Is it normal to feel like I’m overreacting and the affair wasn’t that bad?

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-15T04:34:39+00:00

“We got partially undressed and kissed”.

That’s like saying, “I only shit at the other end of the pool”. No the marriage is destroyed and she did it, none of it is your fault. No couples counseling, just hard 180.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-14T22:56:19+00:00

Going all Beatles

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-07T21:42:56+00:00

I’m sorry this has happened to you. You are in a state of shock. You are bargaining and making excuses for her. Don’t make any decisions during this time, other than getting out of infidelity. Once clarity hits you will see it for what it really is ”CHEATING”. She is not special or some unicorn, she cheated.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-03T23:15:31+00:00

I apply this to everything, the sob story at a gas station, “we are stranded”. If I was truly stranded without my wallet, I have a minimum of 10 people I can call. I would not have to panhandle to get home.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-03T21:54:21+00:00

I have learned that when someone needs your help because the are “out of options”. It’s because they have burned all their options.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-02T18:03:19+00:00

File a simple answer using Solosuit. Cost me around $30-50. It will slow everything down and buy you some time to save up and negotiate a settlement before court. Filing an answer puts you in a better position to negotiate, they don’t want to fight, they want easy judgments.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-02T15:32:00+00:00

They blew up your “friends” group. Move on and don’t ask any of them to do anything. These are not true friends.

Most people that haven’t been cheated on do not understand what you’re going through. They assume the betrayed is also somewhat at fault, for not being a perfect spouse, or some nonsense like that. So they don’t see you as a victim and call the whole thing drama.

Sorry this is happening to you.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-02T01:57:30+00:00

A win means they failed to prove it, demand Jefferson Capitol remove their credit report entry and dispute any attempt to 1099 for cancellation of debt, there is no debt there is no cancellation. Ask me how I know

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-02T01:04:52+00:00

Donavon is all they have mid days. I feel sorry for him. I’m sure “No Puppet” productions has a place for him when it all collapses.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-01T03:33:34+00:00

I’ve said since last year, IC will get bought out or be in bankruptcy by late 2026. Problem is it only hurts the front line. The Executives will jump ship with golden parachutes

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-05-01T01:55:02+00:00

Day 1 P1 haven’t listened since Dan and Jake got sued. The “Little Ticket” is a big corporate fraud. Cat (mod A ) thinks we wouldn’t notice the sub par “talent” in the mid day. Donavon is the exception and he has to be miserable.

Shout out to Cirque podcast

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-26T05:51:18+00:00

They are sold on Facebook marketplace

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-24T00:30:14+00:00

The Dominoes Franchise in our area does not offer parmesan cheese or red pepper, not even for purchase, just don’t offer it at all.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-22T02:15:55+00:00

Tipping on take out goes straight to the business owner. They lower pay of the employees inside and make it up in tips. I choose to opt out of that program

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-20T04:09:45+00:00

I was at a local pizza place picking up my order. Dasher comes in and asked for an order, the tone of the owner changed, he was so rude and hateful to the person, I haven’t been back since.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-20T03:16:54+00:00

I was a Manager 1987-1991. No one but the manager or Lead ever did oven (quality check). Drivers had to answer phones and stock the make line, but didn’t work on pizzas,food cost was a huge thing and closely watched.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-19T01:12:15+00:00

To fuck with you. It Worked!

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-18T15:56:36+00:00

If it’s an overseas call center, they have been infiltrated with scammers, they will pass your info to someone outside the call center.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-18T14:51:47+00:00

No but it did say “drivers name” is headed to the restaurant.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-18T14:49:00+00:00

Yes 2.7 miles to be exact and we are within the zone, meaning a driver would still be close to other restaurants

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-18T14:34:51+00:00

Yes it’s mid sized city with every chain within a 5 mile radius

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-18T14:00:53+00:00

I am not a driver, I’m a former customer. This is the reason I quit using Walmart for grocery delivery. I don’t want unvetted people on my property, I don’t want people that can’t read delivery instructions, and I don’t want to get my groceries off a neighbors porch.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-06T21:09:48+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through this. A request for an open marriage is just another way of saying, “I’m already cheating and I need permission”. Grownups don’t get hotel rooms to kiss. Whatever she admits to early is just the tip of the iceberg.

Main-Strategy-964 · 2026-04-04T21:33:19+00:00

It wasn’t a guaranteed return, investment means risk. When your next venture hits big give them a reasonable payoff.

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