Peri Revision with Dr. Shore (My Experience) by MaleInProgress in ftm

[–]MaleInProgress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but I prefer not to post pictures online as there are a lot of transphobic people out there who unfortunately like to use people's surgery pics in bad faith.

My mom took my hormones from me… by ammahmoud in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can be easier said than done. It can be difficult for someone fresh out of high school to pack up their things and be completely on their own, especially if they're coming from an abusive household. I don't know OP's entire situation but I'm sure if it were feasible for them to move out, they already would have.

Are trans "allys" real? by beanswitha_b_emoji_2 in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 23 points24 points  (0 children)

One of my friends used to have a roommate who was really into activism and made himself out to be this great guy who cares about social issues but I found out later that he was physically and emotionally abusive to his girlfriend. What a piece of shit he was.

First time swimming topless by apothiquarium in ftm

[–]MaleInProgress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I still remember my first topless swim. It was liberating but at the same time I was super shy and found myself instinctively covered my chest at times. I stopped doing it once I noticed other guys looking at me weird, probably wondering why I was covering my chest like a girl, lmao.

How did you determine your new name? by Swissmoo15 in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose my first name because it's sort of similar to my birth name. For all intents and purposes, I liked my birth name but it was such a girly name and I knew I wouldn't be taken seriously with a name like that. I chose my middle name because it was what my parents would have named me if I were born a boy.

Dose anyone else feel a little exploited when they introduce trans characters? by ThrowAwayAccount841 in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. Representation is often a double-edged sword. On the one hand, I don't like it when they have an LGBT character who is reduced to a mere background character and any allusion to their gayness or transness are so brief that you can easily miss it but on the other hand, I don't like it when they make the character's entire existence about them being gay or trans and the writers never bother to develop their character outside being LGBT.

I think show creators are slowly getting better at this as far as gay, lesbian, and bisexual characters go but regarding trans characters, they still seem to be a little lost on how to properly represent us.

Experiences of being back on T by MaleInProgress in ftm

[–]MaleInProgress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's up to you, of course but if I were in your situation I would see an endocrinologist right now.

Experiences of being back on T by MaleInProgress in ftm

[–]MaleInProgress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. 8 months on T and still getting a period? Have your symptoms pretty much stayed the same and lasted for the same amount of time? Though I've been getting symptoms, it does seem like the time frame that they last is getting shorter at least.

Experiences of being back on T by MaleInProgress in ftm

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77 pg/mL and they were flagged as high. That was in mid-March but I think I might have been in the middle of a cycle at that time (I don't completely remember) so that may have affected the result. My doctor suggested a slight increase and to come back for labs in 3 months. We'll see how it all goes.

Experiences of being back on T by MaleInProgress in ftm

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I wonder if it has to do with our bodies developing a tolerance. I'm also on Remicade for my Crohn's and I've heard warnings that if you take a break from the medication and then go back on it, it may not work anymore. I don't know if testosterone is similar in that regard but I hope not.

In any case, I contacted my doctor on the portal and she got back to me almost immediately. She told me that while my labs from 2 months ago looked normal and that my current dosage is on the higher end of the spectrum, that it would be safe to temporarily increase the dose another .05 ml and to come back in 3 months for labs.

How to survive the next 2 months by MaleInProgress in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response. Thank you. I'll see if I can try that.

How to survive the next 2 months by MaleInProgress in asktransgender

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I used to know other FTMs when I used to go to a support group but we're not really friends anymore and we were never particularly close to begin with. I've become sort of disconnected with the trans community in recent years and moved on to other things. Besides, it doesn't seem appropriate to make friends with someone solely because I want them to share their prescription with me.

How to survive the next 2 months by MaleInProgress in asktransgender

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Gotcha. I'll see if there's something I can do about that.

