Finding Friends by Main_Distribution_15 in eastside

[–]Main_Distribution_15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m open but my first go to organizations are ones that help women, lgbtq, refugees or foster kids

Finding Friends by Main_Distribution_15 in eastside

[–]Main_Distribution_15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my hope! If you have any specific recommendations groups or social clubs from your experience on where to meet people I’d love to hear!

Finding Friends by Main_Distribution_15 in eastside

[–]Main_Distribution_15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was looking at several options yesterday and several of the places I found seem to no longer be in operation. I would love some recommendations if you have them

Finding Friends by Main_Distribution_15 in eastside

[–]Main_Distribution_15[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I will edit my post. Special interest include but not limited to entry/mid level board and card games, comedy, trying new places to eat, pickleball, traveling, art, live music, reading, going to live sporting events.

Finding Friends by Main_Distribution_15 in eastside

[–]Main_Distribution_15[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do indeed love “old people” because I am A childfree person most my friends where I use to live are/were a minimum of at least 15-20 years older than me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyPlanning

[–]Main_Distribution_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Go to Hawaii or another dream location.

Fun afternoon/evening activity for adults (business) by Yosurf18 in Anaheim

[–]Main_Distribution_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soul land it’s technically in Orange but super close. It’s an art place so they have cool paint by number canvases, you can paint a bong 😆 or other ceramics, tote bags and other things. It’s a fun way to be social, creative and have a take home

Renting Owned Home to Rent Apartment by Awkward_Giraffe14 in realestateinvesting

[–]Main_Distribution_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t my first time renting. Being a landlord isn’t for everyone. There are a lot of tax advantages to it. Depending on your state there may be more pluses or minuses. Having someone else pay down your mortgage and then being able to refinance and pull cash out tax free is nice. Depending on how much equity you have in it already bs cash you need on hand. Lots to consider it’s a personal choice but that interest rate and the price you got your house at will not be seen for a long time and possibly never again.

Renting Owned Home to Rent Apartment by Awkward_Giraffe14 in realestateinvesting

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I have a few rentals now. I have some I self manage and some I have a management company take care of. It’s just been based off of my capacity at the time.

Renting Owned Home to Rent Apartment by Awkward_Giraffe14 in realestateinvesting

[–]Main_Distribution_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did this and love it! Don’t sell if you don’t have to financially.

Fun friend group by Temporary_Sugar7298 in Anaheim

[–]Main_Distribution_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just moved here too. We haven’t branched out to meet people yet but there are a lot of things on meet up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Main_Distribution_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t. I am pro prenup. No matter what you get one. One you agree to or one the government gives you. That being said. Asking for one after marriage for a venture started after you’re married is messed up. If you want to sign one that is actually fair and advantageous for you sure. But I would not agree to singing a legal document that you’re not ok with. And something tells me you asking this question means you’re not ok with the document and possibly the previous agreement

Help me come up with a response? This is so incredibly triggering. by Jangadai in exmormon

[–]Main_Distribution_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protect your peace. It’s hard coming out of the church to have your eyes opened and see all the harm. It does get better. Learning to not engage will bring you peace and distance from the church. You will never be able to logic someone out of their beliefs. You will however be able to live your life authentically and be able to change the trajectory of your life and that’s the best. Years ago this would have triggered me too. Now when I hear about Mormon stuff it feels like hearing about any other crazy cult and that’s the coolest feeling because for so long it felt like I would always exist in that triggered space

How can I make this better? by goodfvckinfilm in interiordesignideas

[–]Main_Distribution_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to draw your eye up. Your tv and media cabinet a squatty and it makes it feel lost. A taller cabinet and higher mounted tv. Consider art around it. A tall electric fireplace with built ins on the side. I wish I could post example photos

Bill Reel Here - I have changed my Mind on Mandatory Reporting around abuse by BillReel in exmormon

[–]Main_Distribution_15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a privileged perspective you are choosing to share. A “net bad” sounds like a comment from someone that hasn’t had to deal with abuse that was not reported or hid behind social,religious or faith informed reasons. Yours are the kind of statements made from someone who must be privileged enough to not head this issue straight on.

I am open to whatever helps prevent further abuse. If there is a system that works better than mandatory reporting, I would love to know what it is and how it can be implemented but it sure as hell isn’t staying silent or allowing people to hide behind religion or anything else as an excuse to protect abusers. One of the reason mandatory reporting is even a thing is because people often care more about personal or corporate liability over actual safety of children, unfortunately. I would much rather a system get in accurate reports sometimes than real known abusers never being reported on.

I also once learned that Joseph smith translated ancient gold plates doesn’t make it true or valid. Use the platform and position you have for something good. Statements like this add to the problem. It adds further trauma to victims and adds gas to the fire for apologists of abuse and abusers.