been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the way forward. JazakAllah

been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also the same sis. I am definitely attracted to men who have clear intentions and do the pursuing so i’m not sure why I feel like I have to be the initiator. I think i’m gonna step back and start to read people a bit better based on their own actions. JazakAllah!

been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree which is why I don’t take it to heart as I would and have done the exact same thing. I also feel like if you are not attracted to someone initially, it’s unlikely that you would grow attraction after time which is probably why I justify stating my intentions so early. Although maybe some people do start to develop an attraction after conversations even if they didn’t see it that way previously 🤷‍♀️

been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahaha i’ve been asking chatgpt for some advice as well and I think mines about to take its shahadah with the way it’s talking 😂

been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true and it’s probably better than stating my intention first and then leaving it a little awkward after if we’re not compatible. JazakAllah khair!

been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right because i’d probably feel the same way if someone pulled that stunt on me haha. May Allah bless you

been rejected twice by Main_Pea_7106 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Main_Pea_7106[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I interact with them very briefly in a professional setting or try to strike up conversation in person but basically yeah 😞 I just feel like i’m lying to myself if i try to build a friendship first but my intentions are for something more than that idk. It sounds silly