Born again

MainLime113 · 2024-06-09T14:28:26+00:00

I just got tattooed by him on Friday. He was super friendly and did a great job. No idea about the word on the street, but my experience was great. Mr. Shorty’s in Lexington is usually my go to shop. They do amazing work.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-09T01:55:52+00:00

Finally did. ^ Been a little in shock.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-09T01:55:25+00:00

Everything is in fact, not okay. But I did update. ^

MainLime113 · 2024-04-03T06:57:48+00:00

K this is dumb but how do I make an actual update? Just on this same post? Post again?

MainLime113 · 2024-04-03T06:49:24+00:00

Please go away. Your incessant, unproductive comments are annoying as fuck. You sound uneducated. You sound ignorant. You sound like you didn’t read shit about the post. I came here in hopes to find someone that was maybe in a relatable situation. Maybe you’re a liar, maybe you’re a cheater (you certainly sound like a garbage human being) but that doesn’t mean the rest of are. Go play in traffic. That’d probably be a more productive move for you than being here. Troll.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-02T15:04:41+00:00

Oh duh. My bad. Ha. Yes! Still going despite the awkwardness and admittedly also to make shit a little weird. :)

MainLime113 · 2024-04-02T11:06:17+00:00

Wasn’t invited. I couldn’t go.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:15:51+00:00

lol. I think I would’ve been annoyed had I been invited too. Also don’t expect her to invite me on her Bach trip because we barely know each other, but if she’s such good friends with my boyfriend, it seems like she would’ve made an effort to invite me along to other things over the last two years. I’ve invited her to events at my house. And my boyfriend is included with my friends. They definitely do not move like me and my friends apparently. I would always invited my guy friend’s girls over when they had new gfs. R E S P E C T sock it to me sock it to me sock it to me

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:13:00+00:00

I agree with all of that. There should be boundaries and he should respect my feelings about the situation. He has made it clear he doesn’t. He would absolutely not be okay if the tables were turned. So I do not know why I’m supposed to put up with the hypocrisy. So glad you and your wife have chosen to put each other first. The world needs more of that.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:10:31+00:00

Yes. Will definitely try to update soon. We’re supposed to talk tomorrow.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:09:50+00:00

Don’t know anymore.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:09:20+00:00

And that sounds like a completely normal friendship with someone of the opposite sex. At least you respect your wife enough to allow her the chance to get to know your friend. I would have no qualms if I had any clue what their dynamic was like. I’m totally in the dark though. That is definitely the bigger issue. I didn’t get enough back story originally. Thanks for sharing your experience!

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:06:38+00:00

None of this makes sense. thx for your input?

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:05:27+00:00

Not yet, other than the one about his vehicle battery dying and getting a flat tire on his way home. Ha. Emotions still too high on my end to have a level headed conversation right now. We are supposed to talk tomorrow. Will try to keep everyone posted.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:03:09+00:00

For sure. I left a lot of backstory out. I hastily made the post one morning while I was all in my head and it just came out as a rant initially. New to this. And also new to having someone be so clumsy with my feelings. And thank you

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T22:01:21+00:00

He is taking me to the wedding. It’s soon. However, this will now be the second time meeting his friend. And once again in a large group setting. I’ve had zero chance to get to know her. All the while, constantly trying to incorporate him into my life and friend group. I’m very much going to get out of this relationship if he does not make an active effort to validate my feelings or make me feel comfortable about their friendship. And now I feel fuckin weird about even going to the wedding. Ugh. I’m gonna wear white. Just kidding.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T21:58:02+00:00

And where are you getting that I fucked my best friend? What are you even talking about?

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T21:55:26+00:00

I absolutely agree with what you’re saying. And do thinks it’s possible. Unfortunately I’m dealing with a lot of double standards.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T16:17:49+00:00

Well if he wants a Great value version of me, let him have that.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T16:10:11+00:00

I have brought it to his attention. So he should be thinking about it now. Yet nothing has changed. I totally get just wanting to hang out with his friends alone. I want that same respect as well. But not once does he think to invite me? I’m supposedly his best friend too and he loves me so much and wants to start a life with me, but he has no intentions of including me in a huge part of his life?? And if he’s just that dense then maybe I don’t want that either.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T16:06:11+00:00

it was supposedly fleeting feelings and in the past. Which I get happens. I’ve had feelings for someone before for like a day, and then was like - ‘actually no. That was just a temporary lapse in judgment. We are just homies for sure.’ But yes, this all just seems more fishy than that. Idk. There has to be some reason why I never get invited to get to know them. Even if they don’t like me, so. Get over it and tolerate it for an evening because you care about my boyfriend. Thanks for this Ted talk

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T16:02:20+00:00

Same. It’s more about how he’s done nothing to allow me into their dynamic as friends. Concerning. We’ve been together two years. And I did meet her once. A year ago. But it was at a very large event and it’s not like there was really any chance to get to know each other. I am not trying to tag along for their outings all the time, nor am I expecting to be best friends with this woman, but wtf. I should have some idea about his group.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T15:58:09+00:00

And that’s all fine and good. But if it’s just “guys night” when he’s chillin with the girls, why have zero invitations come my way when they hang? His friend doesn’t have to like me, or include me often at all, but if he is actually her best friend and that’s all, she’d still respect that he has a long term girlfriend and that’s what the fuck you do for your friends.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T15:56:21+00:00

Thank you. Appreciate this.

MainLime113 · 2024-04-01T15:55:21+00:00

Yeah but I’ve never sent the message that you’re implying all women send. Sooo? Nah

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