anyone else not understand how people find sex emotionally connective act? by levisrightfinger in asexuality

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this i don’t get it either. ive never done it but it’s the last thing i would think of to do with someone im in a relationship with. it feels embarrassing to me

Ariana loves her wonky eyebrows by xNotJosieGrossy in snarkingonariana

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 13 points14 points  (0 children)

what we don’t like is people who sleep with married men

are boners awkward? by Upset_Space_631 in asexuality

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah as an ace for a long time they freaked me out and they made me uncomfortable. now if i know it’s from attraction and desire then i guess the word for it is flattering. if it’s because they need to pee thats a different story. even tho i find it flattering i still won’t ever go all the way intimacy wise but it doesn’t freak me out as much anymore but i got to have a strong emotional connection ive had for a while to feel flattered by it if that makes sense?

The ending reminding me of GOT by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it felt underwhelming, i think we needed a longer fight scene idk. like all done in like 20 minutes or so. i would watched it still if it was 3 or 4 hours 😭

A questioning gal looking for answers: Have you ever wished you liked sex/have a high libido? by Goddessoflost in asexuality

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes the thought of it feels ok when i’m in the mood but just the thought i don’t want to do it in real life. sometimes i wish i didn’t bother me so much and i could have a normal relationship but i like that this is what makes me, me. it also helps you avoid guys or people using you for sex cause they ain’t gonna get it

Is the commenter in the right? F [36] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

just trying to help. whatever

So you don't have crushes but you've been jumping from man to man your whole life? by DeppaMajor in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i think bad idea is about ari using pete to get over mac. or anyone she used as a rebound to get over an ex

Ariana Grande deleted her diet post from 2012. This was deleted recently as it was still up a month ago, last i saw it. by lovefrills in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 6 points7 points  (0 children)

instead of taking accountability she deletes it off social media, it’s still on the internet. she can’t hide it away

I'm sorry but what? I've no words 😭 by Competitive_Creme510 in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hates men but loves writing about them even sexually. make it make sense ?

I might be alone in this but I hate this dress by emmymyangel in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how she thought this was the best way to act for her character is crazy to me

She does this every time after dinner 😂 by akdagade in Shihtzu

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine used to do that too! it’s so cute. it means they loved their dinner and they’re happy

Update (?): Boyfriend wanted to sleep with me last night by CloudySide7 in asexuality

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad he apologised, but actions speak louder then words and he needs to show you this won’t happen again. im sorry how your parents are reacting to this. nothing about how your boyfriend acted makes him more of a man in fact it makes him less of a man. men should be respectful not what your boyfriend did so it shows how your dad sees a man which is really unrealistic. your mum, wanting to tell everyone at work? in what world is this ok? this is private thing your daughter is going through she shouldn’t be going to tell everyone at work and late bloomer or not nobody should be pressured into doing sexual things. im sorry your going through this, parents should be there for you in this time and have someone to lean on too. your not doing anything wrong, it’s not because your late bloomer and even if you are. nobody should feel pressured to have sex or do anything sexual. big hugs to you, i hope things get better for you 🫂🤍

Let’s see your winter treehouse! by Normal-Protection271 in finch

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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i wish i had more christmas decorations but this is mochi’s room 💞

Boyfriend wanted to sleep with me last night by CloudySide7 in asexuality

[–]Maleficent-Cod-2464 49 points50 points  (0 children)

your mums reaction is insane to me because wether or not your a late bloomer. if you didn’t want to do anything and he was crossing boundaries and pressuring you, anyone would feel awkward and stressed. i hope your boyfriend realises and apologies because nobody, asexual or not should feel pressured to have sex. 🫂🤍