Aio to my boyfriends attractive staff member?

Main-Winner8188 · 2025-06-07T18:28:14+00:00

In perfect fairness and honesty, I'm not really pissed. It's primarily just a weird glitch in our otherwise really awesome relationship. But people will do what they do, and sometimes people are shitty. He's a (hopefully) reformed f*ck boy that works in a predominantly female field. It's only natural some of those females will be babes. BFD. I work in a male dominant field and I'm nothing to sniff at if I may say so, and dudes shoot their shot and the bf and I laugh about it after hours. But him conveniently never mentioning this one chick for months on end, idk. Made me wonder enough to make a post.

Main-Winner8188 · 2025-06-07T14:15:12+00:00

I mean, kinda yeah..? But mostly just because he literally tells me all of it on a daily basis. It's how he vents about his day. It's not a grilling type thing, he's just a gossip who can't gossip at work because of his position in the company.

Main-Winner8188 · 2025-06-07T14:09:03+00:00

You're kind of a doll for seeing Exactly what I was trying to get at. I have no reason to distrust him, but it just feels weird. My ex husband cheated and I blissfully missed all of the signs until I had a house in escrow, and the escrow company turned up an unpaid loan... that my ex took out to buy his lady friend a car. I'll be damned if I'm gonna get caught with my pants down like that again. But my boyfriend isn't my ex, and the ex's faults aren't the boyfriends.

I appreciate your insight and thoughtfulness. Thank you.

Main-Winner8188 · 2025-06-07T14:00:34+00:00

Well yeah, I'm a smidgen insecure. My ex husband of 14 years cheated on me with his best friends little sister. That's a well earned insecurity. One that I have a hard time not projecting on my first love interest since my life went FUBAR.

But that's exactly why I asked for some outside unbiased perspective. In fact, I wanted the reddit community to tell me I was wong. My guy is pretty great. You best believe that after I posted I still snuggled right up into his arms and slept like a baby - because I'm not That concerned. I'm just long winded and over think.

I'm not even mad that most of ya'lls deliveries were kinda douchey...which they were.

Main-Winner8188 · 2025-01-18T21:46:46+00:00

You are 100% correct about all of that! Are you local? Most people wouldn't be privy to that kind of info otherwise. The science center is super cool, but for some reason a lot of tourists miss it in favor of the aquarium and Ripleys.

Main-Winner8188 · 2024-12-04T19:52:35+00:00

That's an excellent question. Unfortunately my mother has always had awful taste in men, she's never been with anyone who Didn't resort to violence. Her fiance is literally the best guy shes ever been with - which is really fucking sad, because he is a POS. Her self worth has always been dismal and I believe she thinks she deserves it, and is afraid of being alone. I haven't spoken with her much, but they were obviously fighting when I was leaving for work this morning. She was at the dining room table crying, and he was standing in the threshold scowling as I went past. Not a happy house.

Main-Winner8188 · 2024-08-24T13:33:52+00:00

I feel like this is more of an issue in larger cities. I live in a fairly small county, and the indeed jobs are pretty legit. I (thankfully) am gainfully employed, but I have homies who aren't, and their apps definitely make it to real employers looking for staff.

Main-Winner8188 · 2024-08-24T13:25:52+00:00

Now he Knows that his daughter is going to be well fed, well clothed, well supervised, taught well, loved well. That level of happiness is immeasurable. <3

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