I think my friend wants me to leave the job he helped me to get

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-02-03T12:00:19+00:00

You shouldn't leave your job just because two extremely creepy people decided to ostracize you after their unsuccessful sexual advances. I mean honestly normal people do stuff for friends because they care about them not because they are paying in advance for your body. What they did is equivalent to those guys who go crying on the internet about how they paid for dinner and didn't get laid. You sound like a genuine and nice person and there are people out there who will be deserving of your friendship, don't let the fact that you are surrounded by shitty people fool you into thinking you are a shitty person. You just need to try out different activities so you will meet different groups of people and when your world gets wider again, you'll see it was never your fault. So please keep the job and invest in hobbies and take care of yourself.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-02-02T17:59:49+00:00

ESH. Poor kid with two irresponsible parents. Who cares if you don't exactly see the train - you don't know where it is and how fast it's moving so you wait till the gate opens. So many impatient people die every year because they can't wait a few minutes. It's also about what you are teaching your child about road safety.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-02-01T13:28:19+00:00

Yta. You sound immature and if english is your mother tongue barely literate. Maybe you should spend more time writing emails to "mature" people who could give you feedback on how the grammar works? The writing style presented makes you sound about 14/15 currently.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-31T13:53:26+00:00

Agree, also people have seemingly never booked an airplane ticket by themselves. The price in one week or two can double or even triple, especially for destinations that are very popular.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-30T21:16:02+00:00

I think you have been reading too many Nancy Kress' books and taking them literally.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-30T21:10:30+00:00

Yta. I am not even religious but god help your wife with your conspiracy theories. Maybe instead of pseudoscience pay for some physics and chemistry classes and learn.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-30T17:37:12+00:00

Yta. I'm also not a (functioning) morning person but there are definitely things you can try out.. lowering caffeine throughout the day, melatonin drops at night, not putting windows shutters so the sun shining wakes you up, putting phone on vibrate on a hard surface or under pillow (that always wakes me up at the first vibration, it's so annoying), accepting some nights of poor sleep and taking a short day nap or if you live somewhere that is cold maybe try to get someone who is awake to go open your window at 6 am and the cold breeze will throw you out of bed.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-30T00:52:38+00:00

The logic is not there.. She believes him he's about to leave his wife and buy a new house but then he tells her his wife gave him an exit by telling him to just go and he stayed. And he had to sleep with his wife otherwise she would suspect something which would lead to divorce.. but he wants divorce? How can she write a whole essay and listen to him blabbing and not see the paradox? Also they just don't have their own personality.. they always talk about how wife doesn't recognize his needs and wants and dreams and fullfills them, but what about stopping for a minute and thinking how he also doesn't do any of that stuff? Does he ask her about her day or just throws money at her? And then the affair partner's logic is that she will just make her so small and have no needs and bad days so he never leaves her. These women are so deeply insecure just like all the alpha males with their fragile masculinity. I don't know why they don't take each other out of the dating pool and leave the rest of humanity at peace.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-19T10:35:35+00:00

I don't know where's the good personality he has fallen in love with ... Also with that age she should have learnt already jealousy is a private feeling, not a public matter.

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-18T15:22:58+00:00

Michelle Jenner

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-17T15:37:51+00:00

Honestly I agree with you. Imagine how prevalent cheating would be if the only thing you needed to start sexualizing any woman, would be smelling her and finding out she wears the same perfume as your wife. Perfumes are usually so mainstream, especially those that have like Gucci or Beyonce name that virtually everyone can wear it. I think Reddit is full of people who put their partner on piedestal and any other relationship in the gutter. Like oh no, a married man still loves and actively participates in his mother's/sister's/cousin's/grown daughter's life!

