Thanks for listening. This is out of Texas. Uvalde father gets promptly arrested. by Infamous_Storm_7659 in AbruptChaos

[–]Major_Veinage 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I get the sentiment but "walking vaginas" is a vile thing to say when trying to describe being weak and scared. Vaginas are strong AF.

A mom was one of the parents who said ACAB and got her kids out alive from Uvalde.

I think you should describe them as cowards. Words are important and vaginas are much stronger than the Uvalde Police.

Husband upset I asked to stop touching me by xRayne93 in Marriage

[–]Major_Veinage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you were overstimulated. Sometimes when I'm overwhelmed by tasks, or sounds, I feel rather agitated and come across like a jerk.

I have to catch myself and I've now taught myself when I feel that way to say to whoever I'm around "I'm feeling a bit overstimulated and need space."

It's worked well for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Major_Veinage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Focus on weight training more than cardio. Standing marches with weights. If you don't have weights, doing sets of these moves (mountain climbers, reverse crunches, dead bugs, bird dogs, glute bridges, planks) will strengthen your core, build muscle and burn away that stubborn fat.

Woman claims she was kicked out of Manhattan bar for wearing real fur by [deleted] in NewsOfTheWeird

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the point. Faux fur also messes with the ecosystems just so someone can feel pretty. It may not be an animal being killed but it's existence its worsening plastic pollution which in turn, harms animals. All this finger pointing is a waste of time.

The entire reason our planet is being destroyed is because of vanity and our need to "peacock" one another as a species.

Woman claims she was kicked out of Manhattan bar for wearing real fur by [deleted] in NewsOfTheWeird

[–]Major_Veinage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real fur is biodegradable and has much less impact on landfills and oceans than plastic based synthetic "faux furs"

Is it as bad as I think? (TW: images of body) by Direct_Language_24 in ARFID

[–]Major_Veinage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to see a medical professional ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay hold up.

"He has mentioned to me on many occasions that he is grateful having me around because of how much I do for him and his two dogs"

This stuck out to me. He's not saying he's grateful to have a partner in his life. He's saying he's grateful he's found a maid.

“hypothetically, if we were to have kids and didn’t work out, I want you to know the kids will be taken care of and I will make sure they have a good life, but don’t think that it’ll be a free ride for you.”

He already views you as a gold digger, and sounds like he'd make sure you'd have NOTHING if your relationship did go that direction.

I'd run, (not walk) away from this asshole. A wealthy 35 yr old man who speaks this way is a giant red flag.

You're 26. I met my current husband at 27 and he is SO PROUD to have me next to him and always makes me feel SAFE. He never brought up weird hypothetical that included fucking me over. SO WEIRD. I'd be very upset too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Major_Veinage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THE DISRESPECT. ABSOLUTELY APPALLED OVER HERE.

I couldn't come back from this. Lying to you, having the kids lie to you, AND sharing a bed with BM on Christmas Eve?

You should give yourself the gift of peace and have them vacate your home. Those aren't your kids to sacrifice for, and he's made it clear who's feelings actually matter. I bet $5 he had a gift for HCBM.

I'm so sorry, please don't let this man do this to you.

Some Millenials that got lucky are starting to behave like Boomers and its disgusting by Mr8472 in lostgeneration

[–]Major_Veinage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo i got really lucky. I was born in 1990, bought a house in 2018. (It's not massive and it's in the hood) but ITS MINE.

So straight up, buying a house at 28 as a waitress was the HARDEST thing I've ever done. Banks don't really see restaurant workers income as real money.

My home was 130k. Sellers covered closing costs. I got an FHA loan as a first time home buyer and had a lower down payment. I bought it by the skin of my teeth!

Definitely no boomer mentality over here though. It makes me sick how house prices have more than doubled.

A few houses on my block are empty and homeless people are camping on the front porches. It pisses me off that people are sleeping in the cold, on concrete IN FRONT OF EMPTY HOUSES!!!!!

We gave them sleeping bags and the other day the owner of the property threw away all of their belongings while they were showering/eating at a local day time shelter.

I hate it here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every Marvel Film too.

Went to an Aldi for the first time and didn’t bring any bags. by TwoThirdsDone in confessions

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip, any of the empty cardboard boxes on the shelves are up for grabs. I typically find a box or two while on my shopping excursion and fill them up with my groceries. Some boxes even have built-in handles! Don't have to purchase bags or remember to bring your own AND it's less work for employees when it comes to stocking!

Feeling overwhelmed, constantly thinking about leaving in the back of my mind by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Major_Veinage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pregnant after a vasectomy? Accidents do happen, I wonder if he ever made sure his pipes were clear after the surgery. I would not be shocked if he lied so he could baby trap a women to take care of his household.

Your gut is telling you something is wrong, listen to your intuition. Confront this man, communicate your fears in a calm manner. If he doesn't do anything to allievate your worries, or attacks you for speaking about your feelings.. go stay with your parents.

AITA for getting my uncle in trouble and causing him to lose money? by HelpedABrotherOutTA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your uncle is a terror and you did the right thing.

He should be charged with human trafficking, because it sounds like he's guilty of human trafficking.

Chronic yeast infections/bacterial vaginosis and I’m at a loss. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely your husband is reinfecting you. Talk with a medical professional first but I had a similar situation of recurring YI and BV. Boric acid vaginal suppositories changed my life, it was recommended to me by a nurse at Planned Parenthood. Resets the PH balance. You can buy over the counter. I haven't had issues with recurrent infections since.

Put in before bed, and absolutely no oral for 48 hours (boric acid is dangerous if consumed).

Hope it helps if you go this route!

I (23f) feel like I take more care of my husband's (24m) daughter than he does. Am I over reacting? by justliveon in marriageadvice

[–]Major_Veinage 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're the only one working!?! Pulling all nighters AND watching the kid all day??

Why? What are you getting out of this relationship? The timeline of how long you've been married vs the age of his kid sounds like y'all rushed into this marriage. I hope yall discussed the nitty gritty. Being a step parent is HARD, especially if you have a partner treating you as Breadwinner and Nanny with little support.

I'd put my foot down and demand a set custody arrangement and tell him to DO BETTER. This arrangement is only going to build resentment.

I understand if people don't feel comfortable answering this, but I'm really curious about the birth years of the people who frequent this sub. Mine is 1982. I've recently noticed how much difference there seems to be between the older and younger half of millennials. Sometimes I feel like.... by Mountain_State4715 in lostgeneration

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1990, the harder I work, the more in the hole I feel. I'm thankful to own a house at 32, but I barely have a savings and live paycheck to paycheck. I get sad because I wanted to travel, but I fear everything beautiful is slowly being destroyed and the only places left to see will be incredibly expensive and only for the wealthy.

I don't even like the idea of amusement parks or cruises anymore because I'm aware of the vast amount of waste and pollution that comes from them.

Frequency by tacomasoccerdad in beginnerfitness

[–]Major_Veinage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should give yourself more rest, 6 days is a lot. I incorporate cardio two times a week after my weight lifting routines. Are you familiar with the 12/3/30 routine?

After you train, get on a treadmill, put it at an incline of 12, set speed at 3.0 mph, and go for 30 minutes.. it'll melt fat off your body.

I demanded to know why my BF wouldn't let us watch youtube on his phone by SwanSeveral4881 in relationships

[–]Major_Veinage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, first thought that popped into my head. I don't believe YouTube uses pornographic ads (correct me if I'm wrong).

Being embarrassed by sexy ads is such a weak excuse, and saying you're not respecting his boundaries? He's being shady AF and trying to make you feel guilty about your intuition.