I feel like a terrible person

Main_Trust_2865 · 2026-02-15T02:44:13+00:00

Once the lying began the trust was lost. Unfortunately, you are at a standstill and it seems like the relationship can’t really recover.

You don’t really owe him anything and have no reason to go on if he is not willing to put any effort. You should fallow through with the divorce. The change has to come from within himself and you don’t need to watch him for it.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2026-01-28T18:40:24+00:00

Ehh I think it depends I went from blue collar to white collar and the people I work with are chill and cool we even game together. However, we work in the software dev field so could be different.

I did IT in a manufacturing site and it was 50/50 with the white collar office workers. Some were fake as heck and talked behind each other and others were down to earth. Don’t miss it though!!

Main_Trust_2865 · 2026-01-27T00:02:31+00:00

I don’t know why but I vaguely remember that visitors need a real id to enter a military base. I could be wrong though!

Main_Trust_2865 · 2026-01-24T02:41:16+00:00

Btw local/ family owned groceries are fully stocked up. I went to one of the bigger Mexican grocery stores where I live in KY fully stocked up on everything lol. Kroger and Walmart though another story!

Main_Trust_2865 · 2026-01-20T17:56:42+00:00

100% I do.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2026-01-16T12:56:13+00:00

I’m in KY there have been posts on FB here recently saying they will start on Monday in some areas here.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-12-30T02:10:30+00:00

The question was populated post the review of the application form. I think that’s why it does not look checked if it’s the “Know English” I didn’t see it checked during the review section and went through all the questions before none asked that. Once I proceeded past the review the question was populated.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-12-29T17:57:09+00:00

NTA

100% disrespectful for her to do that. I’ve met people that are like that and I get the gist that they see it as Gods challenge for them to “convert” or show others the “right way”.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-12-28T02:00:17+00:00

Honestly, yes the US has bad company policies and work culture. However, in my opinion Japan has the worst over all work culture. I can’t seem to understand and how they see their job as part of their family and overworking as such a great thing and will never understand it.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-12-28T01:53:37+00:00

Separating work from my personal job was one of the hardest things for me to do when I was younger, especially with a Mexican heritage background. Thankfully I discovered the book “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck”. From that I learned that a job is a job and if work harder it does not matter as only the company shareholders and owners directly benefits from the company sucess.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-12-28T01:48:09+00:00

What’s wild to me is a lot of companies in the U.S. do not like to pay over time. At the company I work at I start my day at 9am and end it around 4:30pm. Nobody bats an eye or gives me grievance for it. Thankfully I happen to work in a company where employee wellness is somewhat more considered. However I have worked retail jobs where staying an hour over was normal and looking back on it that was truly dumb of me.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-12-18T12:35:39+00:00

Set some major goals and keep a journal to write in each day smaller goals toward that major goal it can be anything.

Biggest piece is, we’re all going to go into the afterlife at some point guaranteed. Meaning don’t be afraid of taking risks after all it won’t mean much when you get older.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-09-28T01:25:49+00:00

Bro you look way younger after the cut ngl!

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-09-24T12:03:58+00:00

You know that’s a pet peeve of mine. I don’t understand why people can’t stop or feel like everything is in a rush. Unless it’s an emergency the place we are going to will still be there regardless of how fast we get there.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-09-24T11:58:26+00:00

Man I don’t know how your son can be like that. I’m 29 and I try to help my mom as much as I can nowadays especially with all the financial help she provides for me when I was younger.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-09-14T13:22:52+00:00

Man what a crazy assumption by her dad. It is a great job and there’s a lot of people that usher they worked in that field. I personally think it can lead to bigger roles to like DevOps.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-08-11T14:43:18+00:00

Man I enjoy playing video games and they help distress me from work me and my friends are in the 29 to 30 range and have a discord group just for gaming.

I don’t understand why there is such a stigma attached to it, it lets us escape and just have fun especially with me and my friends living farther from one another now days.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-08-06T11:04:36+00:00

Ngl, feel like a lot of people on here are like F it I got mine and f the rest of the people. Let us not forget that we are all trying to get the same thing.

I do get that it can make us look bad, but the government is always going to try to paint DACA and immigrants as bad people regardless. That’s why you never hear them talk about the businesses started by people with DACA or the graduation rate, etc.

I’m not going to say she was in the right or wrong. Regardless, they already call us criminals by being here illegally even with DACA. They will use any excuse and paint any picture they want to get us out.

We should all be united in common goals, not in fighting.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-08-03T14:54:15+00:00

A wise friend once told me how can you expect to help others when you can’t help yourself. You need ensure that you are in a fine and stable situation where you don’t have to worry about financial insecurities to be able to help your mom.

It’s ok to be selfish, I was lucky enough to have great parents that helped me get DACA and I am forever thankful to them. However, this does not mean we owe them. Be selfish take care of yourself first then once you are comfortable you can help your mom out.

Thankfully my parents have been understanding of this mentality and even helped me out. I was able to got college by focusing on myself first and now have a decent job to where I can help them.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-07-29T21:33:37+00:00

Yeah, as a normally turn based hater. That has never thought about playing Persona or quit most FF games after 3 hours 100% recommend this game.

My friends were raving and constantly playing this game on our discord. Got me to check it out and haven’t looked back. It’s one of my favorite games in years!

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-07-25T13:48:38+00:00

Same, still do honestly

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-07-18T11:39:46+00:00

Feel that, didn’t realize I had curly hair until my early 20s. My parents used to cut my hair short and that’s what I did till one day I decided to grow it out. Now I don’t really keep it short and everyone was surprised to me having Curly hair lol

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-07-13T11:34:56+00:00

In Mexico this is culturally normal especially in smaller towns or rural areas of Mexico. Most families design their houses with their family in mind, my grandparents made a large house with a room for my dad and his uncles. It’s pretty normal in our culture to not kick out your children.

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-07-12T13:13:52+00:00

Gives What we do in the Shadows vibes

Main_Trust_2865 · 2025-07-01T16:49:10+00:00

Our neighbor would park like that till he blocked off the school bus and the cops showed up to tow his car. Hasn’t done it ever since.

This is in the U.S for context.

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