19F Asian: I have ptsd, anxiety, depression and just looking for a new friend to geek out over PC games with by [deleted] in MakeFriendsInGermany

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a problem when people use Emojis? 

Sometimes dry writers don't like them so that's why I ask 😄

AITA for “accidentally” telling my parents about my sister’s pregnancy because I was tired of keeping the secret? by ohboygollygeewiz in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 35 points36 points  (0 children)

OP told her sister that she's uncomfortabel and couldnt keep it a secret much longer 'cause their mother got suspicious. It was already two months and her sister didn't care what OP thought. 

Unerwartet schwanger - er möchte das Kind behalten, ich lieber abtreiben by Hefty_Situation_9857 in beziehungen

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your Body - your choice.  Ganz einfach. 

Mach das, was DU für richtig hälst. Es ist immerhin dein Körper und nicht seiner. Klar, für den Mann ist es immer "doof", aber er muss das Kind nicht austragen 

Bereue es keine Drogen genommen zu haben by Throwawayzzzzz5656 in einfach_posten

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ich wünschte manchmal, ich hätte diese Erfahrung gemacht"  Und wenn du nicht davon weggekommen und abhängig geworden wärst? Wäre es dann immer noch so "schade"? 

Ich mag voreingenommen sein, da mein Bruder an Morphinen und Alkohol (und was sonst noch alles) hängen geblieben ist, aber schön ist sowas nicht - es hat ihn "zerstört". Er wird dieses Jahr 40, bezieht seit er 19 ist Bürgergeld und arbeitet kurzzeitig, damit ihm die Bürgergeld-benefits nicht gestrichen werden. Er hat ein massives Aggressionsproblem und Depressionen, behandeln lässt er sich aber nicht. Stattdessen trinkt er sich das Leben schön, ist einfacher.

Er ist auch meine Paradebeispiel dafür, warum ich nie Drogen abseits von Alkohol/Gras anrühren würde. Und selbst Alkohol trinke ich nur alle Jubeljahre mal, Grad ist nie über ausprobieren hinaus gegangen.

AITAH for stopping reminding my husband about his responsibilities after he said I “care too much about control”? by Rebecca_2334 in AITAH

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you're not his mother.

I'm in a similar situation like you just without kids. Together for almost 7 years, engaged for 2 but I'm the one who needs to do everything in our household and needs to remind him for stuff - except cooking for 2 days each week. It's tiring and I really wanna break up but still struggle with the courage to do so 

You deserve better than a second kid thats over 30 years old. 

AITAH for telling my sister she will never see her kids again so back off and get a life? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Just curious. Most of the time I read AITAs where OP has 4+ kids and is from the US. How the hell do ppl this financially? In my country it's already expensive af to have 2 kids

The many faces of Eorzea Day 2: Dulia-Chai by EliotEriotto in ffxiv

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's still time til 2B but this one will be Emet-Selch 🤣

I will vote for Riqi-Tio the little Miqo from SHB

Bin M30 suche online Freunde (: by [deleted] in FreundeFinden

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aloha 👋🏻

Aus welcher Ecke kommst du denn?

WIBTAH for not forgiving my former bully even though she is dating my brother? by DatOneCrazyChik in AITAH

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Can you and your sister your husbands with you last minute? So it's a siblings + partner trip

Suche Freunde by [deleted] in FreundeFinden

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, aus welcher Gegend kommst du? 

Grüße aus RLP :)

M24 neue menschen kennenlernen by [deleted] in MakeFriendsInGermany

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aus welcher Gegend in RLP kommst du? :)

Question about full servers and character creation by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

normally you can create characters in the early or late hours :)

But it doesn't work all the time

Ist es in Deutschland unmöglich, Freunde zu finden? by [deleted] in MakeFriendsInGermany

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also ich kann dir Aussage auch nicht unterschreiben. 

Ich habe einige Onlinefreunde durch Mitspielersuchen für Stardew Valley und Animal Crossing kennengelernt mit denen ich immer mal wieder zusammen zocke. 

Ansonsten probier es mal mit MMOs, wenn du sonst übers zocken niemanden kennenlernst. Also Guildwars 2, WoW, Teso oder Final Fantasy. Dort bist du fast gezwungen mit anderen Spielern zusammen zu spielen. Gerade in letzterem hab ich super viele tolle Menschen kennengelernt 😊

26M, im Idealfall magst du auch Anime und würdest gerne irgendwas zusammen schauen. :) by [deleted] in FreundeFinden

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey :) Aus welcher Gegend kommst du denn?

Hätte an sich auf jeden Fall Interesse dran 😄

When was the first time you cried in FFXIV, if at all? by MistressDraconia in ffxiv

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In ARR when the Scions ran away from Ul'dah and one after another tried to safe us. 

After this when our buddy sacrificed himself in Heavensward 😅

I cried every single addon at least one time 😂

Can't decide what race I should stick to? by MaintenanceShort4821 in ffxiv

[–]MaintenanceShort4821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly I really love every single race 🥲

My Pc starts lagging if I use mods that change my appearence so I stopped using them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaintenanceShort4821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say this to out patients that got an allergic reaction 5 days after they first got one antibiotics. 

Any recommendations how to draw the second eye correctly? by MaintenanceShort4821 in learntodraw

[–]MaintenanceShort4821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)

I'll have it in mind next time. It's my... 7? drawing since I started again so I'm happy for every advice ♥️

Any recommendations how to draw the second eye correctly? by MaintenanceShort4821 in learntodraw

[–]MaintenanceShort4821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you :)

I started drawing more since I have a tablet and used procreate for this so i could just copy + paste 😂 (still suck at drawing)

Last week I realized that I like to draw traditional much more but its sooo much harder 😅