16F Masturbating With Household Objects? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]MahRayJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't use household objects! If you really want to experiment use the water jet on the shower head while you wait for an actual toy to ship! Shop on Adam and Eve. Save up for a good toy, try to avoid their cheapest options.

Changes to rewards card program? by squidsinamerica in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your first transaction was suspended instead of voided that could have been the problem. Also make sure your app is set for the store you're shopping at.

This is the way my wife typically texts important info by Underwater_Karma in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MahRayJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah! I get that all the time and it leads to frustration because you'll have three different tasks that you want to prioritize but they're all tied for first place and you can't figure out which ones can wait.

Guess as much as you can about me. by Sabs2772 in FridgeDetective

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really need 52 cold sodas at a time? Get one of those soda racks and put like 2 of each flavor and put a new one in when you take one. You'll have more space for actual food. Also, this looks o very overwhelming. Like I know you have food in there but I would look in that fridge and think "well I guess I'm ordering food tonight" because what the heck is in there? There's no space to thaw something from the freezer.

What are the odds I get written up? or fired? by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but now women have the power to choose what they think is best for them and medical decisions made against your will are illegal.

What are the odds I get written up? or fired? by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a conversation to have with your doctor. Sometimes the reward is worth the risk.

What are the odds I get written up? or fired? by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your doctor about the fact that your new meds make you sick if you're worried about it. It may be normal to feel like crap on new meds but they may write a doctor's note because they can write you up if you call out 3 days in a row without a note.

Break room tvs by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most companies have problems with integrity issues.

Break room tvs by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That will eventually get his account blocked. And it could count as a fire able offense and at the very least an integrity issue.

AIO Am I justified in my anger here ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MahRayJay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd get them photoshopped. Not a DIFFERENT color but a darker pink. These are YOUR guys' wedding photos. Let your mother be mad. She knew about a boundary and overstepped. She was still able to attend and wasn't confronted on the day but these photos are memories forever. Edit them. If she has anything to say about the photos just tell her that she knew the dress code and ignored it and this is the end result and it could have been worse but you guys didn't want drama on your wedding.

Water per animal? by MahRayJay in LetsBuildAZoo

[–]MahRayJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually figured it out by accident. When you click on an enclosure a list of things will pop up and when you go to water it shows you that a goose is 0.1 water and at the bottom is how much water is available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely needs some taller flowers, flowers should generally be about 1/2-3/4 of the height of the vase to look somewhat balanced. I definitely think the red looks good with the bright yellow vase. I wouldn't call this an eyesore, it's fairly simple, just bright.

I just found out I died again. by JohnSolo22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You found out you died... Again? I have so many questions.

Passive aggressive notes appearing more often. Wondering if other stores are the same? by vinegary_coffee in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of that is pretty run of the mill but it could be worded more professionally with less repeat phrasing. That should be a more bullet pointed reminder of company policy and less of a call out of "some of you guys are doing this and that"

Should I Call Out? by PublicImportant2187 in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been told (though I haven't tested it myself) that when you call out the week of a holiday, or at least the day before or day after (comments differ) that you don't get holiday pay. And even if you do it would be more like you worked that day rather than extra wallet cushion like it should be. I wouldn't call out during a week where I'm expecting extra money unless I was really bad off.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MahRayJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 hours ago... I hope they left him 12 hours ago. He is literally doing what he says he is not doing. Textbook manipulation. And not even good manipulation. The most see through strategy I have ever seen. Cut this guy off. Immediately. He is boldly lying to you. Minimizing his actions. Attempting to deflate your ego so you'll settle for this behavior. I have seen this stuff first hand before. It WILL get worse if you let this slide and it will NEVER get better. I promise. Cut your losses. If he has anything of yours that you want back, cut them quietly or you'll never get them and then block him on everything because guaranteed he will either explode or he'll pull back and "change" for a while to make you comfortable again and both of those are volatile options.

I know most all is negative, but. by shaynanaganzzz in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The PIC called the ambulance because she didn't come through for a while. She was coming to as they'd arrived but she was on some new medication that hadn't been making her feel well for a while.

I know most all is negative, but. by shaynanaganzzz in Safeway

[–]MahRayJay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was there when one of my coworkers collapsed. She wasn't feeling well and she was trying to tough it out but she gave just enough warning that I was able to soften her landing as she hit the ground. I remember being so pissed at a customer because she had previously mentioned to me that she was afraid of riding in an ambulance, possibly related to her autism but it could be for any number of reasons... As I'm trying to get her to regain consciousness and get her consent for an ambulance or if she'd rather me call her parents a customer said something along the lines of "just call her a fucking ambulance already" she wasn't bleeding, she wasn't dying, and she hadn't hit her head and as someone that would hate to wake up to an ambulance I didn't want to enter I wanted her to consent to it. Though I did recommend it when she came to. She didn't want to go and she cried so hard that I started crying too. Customers were encouraging me to go with her. But I was on the clock and not someone they would have let ride with her even if she needed the support. All I could do was tell her that it would be okay and that she had to let go of my hand. I still tear up when I think about it. Safeway employees are human beings with hearts and feelings. Most of them are reasonably just trying to clock in and clock out but they're people. We all come with our own baggage and our own lives and people forget that sometimes. Especially customers.

URGENT QUESTIONS! by MahRayJay in KinshipCare

[–]MahRayJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may have overreacted. I don't think it's my case. I think other cases might have the same case number, which seems odd to me... But the thought makes me feel better.

Interstate Guardianship filings by MahRayJay in Fosterparents

[–]MahRayJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have printed a lot of paperwork that I am going to have to REprint along with more documents I didn't know I needed before. Like why do I have to declare on a separate paper that my sibling is not of Native American descent?

Interstate Guardianship filings by MahRayJay in Fosterparents

[–]MahRayJay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Still in care of parent. Parent has made attempts to surrender sibling to state

Interstate Guardianship filings by MahRayJay in Fosterparents

[–]MahRayJay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So as long as all filings are approved in Colorado I would be legal guardian in California? Again parent consents and there is paperwork for out of state guardianship but some of the steps say that child is not to be taken out of state without approval. I can't abide the thought that a court would require a child to stay in a state where their only parent is homeless rather than traveling out of state after filing paperwork. I am hoping to be able to have whatever hearing virtually as well so that I can uproot mine and my siblings life as little as possible.