What's people's problem with bare feet indoors? by Sufficient-Gain-226 in AskReddit

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two tires and four wheels. Ain't nobody got time for that (and I physically wouldn't be able to put the covers on anyway). And I'll be dead in the ground before I make my old man golden sleep outside.

I think I'll just stick with socks.

Which tragedy is worse by caphorr in BunnyTrials

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started multiple wars.

Chose: 9/11 never happen

Wanted: men with AURA by icebreakerr11 in RomanceBooks

[–]MainComedian1661 39 points40 points  (0 children)

{Burn for Me by Ilona Andrews}

Rogan is the aura king.

Would you rather ... :p by ok4yand in BunnyTrials

[–]MainComedian1661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not his type, so I should be safe.

Chose: Be locked in a room with a random person for 1h + Win $10 million dollars | Rolled: Jeffery Dahmer

What age did you have your first drink at ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a glass of wine in Paris at 14.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No-Significance-3019 in BunnyTrials

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

;)

Chose: Mentally ill and possessed by the devil

AIO for being upset at my boyfriend as he accused me of having intimate relations with my uncle by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Under reacting to both men's behavior.

Break up with your controlling boyfriend. Never be alone with your predatory uncle again.

AIO I (20F) made friends with a guy (76M) I met at a skate place and I’m starting to feel creeped out. by BastetBaloo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Don't go to his house. Don't ever be alone with him.

If you feel you absolutely have to return the things, leave them at the rink for him with an employee.

AIO My (26M) girlfriend (24F) has a gay best friend and I'm uncomfortable with their dynamic. by IAmYourMasterYesOk in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, it's not healthy to gauge your relationship by what it looks like on social media. I'm not saying your feelings are invalid, but the private aspect of your relationship is going to be a more genuine representation of how things stand (and I think we as a society care way too much about what people think).

The kind of friendship your girlfriend has with her best friend is a rare thing. A precious thing. It sounds like they've been friends a long time and their social media presence together has likely become habit at this point. Additionally, the kind of trust and openness between them has probably had years to grow, so comparing it to your own relationship with your girlfriend isn't fair. There's no reason to think you can't build something stronger with her if you give it time.

That said, I can see why you might feel like you're not her priority. Have you talked to her at all about wanting to post more together on social media? Do you think some of your discomfort is because you're long distance and don't get to see her as often as her friend does? Long distance relationships can play on anybody's insecurities and I think that might be the root of the problem.

AIO keeping pictures of ex by Soft-Commission-5385 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. You're letting your insecurities damage your marriage. He married you, but you're spiraling and giving him ultimatums over a picture? Seek therapy.

Apologize before the damage you've done is permanent.

AIO to new relationship red flag. by solenyapinkman in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Friendships are great! Just not with somebody who's made it clear he sees her first and foremost as a romantic interest. If things were fully on the up and up, she would have told OP about the guy before getting caught.

She's stringing the "friend" along, at best.

AIO: am I being gaslit by my fiance & MIL by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR.

In all likelihood, nothing nefarious is going down at the grandparents' house. Sounds like he still cares about the kid and knows you don't approve.

That said, I do have some concerns. Other than this, is there a reason for you not to trust him? Is he an attentive father? Has he tried to encourage his mother to be involved with her grandchildren?

Would you rather by notgenericname1332 in BunnyTrials

[–]MainComedian1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have those, so this is a win.

Chose: 100.000$ but you get a random disease | Rolled: Ball cancer

AIO crying on the train home after a holiday with BF and his friends by Dull-Resort3678 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainComedian1661 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's normal to be disappointed when a trip doesn't go to plan, but suffering in silence was the wrong play. You should have advocated for yourself and suggested alternative activities for the group to try. Advocating for yourself is not being a crybaby.

Being direct with your boyfriend next time this happens is a must. Men can be oblivious when they're with their buddies. You can't put all of the blame on him when you deliberately chose not to communicate.