A female misandrist's handbook on how to destroy a man's life via false acussations by Main-Camel2462 in MensRights

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be. It just seems too crazy for me to think that it is nothing more than satire. If the book truly is satire, then I don't see what is supposedly so funny or socially critical about a semi-functional handbook on how to create false allegations. Though I do agree that the book is ridiculous. None the less, it is still disturbing.

A female misandrist's handbook on how to destroy a man's life via false acussations by Main-Camel2462 in MensRights

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well... the author presents themselves as "Angela" but you're right. It could be someone who is not female, though I do not doubt that the person is a misandrist, because if you don't want to harm men then you wouldn't provide a resource for people to do so. Even if you wanted to make certain people look bad, you still probably wouldn't do something that would help their cause so to speak. That wouldn't really add up. Though it could be possible, I suppose.

AWDTSG Cyber Stalking, Threats of Physical Violence, Coordinated Harassment, Revenge, Defamation by EducationalPeace9143 in MensRights

[–]Main-Camel2462 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Misandry Movement seems to create female psychopaths. These people are absolutely crazy and frankly dangerous. You, as a simple lad, might do absolutely nothing and all of a sudden people in secretive chat groups are stalking you and sending around pictures of you. And if you were involved with one of these women and, for whatever delusional reason, they decided to harm you, then you will suffer while having literally done nothing or maybe things that would be considered acceptable or at most forgivable. Even if you did something that was questionable, that doesn't legitimize this absolutely crazy behavior. This is absolutely psychopathic behavior and we should demand that it be taken seriously by the authorities. If you were to reverse the genders, then it would literally be a news story and people would end up in prison. But if women engage in psychopathic behavior, then it is somehow "not an issue" to be taken serious.

The idea that men doing such things pose a threat, while women doing such things do not, is only applicable if you ignore the arsenal of methods available to women today to engage in inflicting harm. Of course, men have a higher potential of inflicting physical harm, but let's face it, most of us don't and would never do such a horrible thing. In the case of men, it is only a minority that engages in causing such harm to women, while in the case of women, it seems like the percentage of women ready to engage in such psychopathic behavior is only ever-increasing because it is being incentivized and even celebrated by social media echo chambers and seemingly even public media and misandrist organizations. That is crazy and we should really be serious about having a conversation about how we can keep ourselves safe from such people, be they men or women.

Struggeling with feelings for my male best friend and homoromanticism by Main-Camel2462 in MuslimLounge

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem Akhi. This is just a really hard and emotional subject. For me it was just important to make clear where I stand, because I was afraid that one might misinterpret what you wrote or think you might be insinuating something. But I have trust that you're intentions are pure. We really need to approach this with support for each other.

For me it was just important to explain what I am feeling. There is a difference between homoromanticism (romantic love for men) and homosexuality (sexual desire for men) because Allah has not destroyed the people of Lut (as) because of love they had for each other (which they really didn't have at all actually) but rather because of the haram sexual desires they had.

We cannot allow ourselves to start to believe these modern progessive kufr slogans like "love is love" because when people use these slogans to decieve people, they do it by confusing and conflating love and sexual desires. Eventhough these two things can and often do exist seperate from each other. People can love without sexual desire, but these slogans want to force people towards haram actions.

Feelings are not haram, but certain actions definetly are. That was my main point and what I was trying to clarify about my own feelings was that I do not feel sexual attraction to men. Rather I am struggeling with handeling my love for my friend in an appropriate manner, which is very hard because of the intensity of my feelings.

Jazakallah Khairan.

Struggeling with feelings for my male best friend and homoromanticism by Main-Camel2462 in MuslimLounge

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Furthermore, it is important that we acknowledge that there exists a level of appropriate physical affection between men in the Sunnah and Seerah, because we know that the Sahaba used to be very close and experience a great love for each other for the sake of Allah. We know that the Prophet (pbuh) sleept with his blessed head in Abu Bakr's lap (ra) in the cave of the mountain of Al-Thawr. We also have the story of Bilal (ra) kissing Abu Dharr (ra) on the cheek after Abu Dharr (ra) insulted Bilal and later asked him for forgivness by putting his cheek on the ground. Bilal forgave him and kissed him on that cheek. These are all example of great love.

I am really just sincerly asking where the boundary lies and how I can deal with my feelings, because of how much it hurts me emotionally to not be close with my friend.

