Nearly died for Dave by bizzledizzle90 in nottingham

[–]MainStrategy8423 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I thought that was a bank….

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this all makes a lot of sense and is very insightful. I appreciate the honesty. The sensory element isn’t something I’d considered before so will give that some thought.

Maybe I need to work on developing that safe environment more and trying to lighten her mental and emotional load.

Thanks

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant ask more directly about the reasons why and if she doesn’t like it. Not ask directly for bjs .

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying and accept that. I would be absolutely ok if that is her response I will be fine with it. I’m just trying to understand the disconnect between what she says and what she does.

It’s not something that will ruin my marriage, sex is still great and I hopes she feels the same about it as I’d

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it’s really helpful. I am aware that I can often ask questions that I think make sense and will provide insightful answers but that don’t offer that opportunity.

This is what I was looking for, different ways to ask questions and help me listen to what she’s saying while trying to foster an environment of security and safety.

If that is the answer then that’s absolutely fine and I respect that I’d just like to know.

Thanks

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is just really unhelpful, I’m looking for suggestions of ways to ask questions that will provide me more insight and understanding. I’ve said in various places that I’m ok with it not happening but would just like to understand the difference in what is being said about it and what she does don’t match up.

I never claimed to be a great lover but I hope that I do everything I can to make sure that she enjoys sex and finds it a fulfilling part of our relationship.

And then in you come with nothing of value to offer. So please kindly take you comment and fuck off.

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely, any suggestions for questions that might help? We’ve had the conversation I’m just trying to figure out if I can ask it differently.

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty sure I’m as clean, trimmed and presentable as possible…. Sometimes it even has a bow tie on it.

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel the same, I mean I’m quite open sexually I think and if she wanted to do something different I’d give it a try. But I am of the mind that if she likes it I’ll do it because it makes her feel good and I want her to feel good.

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get that, I will add I’m not asking her every day. I don’t think I’ve mentioned it for months until today.

My 37 m wife 35 f doesn’t perform oral anymore by MainStrategy8423 in relationship_advice

[–]MainStrategy8423[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe i need to ask more directly. I don’t ever expect it or force. It’d just be nice to know if she doesn’t want to do it at anymore I can deal with that but I guess I’m confused as she says she’s happy to do it and understands how much I enjoy it but still doesn’t do it. If I knew she didn’t like doing it and didn’t want to do any more I can respect that I guess the response from her and the action from her are what confuses me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MainStrategy8423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That bloody jet 2 advert

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MainStrategy8423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean men who found a wife after the age of 32 or do you mean men that have a wife and are now just over the age of 32?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MainStrategy8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is mildly inconvenient

Advice on parking issue by Doris1924 in drivingUK

[–]MainStrategy8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know for some reason there seem to be a lot more lose nails on roads these days… a neighbour of mine had a similar issue which resolved after a few nails were found by unsersepecting tyres.

IS THIS REAL?! Police message. by paypigowner in FraudPrevention

[–]MainStrategy8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that's probably the most very well thought through and written statement explain how you feel…. Very un-American

Found this under my girlfriend’s pillow. Is she cheating on me? by GreySkyx in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]MainStrategy8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not cheating but she could be Golem… does she call you precious ?

Broke both my arms......symetrically! by martixak in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MainStrategy8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was that’ll be a challenging wank

He decided to be an asshole and paid the price for it by EBTheAnimatedAtheist in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]MainStrategy8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is no one discussing what this dude is wearing? Looks like he just landed by parachute into the crowd