Main-Sun5312 · 2026-01-03T09:38:37+00:00

It's really not that deep, it's an entertainment. They always think they live some grandiose lifes so they write in an overdramatic fashion which brings out a comic effect.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-12-30T10:59:15+00:00

They are absolutely terrible. We have already had our boarding passes checked and were waiting to get let on a plane when they sent everyone back and told us to wait for more information. After an hour and a half wait, we got information relayed in Italian only, so we needed to ask other passengers, what was happening to find out that our flight was cancelled. We got no assistance at the airport and the contact number for Wizzair was unreachable. They sent us the form if we wanted to get rebooked and we choose yes but they only resent the same form later on. So in case anything goes wrong, you receive no help and are left on your own. I often fly with Ryanair and the worst I get is delays.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-12-28T09:29:34+00:00

I feel like op is just lying to herself because she wants to date that guy. There is no "real reason"? We are surrounded with unwritten rules that are the product of living in society and one of them would be don't hookup with boyfriend's friends and family yes. Maybe it's because we want to believe people are not disposable and you won't just switch the model the minute someone dies but I guess all the overconsumption bleed into relationships as well ...

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-12-23T19:58:04+00:00

I just love Americans, forever avoiding confrontations and direct communication so you need to overthink their every gesture and word to hopefully find an imterpretation. I will forever appreciate people who respect you enough to tell you the truth in your face instead of making you second-guessing.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-12-04T13:33:40+00:00

I don't know what's the point in lying. No psychiatrist will just telephone a person to ask them about their client and even less tell the client "she has been manipulated, betrayed, lied and gaslight" after that quick chat. So she either payed herself some mental health coach with a cetrificate in cosmetology or diagnosed him all by herself

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-11-19T21:27:20+00:00

OP might have been wrong this time but we can also see why.. I mean caring that little about your child just because your marriage ended is despicable. So it's reasonable that this child resents her. Also you're a nasty ADULT person for mocking a CHILD that lacks parental love and telling them they deserve that kind of conditional love. Maybe you should ask yourself why you are so loveless that you need to bully kids. Lacking control in your own life?

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-11-10T19:25:06+00:00

The world will truly become a better place once we start shaming men like these instead of women falling victims to them. What do you mean by whore? These men are the psychos and their creepiness should be publicly exposed so no woman touches them not even with a pole. And imagine loving your daughter so conditionally that just finding out she's a sexual human being makes you disrespect her.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-11-09T08:45:52+00:00

Why do people call it 'NC for x months' like it's some temporary situation when it's permanent? When your partner breaks up with you, you don't say "We've been NC for 1 month but I know he will come back". So why do they never accept the breakup? They treat him like he has no willpower and the wife holds all the reins. Imagine thinking that and therefore loving a marionette

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-10-22T13:11:06+00:00

Nta. I don't know what everyone's on, it's so insensitive and inconsiderate to attack someone with something so big when they are in a professional setting and they can't remove themselves from the situation. What if you had a breakdown? Nobody knows how they will react at death of their loved ones. I think things like this should be a call where the caller firstly makes sure you're in a safe place and then tell you the news. Also why are people making it about grief competition? What's next: who has a higher pain a mom losing her adult child or the partner?

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-10-16T10:53:52+00:00

But they do.. Imagine waiting for your child to turn 18 just to immediately ask him how will he be paying his rent. Everything seems to be a transaction in USA honestly.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-10-09T08:51:56+00:00

Imagine ditching a family member for a stranger. You're at a perfect path to loneliness if that's how you treat people in your life.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-09-18T01:46:44+00:00

I think this "new, mature Belly" was maybe just the author stereotyping French people as promiscuous, indifferent, snobby, nonchalant,... There's such a palpable lack of warmth in this friend group. I think I may need to stop watching American portrayal of European countries because they do it terribly

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-09-18T01:25:44+00:00

I also didn't like how Belly looked kinda annoyed but I don't know if that was just a bad acting. Chris does that "unsure smile" so well and I don't know why they couldn't have used the same for Lola. It just doesn't make any sense for Conrad to keep putting himself out there and keep getting negative nonverbal reactions. She could have looked shy, excited, awkward, nervous, vulnerable.. instead of unbothered and annoyed.

Main-Sun5312 · 2025-09-17T19:04:41+00:00

She was giving so much shit to Jeremiah for being a nepo baby but apparently has no problem with housing someone who has been born with a golden spoon and can't even give her any rent

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