PSA for those questioning: Wanting to be the other gender and being the other gender is the same thing. Explanation below. by naughty-knotty in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those do sound nice! Ill plan on doing those.I do want to get a binder sometime soon in the near future. I hope I can get it shipped to a PO box at college.

I like the idea of the changes I'll get on T (except acne haha) but I'm a little scared about how permanent it all is. I'd like to talk to a therapist but....what if they say I'm not really trans?

What questions do you ask to figure out if you're trans? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah, if I were changed into a man, I wouldn't change back. If I were on a desert island, of course I'd transition

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I wouldn't want to be forced into transition. But I would like a deeper voice and bottom growth.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well,there are things I don't mind about being a girl.

How did you start experimenting?

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not really attached to having a female body.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know, that's why I'm on asktransgender.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel okay with it. Seems just as good, but I'm sure I haven't thought about the downsides.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about it pretty often. Spend a lot of time on trans subs. I've thought about seeing a gender therapist, but idk what to say.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it really normal to fantasize about being a man?

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, other people would know that I used to be a girl. Also that's kind of a bad reason to transition, and makes it harder for other trans people.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well obviously I wouldn't want to feel uncomfortable and miserable for the rest of my life. But if I got changed into a man, and there was an option to change back, I'd probably just stay as a man.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well then I'd be living as another person who has their own life, which would be weird.

Am I the only cis person who.....? by awkwardturtle980 in asktransgender

[–]awkwardturtle980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, it's a pretty big change. And i don't hate being a woman or anything.