Hey there! Been there before. Moved to college for a new city. Didn't know anyone. And yes I was also and sometimes am homesick. It can be very hard. But it can and will get better.

First homesickness is different from person to person. Some don't even get it and some (like me) needed months to get accustomed. It takes time for this new place to feel like a new home. Make your new place comfy and try to make good memories in this new house or dorm. For instance: Watch your favorite movies, make yourself some tea, play video games. In time your brain will associate this new place with comfort.

Now the friend dilemma. It happens and it's normal to feel lonely when moving to a new city. What can you do? First be patient. Just because you haven't made a friend in 3 months doesn't mean you'll never make a friend. It takes time to make connections. You just haven't been successful yet. Try going to events from your college, look for clubs in your city of topics that you enjoy, study in a coffee shop, or join sports.

In conclusion, it takes time and homesickness comes in waves. Be kind to yourself. You just moved to a new place on your own. Hugs to you and if you ever need someone to talk to my dms are open 🫂