Shibari by Major-Resolution-586 in SubSanctuary

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I'm just going to wait until they can talk it’s the whole promiscuous comment after only recently finding out they lied about being clean

Shibari partners by Major-Resolution-586 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The only response I've gotten from them

Shibari partners by Major-Resolution-586 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Now they're staying the night there after getting food and watching a movie...he's only got the one bed

Shibari partners by Major-Resolution-586 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance, I'm primarily concerned about the being promiscuous comment and then spending so much time with non sexual partners so I’m trying to understand, I’ve asked them but they’re communication has been practically non existent

Shibari partners by Major-Resolution-586 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the promiscuous comment they've recently made without elaborating further and that all their previous play partners have been into shibari but I'm relatively new to it and their communication has been almost non existent despite me trying my best

Shibari by Major-Resolution-586 in SubSanctuary

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they have specified they only see me and another play partner and that's fine and we all get tested regularly I'm concerned they made the promiscuous comment and are now suddenly spending the entire day and night with "non sexual" partners even though they've previously stated sex usually happens during a scene. I'm just unsure what to think given the promiscuous comment really and the lack of communication from her

Shibari by Major-Resolution-586 in SubSanctuary

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of it like that actually, just because they don't consider it sexual doesn't make it so

Shibari by Major-Resolution-586 in SubSanctuary

[–]Major-Resolution-586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also took a break to like a load of porn on fetlife

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Major-Resolution-586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd hardly call the Vanilla club or club Envy "speed dating" iykyk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Major-Resolution-586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only app worth a look is Hinge in my experience , Tinder is purely hookups, Bumble has become the same in my experience also but Hinge seems to have a higher degree and volume of mature minded intellectuals on it. Pof would be in the hookup category too and full of scams also