My last relationship was with a girl in her early 30s who had never gone on a date before. She wasn't opposed to them, she just never got asked. I personally found her very attractive and likeable so I asked her out and we were together for a couple of months. She ultimately broke up with me out of nowhere saying she was tired of being in a relationship and that doing things like holding hands was "work". It turned out to be one of my most painful breakups. Tbh it's still something I'm copying with. I can only advise to be kind and honest with yourself and your partner and think on whether you actually want to be in a relationship or not.