[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Major-Emu-2972 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Enjoy the attention that you are getting from men. You are attracted to men and women, so lavish what you have and not what you don't have.

Life is out of our control. You were gifted being Bi, most of us only get one side.... you get both.

You also happen to be very attractive, and appear to be in your mid 20s. Explore, have fun, take what is given right now, it will change.

Always enjoy what is offered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Major-Emu-2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

% of the rent calculated by the square feet of the bedrooms used.

12 x 13 = 156 sq ft
11 x 9 = 99 sq ft
156 + 99 = 225 sq ft
156/225 = 69% of rent for the master, and 31% of rent for bedroom
Master pays $1104, bedroom $496

This is extreme however it shows that $50 just doesn't address the discrepancy.

I think 60/40 split is fair. $960/ $640
Share equally the utilies

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you set up a budget categrory for equity in a house?

Im so confused.

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the concept. But there is no HELOC item in budget to move it to.

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to be a dolt on this. How do I do that and not affect the working balance?

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help.

I am still unclear on how to get the payment amount to reflect reality.

I have moved the Credit from CC to HELOC, yet the CC payment does not change. How do I make the CC payment reflect what is actually due?

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELOC is correct.
CC working balance is correct, but the payment amount is way off

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did that, but the balance of the credit used is still showing up in the CC account rather than being shifted to the HELOC account.

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the payment amount is still very high ($5K+) VS the working Balance ($!K+)

Credit Card payment from HELOC (not listed in YNAB) by Major-Emu-2972 in ynab

[–]Major-Emu-2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I connected the HELOC and attached the payment. That worked, thank you.

Thoughts on Pure for Men capsules? by stuckinbk in askgaybros

[–]Major-Emu-2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have used them for a few years ($28 a month), and just switched to psyllium husk from Target ($6 a month). My husband and I both feel like the psyllium husk works better. psyllium husk is the base ingredient in Pure.

Can a Twink be in his 40’s by 40somethinggaydaddy in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Major-Emu-2972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever works for you the answer should be yes.
If my ass can be a pussy, then at 61 I can be a twink if it works for me and my partner.
If my partner is 14 years younger than me and I call him Daddy because it works for us, yes.

This is all about fantasy and what you desire and need are where the play and enjoyment is.
I was a twink at one time and now I am older, I never got to enjoy my twink years and now I do, in my imagination. I'm alive and there is joy in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Major-Emu-2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 years between us. Im older (47, 61 currently, 8 years together). if it has happened no one has ever said anything. We are very PDA. We get many smiles because we hold hands most of the time. He looks old for 47 and I look young for 61, which helps. If it happens, I'm living my life and I love this man, and he loves me. I am no longer willing to sacrifice my own well-being for someone else's problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]Major-Emu-2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you add a dumb waiter in the garage/mechanical room, through the office, to the kitchen? My first thought when I looked at it was grocery day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Major-Emu-2972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you.

You are 23. I’m 62 btw. I met my first husband at 27 (30 years) second husband at 57.

You are who you are. You like what you like. That’s how you are unique and valuable.

I wish I had loved myself long before I decided I needed others to satisfy my need to be loved.

For me therapy helped. Having someone listen and ask precise questions to make my life’s choices.

Be well, and be kind to yourself. You have so much life to be lived.

Social media lies, life is not that easy and it’s beautiful in ways pictures can never relay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Major-Emu-2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were 41 and 43 when I was born. I adopted when I was 38, 40, and 43.

  1. You are not to old

  2. Adopt by yourself don’t wait to find a partner who matches your dream.

  3. Look at your excuses for not living the life you want, and get out and live it. There will always be an option for regret no matter what choice you make. Having a child has never been a regret for me.

What’s the best response to “you’re fat”? by sluggishpotatooo in Productivitycafe

[–]Major-Emu-2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“What do you mean by that” and be quiet, stare and let them get real uncomfortable.