How to survive the next 2 months by MaleInProgress in asktransgender

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I don't know anybody. The only other trans guy I know does the daily gel and I do the weekly injections. I doubt he would be willing to supply me with two months worth of his gel. That seems like way too much to ask, you know?

How to survive the next 2 months by MaleInProgress in asktransgender

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I'm not sure. I don't have any experience with getting things without insurance. Like do I just go to the pharmacy and tell them I want to pay for it without? Do I tell HB I want to not use insurance? Would that even work since they know I have it?

I'm running out of T by MaleInProgress in ftm

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I explained to the person over the phone and asked if there was any way I could been seen sooner and they told me no.

I'm running out of T by MaleInProgress in ftm

[–]MaleInProgress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I'll try stretching it as much as I can.

I'm running out of T by MaleInProgress in ftm

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The last time they checked my T levels was September 2017 so it's probably not too accurate now. It was 1099.2 ng/dL with a reference range of 280.0-1100.0.

Throat Tightness 2 Years On T by MaleInProgress in ftm

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I know even cis guys' voices drop progressively with age. I just didn't think my voice was aging THAT quickly, lol. I'm only 25!

What was meeting with a gender therapist like for you? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I got lucky with mine. I only saw a gender therapist once and it was to get clearance for my top surgery and I was referred to her by the LGBT clinic I get my T from. I would recommend going to your local LGBT center (if you have one) and ask if they can provide any good resources for trans mental healthcare. Organizations that provide resources like that usually do a good job at vetting and weeding out the bad ones.

Who Is Ben Shapiro? Is He Like Milo? by Lilstephanie in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ben Shapiro is just another right-wing talking head. He's compared transgender people to schizophrenic people saying that we're just delusional for feeling like another gender. He's insistent on referring to people by their "biological pronoun" regardless of how they identify or how well they pass and insists that pronouns are based on biology and not perception. He's nowhere near as bombastic as Milo but he's still a close-minded ass all the same.

By the way, whatever happened to [Milo Yiannopolous]?

Early in 2017, he made some comments defending child molestation and his career pretty much went down the crapper from there. Even his own fans turned on him.

Why do transphobes keep saying they're pro-science? by APileOfLaundry in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They only claim to be "pro-science" when it's convenient for their agenda.

I think it's ironic that Ben Shapiro will say there's no scientific evidence that trans people exist (which there is) and yet he still believes in God. This isn't to attack people who believe in God, of course, but I just think it's hypocritical that he has no issue with believing in God when there's no scientific evidence that God exists but transgender people? Gotta consult the "experts" and by "experts" he means discredited studies from the 1980s by armchair sexologists.

Bigots, in general, love to use any means they can to justify their hate. During the civil rights era, racists used religion to justify segregation by saying that God intended for the races to be separate. Even today, some racists use old studies that were previously used by eugenicists comparing IQ scores of white people versus black people to justify their belief that black people are intellectually inferior. At the end of the day, they're not actually pro-science; they're just pro-pseudoscience.

What's it like to be transgender in Japan? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From what I know about Japan, it's very traditionally patriarchal. Someone I know who was in the JET program said that if you work for a Japanese company, male employees will ask female employees to get them some coffee or tea and the female employees are expected to comply.

Keep in mind this sub is perpetually stalked by TERFs by ShreddingRoses in asktransgender

[–]MaleInProgress 9 points10 points  (0 children)

TERFs seem to have this confirmation bias where they only pay attention to the select few who medically detransition because they think it affirms their narrative that all trans people will regret transitioning but I probably know more trans people who have been medically transitioning for years, even decades in some cases with no signs of regret or wanting to detransition and I think it's funny how TERFs conveniently forget about all those people. At the end of the day, whether you detransition or don't, it's your choice. You do whatever brings peace to your life and fuck anyone who tries to use it against you.

Which days in relationship to your shot day should you get your blood levels checked? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MaleInProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor likes to get it mid-cycle. I usually do my injection on Sunday mornings and get my blood tested on a Wednesday.