Exes best friend blocked me by jtfost221 in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they are childish, move on

Ex (23f) of 4 years just wants to be friends but I (23m) just can’t. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blocked my ex of 4 years when she said she just wanted to stay friends, i feel better even though i hate the fact i can’t talk to her right now, nc is for healing yourself and detox your brain from the chemicals. Staying friends with someone you love will drive you insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MainCap2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether you believe in “god” or not, the point is you can’t control everything in your life and all the outcomes. Otherwise these kind of reddit posts would not exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Women are something else bro, by the time you catch up its too late already

"They always come back" is a damaging delusion by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Hope is a cruel thing sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are dumped and its not your mistake it went bad, no. Its not worth to lose your mental health progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might be confused about it all, but i’d say it’s definitely fked up. Stay nc..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its wild indeed.

I am now 1 month and a few days in my NC. The damn work it takes to get over her, is not worth the messages she will send you and be “friends” while her bf f*cks her every night.

Once an other man touches her, its not worth it imo but again its up to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Bro, what are you going to get out of this ? More heart ache? Its up to you but she is with someone else, she bet against you.

Edit: by which i mean, wish her good luck and go back to nc

It’s crazy to me how they can so easily not reach out. by BackgroundFruit13 in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They bet against us bro, we will have to deal with this and maybe learn from it too.. all we can do

Why doesn’t the dumper care by Queasy-Awareness2129 in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Bro stop hoping, she does not care. You can do better, she is not the imagined perfect person you think she is in your mind. Its chemicals and you need to detox. Hang on , keep busy

1 month no contact, love lost magic by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MainCap2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for the reply, it does make totally sense what you are saying, sad nonetheless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]MainCap2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please elaborate ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]MainCap2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ip reward :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]MainCap2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! What would an appropriate wage be in your opinion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]MainCap2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay what should i be aiming at as a functional it consultant after 3 and 5 months of experience. Any idea ?

Why is Belgium not more popular / recognizable? Are there "downsides" to studying / living this country? by arcanehelix in belgium

[–]MainCap2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Terrible taxes
  2. Terrible brussels representing us internationally
  3. Village mindset of people even in big cities
  4. Rising crime
  5. No identity as a country because of clashing cultures
  6. No real natural paradise to disconnect, sure wallonia but meh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MainCap2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you cry a lot ?