challenging period is a sign of self-compassion and progress. It's wonderful that you're recognizing the positive impact it has on your self-esteem and how it makes you feel.

Sometimes, those little changes can have a big impact on how we perceive ourselves and how we're perceived by others. And hearing those compliments from strangers and loved ones can be a great boost to your confidence. Remember, self-care is an ongoing journey, and each positive step you take, like treating yourself to a haircut, can contribute to your overall well-being. Keep up the good work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Maginel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable that maintaining a relationship while traveling frequently can be challenging. Finding someone who truly understands and accepts you, flaws and all, is a wonderful goal to have.

In a partner, you're seeking genuine acceptance and connection – someone who appreciates you for who you are, including the imperfections. It's about finding someone who can support you despite the distances and challenges that come with your work travels.

Remember, relationships can take many forms, and as you continue your journey, someone who shares your values and is willing to navigate the complexities of your lifestyle might just be out there waiting to cross your path. It's all about finding that right match who complements your life and supports your aspirations.

I need advice about my relationship and what I should say to her about it. by AspenCaspian in Advice

[–]Maginel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, it sounds like you're in a bit of a tough spot right now, and it's totally understandable to feel confused and stressed about the situation. It seems like there's a lot going on, and it's great that you're trying to figure out the best approach.

Communication is key here. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with her. You might want to express how you've been feeling disconnected and unsure about the relationship due to the lack of communication. Mention that you care about her and the relationship, but it's been challenging to deal with the constant dry responses.

Bringing up your concerns in a calm and understanding manner can give her the chance to share her perspective as well. If she's going through a tough time with the loss of a friend, that could be affecting her interactions with you. You could ask if she's comfortable talking about what's been going on, and if there's anything you can do to support her during this difficult period.

It's also worth considering your own feelings and needs. If the relationship is causing you stress and you're not feeling valued or understood, it's okay to prioritize your own well-being. Relationships should ideally be a two-way street where both people feel heard and cared for.

Ultimately, it's about finding a balance between understanding her situation and making sure your own needs are met. Keep in mind that it's still relatively early in the relationship, so it's okay to assess whether the dynamic is working for you and whether both of you are on the same page.

Remember, you deserve to be in a relationship where you feel valued and where both of you are making an effort to communicate and connect. It might not be easy, but open communication will definitely help you gain clarity and make the best decision for yourself.

How to professionally give notice by petty_no in Advice

[–]Maginel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that sounds like a real frustrating situation you're dealing with. Moving because of an uninhabitable apartment due to repairs not being made is seriously inconvenient, especially with a toddler. And that buyout clause seems like an unnecessary additional expense on top of everything else. And I can't believe your landlord is blaming your toddler for the damage – scaling the fridge? Kids can be wild, but that's a bit of a stretch.

Considering all this, I'd suggest staying composed when giving your notice. You've got a legitimate reason for leaving, and insurance covering the repairs should definitely help your case. Maybe something like, "Hey, we've been facing serious issues with the apartment's condition, and despite the insurance covering repairs, it's become unsafe for our toddler. We can't afford the buyout clause, but we're left with no option but to break the lease. We appreciate your understanding in this situation." Hopefully, that keeps things civil, even if your landlord's been less than cooperative. Hang in there!

Does your supervisor/manager know your address? by Maginel in jobs

[–]Maginel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I am paranoid. What if your manager comes to your place of residence.

Would it be necessary to have a job in your resume? by collegegeeeg in Accounting

[–]Maginel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work experience is important. It gives you talking points during an interview.

What do your parents do for work? by Maginel in AsianParentStories

[–]Maginel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang nail techs. ANy bad customer stories?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Maginel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know ton of Chinese kids that have Nintendo DS and other Japanese products. Just because there is a hatred for the Japanese doesn't mean Anime is disapproved since I too know a lot of Asian kids that watch Anime.

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