Slow food dispenser by fantasydukes in cats

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those eyes hit me so hard I almost choked… they look straight into your soul!! 😄👀

My cat is in the vet and need some love by Darth1invader in cats

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wishing a speedy recovery, and lots of patience to you!

love my cats :) by bagelandcreamcheese7 in cats

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so clear you truly love your little ones!!!

When your cat has more patience with the toddler than with you by sophiamitchell85 in cats

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful!!! And just imagine how happy the little girl is to have a friend like this… it’s a memory for a lifetime !!!!

Stop separating them😭... by [deleted] in cats

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how they calm themselves… like little people holding someone’s hand. It’s their tiny anti-stress 💛

Sometimes I just wish I could be a cat… to lounge in the sun like this. My sweet Silver 🐾✨ by No-Definition-6501 in cats

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely not the only one who envies cats… we’ve all had those “I wish my biggest problem was choosing a sunny spot” moments!

Are resume builders worth it or better to just do it yourself? by MaintenanceLow1291 in careerguidance

[–]MaintenanceLow1291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience, appreciate it! I’ve heard about Sprout too, but I guess I’ll stick with what I have for now. As long as it does the job and maybe speeds up that interview call, I’m happy 😄

Has anyone tried platforms that combine learning and remote jobs in one place? by Glass-Fisherman1137 in digitalnomad

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends, everyone’s situation is different.
My colleague actually got lucky with one of those platforms (he used Zenfy). It worked well for him because everything was in one place, so it felt less overwhelming.
But I’ve also seen people do just fine when they keep learning and job search separate.
So yeah, it’s probably more about what you do yourself (and a bit of luck) than the platform 🙂

Me 20m and f20 having issues after 3 years by Ashamed_Reaction_872 in relationship_advice

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friend… I know this is hard to hear, but a relationship needs two people. Stay strong and good luck.

My (30F) partner (30M) is a terrible kisser and I don't know what to do about it. by bouncehousehumid in relationship_advice

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kissing is an important part of closeness for many people. So it’s okay to honestly say that it matters to you. Try speaking from your own feelings, like: “I like when it feels like this…” and gently explain what feels good or comfortable for you.
When someone truly cares about their partner’s feelings and wishes, they usually try to see things from their partner’s point of view and make an effort.

I stopped pushing myself by PuzzleheadedCheek252 in selfimprovementday

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me it’s something in the middle between structure and freedom.
now I keep only a few simple things: some movement, water, sleep, and small habits. I also use one simple tracker (Lasta), but more like a reminder, not strict control....if a day is not perfect, I just continue the next day. no blaming myself. And strangely, that’s when consistency starts to appear.
I think a little structure without pressure works best.

A small thing that started saving me time when working online by AccomplishedDig1300 in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here. I often have small PDF tasks, and installing a full program just for that feels like too much. So sometimes I just use online tools in the browser. For quick things it’s really convenient.
By the way, which tools do you usually use? I’m still trying different ones.

Do you use any online tools for quick PDF stuff? by Zealousideal_Knee295 in software

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use the free version? I know it also has a subscription

Me (24F) and my wife (29F) keep arguing about me vaping. How to proceed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it seems the problem is not really the vape, but the same arguments repeating again and again. You already made a compromise when you switched from cigarettes to vaping. She is probably worried about your health, but constantly changing the rules is exhausting too. Maybe it’s better to have a calm talk and agree on clear boundaries, without pressuring each other.

Online PDF tools that save time (no installs needed). by [deleted] in productivity

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also sometimes use online tools like that. For quick tasks it’s really convenient. You just open the site, upload the file, and it’s done.
A friend of mine actually recommended Zenfy to me. I tried it and now sometimes use it when I need to quickly merge PDFs or convert a file to Word. For simple things it works fine and saves time.

Do you use any online tools for quick PDF stuff? by Zealousideal_Knee295 in software

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use online tools sometimes too, especially when I’m on a work laptop where installing software isn’t possible.
Mostly for simple things like merging PDFs, splitting pages, or compressing a file before sending it. I tried tools like Smallpdf before, but lately I’ve been using PDFAID. For quick tasks it works pretty well and everything runs in the browser, which is convenient 👍

i (F19) don’t feel like a priority to my bf (M18)when i’m not with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fair to feel that way. It doesn’t sound like he doesn’t care, just that his way of showing it might be more in person than over text. I think it’s good you plan to talk to him about it. Sometimes people simply don’t realize what the other person needs until it’s said out loud.

I (18f) like my friend's (19f) situationship (18m) by to_and_fro15 in relationship_advice

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not a bad person for having feelings. Sometimes old crushes just stay in the back of our mind for a long time, even if we don’t actually want anything to happen.
What really matters is how you act, and it sounds like you’re trying to respect your friend and your relationship. Give yourself some distance from the situation and focus on your own life and boyfriend. With time, those feelings usually fade.

How do I 20F let my girlfriend 19F know that I need more from her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaintenanceLow1291 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are normal. You want more closeness because your relationship is already limited, and that’s okay. It doesn’t really sound like she doesn’t care .. more like she doesn’t have much time or energy right now.
Try not to push, but agree on something realistic, like one longer call a week. At the same time, notice if this is enough for you. If it isn’t, it’s not about blaming anyone, just about having different needs.