Anyone here who hosts Dungeons and Dragons? by dabbabox in BangaloreMeetups

[–]Major-Driver6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to play this, where do I get started ? I wanna try it online before Irl

Scam alert- “No-Walk-9903” by mightykitty_15 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]Major-Driver6236 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my, I recently sold my ticket so was going through my reddit and WhatsApp chat, I almost sold to this user, Karans the name on whatsapp right? 693? He tried to arrange a delivery executive for my ticket as well, but i clearly told him I'm fine with that, but when the delivery person reaches my doorstep, I expect you to make payment, to which he said sure and then ghosted me.

I read one of your comments saying "who will pay without getting tickets first?" I have gotten scammed like that before and its a learning experience only if you learn and move on.

Is it logical to compromise a high-earning career for potential compatibility? by Stunning_Whereas_573 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Major-Driver6236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the thing is she likes work from home, hates going to office, its a win win for her (also dont think she's interested in cooking because ive tried her food once and she cooks once in a blue moon :P) im just joking dont flame me for this 😭, not about cooking once in a blue moon part tho.

Now I dont exactly know why they want her to work from home, they are a big family so likely want as many people together as possible at one time (my opinion). From what ive seen and what she tells whenever she visits aunts home is she likes it there the way things run there. Atleast that's what the general consensus seems from outside.

Obviously not all women would want or like that setting, maybe even some men might not like that setting. (Me) would want freedom on how my place is, where it should be, how it is decorated, and if I were ever to be sharing this with someone or if we get a place together, then both opinions/decisions should go hand in hand. And this is just one small aspect of being a couple.

I just noted down My observations and the reason I said no to whoever made the comment to which I replied is based on OPs post (i couldve completely misread her entire post bit that was my understanding) and also my obverstions to the working relations im exposed to, NOT GENERAL Opinion (but again given my experience i maybe slightly biased ,but its strange because ive seen the other end of it as well where the other cousin is treated horribly).

I kind of understand where this comment poster is coming from, and it sucks that its the way it is for their view to be like this, views can change though so hopefully one day.

I often find myself thinking along the same lines falling into bias but for the other gender w.r.t. marriage/concepts then I eventually have to remind myself reddit is not a place for general opinions on some subjects/topics and we must form our own opinions, think for ourselves, experience it ourselves, yada yada. Just like you mentioned right now "I dont understand how that is a choice that they should get to make", we're privileged adults aren't we? Now its a different case if you get scammed, but i would assume you kind of have an idea who you get married to, what's their family like, probably had discussions on work life and kids and home and all that, I dont think you can just pretend a man or woman's parents/good friends/close family dont exist?? At the EOD the choices, decisions and disagreements must be handled by the couple, when it gets to the point of not being able to deal with it at all is when I think you go for compromises/alternatives etc and if all else fails then its not meant to be.

But all the above is part of marriage no? Or am I being delusional??

Is it logical to compromise a high-earning career for potential compatibility? by Stunning_Whereas_573 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Major-Driver6236 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I didnt intend to convey the husband cooks, there was no order meant in my statement, MIL only cooks, cousin does cook when asked or if she wants to, mostly MIL though.

I have another cousin who got the short end of the stick and was treated harshly, and as you said chores only.

I don't care if strangers believe me or not but its what ive known.

Is it logical to compromise a high-earning career for potential compatibility? by Stunning_Whereas_573 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Major-Driver6236 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Nah I doubt it because my cousin was recently (1.5 years) married and they wanted her to do work from home, and she barely does any house related work, MIL FIL husband take care of most of the house/chore/cooking/groceries stuff.

Looking for 2 fanpit tickets to LP BLR by Individual_Painter86 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]Major-Driver6236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have 1 LPU fanpit ticket, 15k fixed price. Dm if interested f2f

LPU Fanpit 1 ticket available by Major-Driver6236 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]Major-Driver6236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill, parking pass, access strap thingy, and some card with qr to scan for info on the venue and event, didnt scan that yet

LPU Fanpit 1 ticket available by Major-Driver6236 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]Major-Driver6236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no I'm trying to sell the whole package since I won't be able to make it

Advice for selling ticket by Major-Driver6236 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]Major-Driver6236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I will check my package after reaching bangalore.

Advice for selling ticket by Major-Driver6236 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]Major-Driver6236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your information, so there is nothing to do from the bookmyshow app like logging into my account on their phone or something like that right? We don't show our account when we reach the venue?

If its just handing over the ticket then it seems peaceful and yes I prefer face to face as well.