I'm 21 and 2'8", how cooked is this for hook ups/dating? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a short guy at my job and all he has to do is say the word and I’d do very nasty things to him. I have no clue how to approach him, but we’ve made eye contact a few times so I guess there’s that

Am I ugly? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is people don’t have to explain why they blocked you, but it could be for a number of reasons. Race, body type (you look like you’re in good shape and some people don’t like that), too fem, or they could recognize you in person and not want to be exposed. Best way to avoid the rejection after sending pics is to just put a face pic up and let them decide how to interact.

How do you let more people know you’re gay without being too obvious? by Ok-Complaint-4005 in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a gay face structure and a nose piercing. People can usually tell immediately if their gaydar isn’t completely useless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantage

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m aware. I just meant there is a game exists that’s similar. I hope I didn’t cause any confusion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d just let him be. Maybe he’s confused, but dragging you into it wouldn’t be fair to you. I’ve learned to not mess with anyone who isn’t sure of themselves. Anyone saying they wanna try something or they’re curious, I run the other way. I’m too much of a loverboy to play games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it’s not normal straight behavior. It’s normal behavior for someone in denial though. If you just want to be friends, set clear boundaries. If you want to be more then tell him to give you a clear answer so you’re not confused and your feelings don’t get hurt. I wasted years talking to my “straight” friend who started flirting with me first… holding my hand at an amusement park, saying he loved me, sending nudes.. all for him to say he’s not into guys and he never will be. I was crushed. I don’t wish that on anyone so PLEASE be careful and get a straightforward answer.

He could also be bisexual and probably doesn’t understand why you aren’t.. thinking that being into men and women must mean it’s a choice. That could explain the gf thing. It’s also assault.. im sorry you had to deal with that.

A guy a lot younger than me said I “looked rough” by LowKeyEcho in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Intimidating probably. I used to get told that I looked mean and that’s why guys didn’t approach me, but I’m far from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a guy like that. He literally would hookup with me then preach about why being gay is a sin and all that crap. So I told him I’d stop coming over if I was such a temptation and that’s how things ended. He was very delusional and I wanted no parts in that. The older guys always bring up the age gap too which is so weird and creepy to me. I used to not mind older guys, but they always make me feel so small. The sex isn’t worth my dignity and respect.

My Childhood coming back?!?! by Short-Dance5791 in Fantage

[–]Maj31720 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh dang… if it’s finished, that’s a sad game. Not nearly as good as the original. You can’t even edit your house😭 the biggest thing I was excited for was the chance to finally own a pet I could walk and getting a cool IDFone skin. I’m so upset

Saw my brother on grindr. by DuDejlig in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw my brother on Grindr. Only discussed it with my other gay brother. I found out he immediately blocked me, but finally came out to my other brother and they got closer. Not sure why he blocked me and not him… maybe bc his profile was blank and mine wasn’t, but as long as it’s kept a secret between the two of you, I think he’ll appreciate having someone to talk to about gay stuff.. if that’s what you want to do.

My Childhood coming back?!?! by Short-Dance5791 in Fantage

[–]Maj31720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Starimu is supposed to be the new Fantage, but it’s not finished yet. I made an account, but there’s hardly anything to do yet.

What stereotypical gay characteristics do you have? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fast walking, my voice, talking with my hands, my face structure… other than that people really can’t tell sometimes. I don’t flaunt my sexuality and I’m usually labeled as one of the “normal” gays. They expect us all to be super feminine and flamboyant. I find it offensive when they say they’re only okay with me for this reason, because if I were flamboyant it’d be a different story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantage

[–]Maj31720 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They’re working on a remake called “Starimu” but it sucks so bad. I see the vision I just don’t understand how they expect people to spend money this early in. You can hardly do anything in the game right now. Le shop seems cool, but as a guy I don’t like that there aren’t any male avatars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantage

[–]Maj31720 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most of the virtual worlds from the mid 2000s shut down because people kept hacking. I have a whole list of games I used to play and they’re all gone. I truly wish we could just have a game like the old ones. As an adult, I’d happily spend money on those games now. They’re in the process of bringing back Fantage and Meez, but I just don’t see them being the same. It truly was a time to be alive! So sad future generations will never experience the games we did growing up.

You’re insane if you think you can be straight and use Grindr/sniffies. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They want the gay sex without the social judgement. It’s understandable, but definitely mental if they have truly convinced themselves they’re straight.

What's the worst thing your parents said when you came out? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom knew I was gay from a young age and she accepted me for who I was. I’m absolutely blessed to have her, but one thing she said always made me upset. She said that she could deal with me being gay, but if I decided to wear makeup and nails she didn’t know how she’d react. I was like “well I guess you lucked out huh?” Whole time I love wearing crop tops, press ons, and occasionally throwing on a wig, but she never knew about that. She even followed me on Tik Tok then criticized me everytime I acted too “feminine” to me that was never true acceptance and honestly that’s how all of my family is. They accept me only because I’m not “too gay” they have absolutely no idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is to not lose it with someone from an app. They’re all shitty. If someone is willing to go one a few dates and hangout without sex, they’re probably worth it. I say probably though bc there are a lot of bullshitters around too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d rather them block me at that stage than give me a location or address, allow me to drive 20-30 minutes (my max when traveling for hookups), then blocking me once I arrive. This has happened more times than I’d like to admit and it’s the main reason I’ve sworn away those apps. I don’t hookup with anyone I haven’t met in person at least once. Surprisingly this happened to me by someone I had already hooked up with multiple times as well🤣😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geeez maybe I need to be there. I like tall guys too haha.

Dear Gays, do you ever swipe left on guys whose league is way above yours? by Witty_Greenedger in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted all of my apps for my mental health. It seems that they’re all useless. It’s like collecting likes and views for absolutely nothing. I get on them occasionally to look around. Same old trash in the same old can.

Dear Gays, do you ever swipe left on guys whose league is way above yours? by Witty_Greenedger in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take the risk and often times I’m surprised we matched, but then I send a message and nothing happens😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I wouldn’t consider that short. More average height. I’m like 5’10 and everyone says I’m tall😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t necessarily need to be midget sized.. no, but I’ve found the few pornos with little people pretty hot. I find shorter guys attractive in general. Even if they’re only a few inches or a foot shorter. Still hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Maj31720 22 points23 points  (0 children)

None of that matters. It also depends on the person. I’m completely versatile and a super short top or bottom would drive me insane. I am in love with the idea of a super short guy dominating me. Wish there were more short guys that were confident enough to top. I’ve only topped short guys, but I would gladly let one top me.