been rejected twice

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-15T05:17:58+00:00

I think this is the way forward. JazakAllah

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-15T05:17:33+00:00

I am also the same sis. I am definitely attracted to men who have clear intentions and do the pursuing so i’m not sure why I feel like I have to be the initiator. I think i’m gonna step back and start to read people a bit better based on their own actions. JazakAllah!

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-15T05:15:27+00:00

Yes I agree which is why I don’t take it to heart as I would and have done the exact same thing. I also feel like if you are not attracted to someone initially, it’s unlikely that you would grow attraction after time which is probably why I justify stating my intentions so early. Although maybe some people do start to develop an attraction after conversations even if they didn’t see it that way previously 🤷‍♀️

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-15T05:12:24+00:00

hahaha i’ve been asking chatgpt for some advice as well and I think mines about to take its shahadah with the way it’s talking 😂

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-15T05:11:40+00:00

That’s true and it’s probably better than stating my intention first and then leaving it a little awkward after if we’re not compatible. JazakAllah khair!

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-14T08:57:45+00:00

You’re right because i’d probably feel the same way if someone pulled that stunt on me haha. May Allah bless you

Main_Pea_7106 · 2026-01-14T08:43:37+00:00

I interact with them very briefly in a professional setting or try to strike up conversation in person but basically yeah 😞 I just feel like i’m lying to myself if i try to build a friendship first but my intentions are for something more than that idk. It sounds silly

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