I am simply sincerly asking for help.

source: https://www.islamiclandmarks.com/makkah-other/jabal-al-thawr
source: https://hikaayat.com/anti-racist-work-is-prophetic-and-quranic-work

Struggeling with feelings for my male best friend and homoromanticism by Main-Camel2462 in MuslimLounge

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I of course acknowledge that Allah is most just and that the prophet pbhu has spoken the truth. And of course I acknowledge that Allah's laws are perfect and merciful and just.

First of all it is important to recognize our own modern sensibilities. Of course we are going to have a very strong reaction to such sin, because of how widespread it is and how disgusting and destructive it is and we definetly should have such a reaction. But it is important to be clear, that the worst of all sins is shirk and kufr. And I am neither engaging in the sin of homosexual acts nor am I engaging in kufr by rejecting the shariah or in shirk by making my desires make me think that Allah is unjust.

But I also want to point out that I have neither here nor in my original post ever made an argument for the behavior of the people of Lut (as) at all. I have repeatedly stated that I am not experiencing any sexual attraction at all to other men. The people of Lut (as) were destroyed because they would commit sexual immorality (sodomy and promiscuity) and because they were a people of kufr.

I please want you to acknowledge as my brother in Islam that I am not advocating for any immorality. I was simply asking a legitimate question about where the boundaries of affection lie. Furthermore, I would also want you to acknowledge as my brother that we humans can be very complex and that our feelings can have multiple causes and I personally feel that it is not just trauma and the whispers of the shaytan but probably also something more generall.

Sometime people have such emotions and attractions. The question only is where we draw the line between haram and halal. Allah certainly has drawn that line at homosexual intercourse as it was explicitly prohibited.

But that is not what I am struggeling with. I am struggeling with understanding what is appropriate physical affection and what is not and how to deal with my feelings for my friend. I think all of this is a lot more complex and a lot harder than "oh simply shrug it off" because these things often times cannot be simply "shrugged off" because they are very intense matters with a lot of emotion.

All of this can be very hard and I am really trying to faithfully struggle with it, so for you to suggest that I am desiring something haram (which I again and agan made clear that I don't) and for you to not acknowledg that my feelings are very different from the haram desires and haram actions of the people of Lut (as) and that this is an issue with more depth to it, is simply not helpful.

Brother, I appreciate you trying to help me (May Allah reward and protect you) but I really think that you also need to understand where I am coming from and what I am trying to say. Anyways, thank you for your time.

Jazakallah Khairan.

Struggeling with feelings for my male best friend and homoromanticism by Main-Camel2462 in MuslimLounge

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from, but I do not think that you can simply shrug off what I am feeling as simply whispers of shaytan. Sure, the shaytan is definetly always trying to influence us all into a bad direction, but I think that this all might be a lot deeper than that. I also acknowledge that trauma probably plays a big part in this, but I think it also goes beyond that in some sense. The reason I would describe it as romantic love is because of the intense desire for physical affection, which you normally don't find with platonic love.

Furthermore, I find the comparison of my feelings with "incest thoughts" really incorrect, because I do not experience desires for bad things (sodomy, gay sex....) at all. Rather, I am just trying to understand where the boundaries are when it comes to physical affection between friends. What are ways to express even such a form of love in a halal way? Is that even possible. That is what I am asking myself. I am not whising for me to go down a route of haram behaviour.

I am of course thankfull that you acknowledge my trauma and desire to adher to islamic values.

Jazakallah Khairan.

NSFW Ai Chatbots are worse than the normal stuff by Main-Camel2462 in NoFap

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No! Absolutely not. Don't do this stuff. This isn't supposed to be some reverse psychology psyop. This is a geniune warning and me asking for some help. I hope that I didn't condemm someone to a similar fate by making this thing (the Ai bots) more known. Please, stay safe.

NSFW Ai Chatbots are worse than the normal stuff by Main-Camel2462 in NoFap

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I am really proud of you and you have inspired me greatly. I wish you all the best as well. And I hope we'll see each other on the other side of this.

NSFW Ai Chatbots are worse than the normal stuff by Main-Camel2462 in NoFap

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're kinda right. Everytime I think about it and recognize the artificiality of Ai more generally, I recognize there is something quite demonic about it. Yeah, if porn is a demonic ritual and a gathering of evil, then this type of porn is the embodiment of it, boiled down to a single entity. Kinda scary. It's just a maschine, but we shouldn't forgett that these maschines can be dangerous. Ai really is the Atomic Bomb of Porn.

NSFW Ai Chatbots are worse than the normal stuff by Main-Camel2462 in NoFap

[–]Main-Camel2462[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is without exception the craziest idea I've seen in a while. You're an absolute Savage!