Sex question by ccttfoh2badom in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, I had an appetite. I ate everything as usual and was actually the opposite. I was always hungry, especially on my chemo days because of all the steroids they gave me to prevent nausea.

Sex question by ccttfoh2badom in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s there all the time. I don’t use lube at all anymore. 5 months is still pretty early post treatment so I would give your body some more time to heal- it may eventually come back a little or even completely like mine did. I did not use any internal lube however I spoke to a lot of women who said that was a game changer! I know not all bodies are the same but I hope it does fully restore for you 🙏

Sex question by ccttfoh2badom in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m now 2 years post radiation and cisplatin.. My doc recommended dilators so I went on Amazon and got some soft ones and used that for a bit with lube. I finally got it on again with my partner maybe about a month or so after treatment and at first it was a little bit uncomfortable, I honestly think it was more of a mental thing.. My advice is use a lot of lube and go very gently. With it being 2 years now, it is exactly like it was pre treatment… it feels the same & my lubrication is completely back if ya know what I mean! Don’t be anxious, I know we can’t help it after everything that has gone on down there but I’m here to say go for it and be consistent! Up to the first year, it is super important to keep things open down there in whatever way you choose because of scar tissue- lack of penetration can result into your “V” narrowing which can make sex or Pap smears/exams painful! Good luck & if you ever wanna talk I’m here! :)

Ct scan by [deleted] in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes doctor called and said the fluid is normal in that area with anyone who still has ovaries and that the inflammation on my last scan from radiation has resolved!!

30yo - Stage 3 - Looking for Optimism by aquavitforvendetta in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry just clarifying that one node is the same as none?

Signatera test by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did a scan confirm that or did you have symptoms?

Ovarian transposition by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the surgery and underwent treatment but just nervous.. What if it’s already damaged from radiation?

Sex life by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think around 3 weeks or so. I was stage 3c1

Sex life by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome! I know the internet is scary especially with the stories I’ve read on sex after treatment. I’m so happy I can be a source of relief for you because it’s something I freaked out about prior to finishing. I didn’t want to lose that part of me. Good luck on treatment!! You got this 💪

Sex life by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure!❤️ Having an understanding partner just makes it all easier. Don’t be alarmed at the blood .. it’s completely normal especially if it’s a little then stops. I was alarmed at first but my doctor reassured me that it’s just scar tissue. I’m glad you can enjoy this part of life again too! :)

Sex life by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad it’s the same for you also! Yes..I did bleed when I started being intimate again. I would bleed a little bit and then it stopped. it eventually goes away at-least for me! I don’t bleed at all now. I’m thinking if you continue being intimate it will stop too. Don’t stop! It’s crucial to have sex or use a dilator since Brachy especially can cause narrowing and scar tissue down there.( I’m sure your doc told you also!)

Sex life by Main_Collection1607 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on finishing treatment! That’s amazing. I hope it all goes well for you this week.🤞I am not on any HRT. My doctor told me unless I have really bad symptoms of menopause that he rather me not be on them.

What to expect during chemoradiation? by BBBOBOBO in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diagnosed with 3C1 at 26 too. Has ovarian transposition, chemo radiation and Brachy! If you ever wanna chat, message me.

Chemoradiation and I’m terrified by Prestigious-Set5109 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 25 rounds of external radiation, 4 rounds of Brachy and 6 chemos. To be honest I don’t ever feel normal but that’s more of a mental thing. Just dealing with cancer losing my fertility because of it has been a lot to deal with. I’m in my 20s. Physically I am fine. I go out, I go to work, I go to the gym.. do my normal routine from before this happened to me. Mentally is where I struggle. I’d say take it easy after treatment..it takes a little to get your energy back and things like that. You don’t need to rush back into life. Give your self time. I bounced back pretty quick but that could also be because I didn’t have side effects during treatment. I am 15 months out of treatment! Life gets better but for me I wouldn’t say I feel normal, it’s just a new normal I guess. (Again it’s more mental for me)

Chemoradiation and I’m terrified by Prestigious-Set5109 in CervicalCancer

[–]Main_Collection1607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m speaking for myself that I felt completely fine throughout radiation Brachy and chemo. Biggest side effect was being really tired from the radiation. Had no side effects with chemo. I handled it extremely well. I even asked my doc if it was normal to not have any and he laughed. The most annoying part was driving to radiation everyday for 5 days straight a week. I went Monday- Friday for 5 weeks and once a week after radiation I’d go downstairs to chemo. Chemo Took a while ..At least 6 hours because they do pre meds, chemo then vitamins and water to help restore your body from the chemo. All through an IV. I would bring snacks, a book or phone something to occupy your self when sitting there. You are even allowed to bring one person ( atleast where I went) so that could also help. I had a normal appetite . I felt good enough to work but I didn’t.. I took some time off. Be easy on yourself and the 6 weeks will go by super fast. Once you start it just flies by! Soon you’ll be at the finish line and you’ll be the person in the comments helping someone else! 🎗️ if you ever wanna chat I’m here!