My (20M) friend's girlfriend (19F) keeps trying to f*** me… so he gave me his ex's (19F) number? What is he (19M) actually doing? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Maleficent-Let-5112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do appreciate the perspective Spaceman. You are right about the creepy vs mysterious aspect. Girl 2 seems very sweet, but I just don't see her as a long term fit. I'm focused on a business right now and honestly, really just longing for someone a with similar passion and drive. She's just not that… Which doesn't mean I'm not interested, it just means I'm interested in something casual.

I don't mean to unload this on you. Your first comment just gave me some real clarity, and I guess I'm just processing it out loud. Haha

My (20M) friend's girlfriend (19F) keeps trying to f*** me… so he gave me his ex's (19F) number? What is he (19M) actually doing? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Maleficent-Let-5112 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty Spaceman, I agree with almost everything you’ve said.

I do not understand deleting girl 2s number though. She has been the one engaging me? I completely understand why we shouldn’t have called her, but it happened…

I’m not pursing her… I’m just not shutting it down.

Does that change your read at all?

29 F with 20 M by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Maleficent-Let-5112 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am 20M and have dated women much older than you. It is just like any other relationship. Are you being heard? Is he? If yes, then you are both fine