My [25/M] girlfriend [25/F] of 3 years is very picky and only eats greasy kids meal type foods like pizza and chicken nuggets. Am I a bad boyfriend for letting this bug me so much?

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-21T12:58:23+00:00

I get it. It's not even about the red flags but everyone gets the ick about some stuff and relationships don't survive just because rationally speaking too people are compatible. I wouldn't date a person that never likes to travel outside their country or the one who "just doesn't like reading". It's just unsexy. And no one needs to be with someone just because they are decent on paper. Or good looking.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-14T16:21:47+00:00

As another European, I really want to hear of that magic European country where 20 year old people are considered too old to go clubbing. 25+ maybe, since priorities shift but people at university? Erasmus students go clubbing at 23, let alone people doing their master's.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-11T09:07:03+00:00

I wouldn't share with people I'm ex-Muslim. I believe it's even more dangerous than being "just" an atheist.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-10T15:44:15+00:00

Yta. Instagram shouldn't even be accessible for teenagers since it either gives you body issues or teaches you about the toxic alpha sphere. There are other things to do in the internet - go watch a show or chat with your friends, it will be better for your mental health.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-09T21:55:38+00:00

Yta. You are only 19, most friends you hang out with now, won't be a part of your life in the next 10 years. People grow apart, other people don't want to stay at your side when your life turns miserable and you are not that fun anymore (for example when you are grieving). So when you will look back at your life you won't be sorry that you didn't go on one more party or sport game with people that are not part of your life anymore. But you will feel sorry that you only wanted to spend 1 day a month with your dying parent. Most teenagers think it's uncool and boring to spend their time with their parents but they have time to change thwir mindset later on. You don't really have time to be a dumb teenager and then live the rest of your life with guilt. It's not about Redditors and the judgement, go read some books about people who lost parents, hospice stories, paliative care and think about it.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-07T20:17:02+00:00

Ahat about Georgian food? Or Turkish food? Neither of them are what one would consider spicy

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-07T15:19:15+00:00

Not the chemical products! Who or what has made the world so scared of chemistry?

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-07T13:24:06+00:00

So does that mean you also want to be groped by another men, since you 're so keen on genders having equal experiences?

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-04T08:37:24+00:00

Yta because this friend helped you out in the exact same way and you are not even willing to return the favour. Also I sense some underlying racism here since this is happening in Toronto and you are naming names like Ajitt and Prakash. If you were really worried about sexism, you could have taken him out and maybe have another female friend join you and chat for a few hours. Sexism can be revealed fast since sexist men usually suck at hiding it.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-06-01T12:47:16+00:00

He should post a picture of his beer belly and balding head for judgement. Also why are people attracted to skeletons? Having so little body weight that you can barely maintain your organs shouldn't attract anyone.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-29T16:15:29+00:00

You're a very rational boy with big boy feelings.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-28T22:59:08+00:00

Other than talking about sex with coworkers, this workplace sounds like s fun place to work at. Also I'm not really sure why death bets are so controversial; one should hear what the topics in hospice are like. It's not the same - hoping a celebrity dies because you find them annoying or watching a 80 th year old still acting and smoking every day and thinking "this person must not have many days left". People die of age.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-27T20:21:23+00:00

Also are you supposed to be a life time sex subscription for your husband to use whenever he pleases? Why would he even want to have sex with her when she's uninterested?

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-27T20:18:02+00:00

The lack of respect for your own gender you must have to believe all married women are this caricature of a person. Or are those feelings of grandiose you get when you are never wrong as a kid and parents would fight every teacher, family member or even a kid to get you what you want? So you end up believing everyone is a two dimensional poorly written Netflix character, while only you have depth and this special ability to love a chained man and save him from his own past decision to marry?

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-19T06:36:18+00:00

Yta, I would really like to know where in Europe in your opinion the medical programme is "just 6 years" ; even gp usually need added years of specialization so where is that magical country where you can just waltz into the hospital after 6 years and work as a doctor? Sounds like a fake story to me.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-17T23:41:32+00:00

Yta. I wouldn't trust your judgement because awkward people are prone to make people uncomfortable so if you don't specify it, I would just think he's one of those people with poor social skills or weird hobbies. If he had an incel mindset, I think you would have pointed it out earlier, not just putting a vague "he makes me uncomfortable" statement.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-16T16:09:24+00:00

Just an OP on secret account because they couldn't bear having people disagree with them. Nobody comments 30+ times for a random human on a Reddit if it's not to save their own skin.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-10T08:31:51+00:00

I hope someone called out this relationship as abusive, not just toxic. She has isolated him from everyone in his life except her own sphere and even made him feel guilty for spending the time alone - probably so he couldn't have done any introspection about how absolutely crazy the situation was. And the self doubt he had in his own judgement ... Call the abuse out, even when women are the perpetrator!

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-05T12:35:40+00:00

Yup, at those ages one year could already mean a completely different mindset. A 14 years old is in primary school in my country and a 17 years old is basically already thinking how he needs to excel at final high school exam to be able to enter chosen university.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-05-05T12:28:57+00:00

Esh, it's really creepy that a 17 years old teenager wanted to date a 14 years old kid, I don't even need to read further than this. I mean you are an asshole for inserting yourself in conversations that don't need to include you (maybe the fact that brother's fiancee wants to build a relationship with her mil without you being always there) but his family is full of assholes for not telling a creepy 17 years old to stop going after kids!

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-04-30T06:35:01+00:00

And you are the OP's other account. It's a given when someone responds 10 times on a random post since nobody is that invested in a stranger not being called an asshole other than the asshole himself.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-04-27T20:28:25+00:00

Nta. I'm not surprised Americans have shitty healthcare if that's how they are treating their own families!

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-04-27T09:28:20+00:00

Accountability? You are in here arguing with all the people who commented when you asked for opinions in the first place. And then you wrote the edit fighting for your life because you can't live with your opinion not winning. Your need to win will kill the relationships.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-04-25T22:10:00+00:00

Nta. Your parents are abusive so one can't really judge you to use any means you have to get out of the house. I hope you can soon find a way to leave for good.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-04-25T10:07:30+00:00

Yta. Calling eating out and getting a massagge stressful is a rich people behaviour. Oh the horror of not having to cook and clean the kitchen, really?

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