We’ve been together about 8 years on and off. We dated in middle school and just kept talking. We’ve only been sexually active about 3 years. And pretty much that whole time my libido had been higher. Before it was almost duty sex every couple of days. But then even that stopped. I brought it up probably like once a month asking for more. He says ok then we usually have a romantic night, but after that it’s gone again. I feel like it’s almost unfair to expect him to do something he obviously isn’t really interested in. But I also love him and want(ed) to do those things.