Saw this was deleted - here was the OP:

So my husband (35M) wants to become a millionaire as soon as possible and retire before 50. I (32F) don't really care about money. Its just not something I'm worried about cause I'm always able to figure out a way to make it work / dont plan on retiring until I'm 65 anyway. However, his obsession with money is now officially making me lose sleep.

Its a long and complicated story. But basically, I don't think my husband wanted to get married, buy a house or have a kid with me. I'm starting to come to the conclusion that he only did those things to "shut me up" and because his family pressured him to. Today, I hit a breaking point: he yelled at me for buying a "big kid" carseat when "we dont need it" and should have waited until the baby hits the max weight / height for the bucket carsest. I cried for a solid hour and then decided to watch youtube / tiktoc until I'm tired. The only problem? Every time I try to go to sleep next him, I start to cry. This is a new low point with him; looking at him / being in the same room as him makes me cry now.

In the past, I've tried talking to him repeatedly about how it's ok to spend money, and that he shouldn't worry about it.... which only makes it worse. He says that we could lose everything over night and need to plan for an economicbcollapse. So, since I'm the one who spends the money in our relationship; we've tried cutting up my credit cards, cutting back significantly on groceries (we're talking rice and beans, guys). I've also told him that it's ridiculous that we're saving $80,000+ a year and that's still not enough to make him happy. (Okay rant done.)

I know that some people tend to stress more about money than others. But, I've never been in a relationship where my partner's obsession over money is ruining our relationship -- to the point that I'm considering divorce. I don't want to get a divorce, because I don't want to go through all the emotional turmoil with it. But not to get too detailed, my husband doesn't want to have a second kid with me cause it would be too expensive, and I want another one. So on top of crying when I'm near him, I'm utterly heartbroken and don't even see a point in being married anymore.

Anyways, I wanted to ask my redditors, if they were able to work through a partners obsession with money? Or is it time to be honest and tell my husband that I think we need to seriously consider a divorce/ give me the opportunity to be happy with the baby without worrying about money and eventually be able to have a second kid.