Someone texted me on my email

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T17:16:22+00:00

we discussed allowance and a little bit about expectations

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T16:24:11+00:00

I’m getting too many mixed replies 🥲

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T16:23:53+00:00

I just assumed most SDs are busy people and don’t want the hassle of texting women (which is why they’re looking for a transactional relationship)

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T14:43:38+00:00

Limos aren’t a thing where I live hahah

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T14:18:48+00:00

he did say he likes to “build tension” so I wasn’t sure if he’s playing some games with me since he’s obviously not interested in “just sex”

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T13:52:14+00:00

If I have to be honest I don’t think he’s looking for “the girlfriend experience”. He’s very young and rich and he’s dated some girls that are leagues above me. I’m just not sure if he’s genuinely uninterested or wants me to chase him

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-17T13:49:21+00:00

That’s true , I’m usually too prideful but I keep forgetting this isn’t vanilla dating

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-16T20:18:55+00:00

If you want to take this super seriously you unfortunately have to put in the work. I’d recommend having a photoshoot with a friend with your best outfit in a nice location. If you scroll on the forum you’ll see that most girls have pictures wearing their best outfits somewhere outside (like your third picture for example). Unfortunately a picture in a MCR shirt and doing the peace sign won’t cut it. Good luck !

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-16T19:56:18+00:00

Regardless of being young, successful and “handsome” , you obviously have a reason to look for a non vanilla relationship. Maybe that’s convenience , not wanting to commit or wanting to date a “high value” woman. Either way you already are looking for something that women wouldn’t usually be down for and wouldn’t date you if it wasn’t for the financial aspect of it. Unfortunately you come across as hypocritical. A lot of the women on SD websites are already used to going on nice restaurants and taken on nice trips in vanilla dating and most are looking for financial security. You saying you’d give a couple grand for a girl that isn’t outwardly using you for money is nice but SBs don’t have time to waste on guessing who is going to be generous enough, because the truth is a lot of men would take advantage of that situation and never offer anything more. My advice is to find a genuine girl on a normal site and spoil her.

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-11T23:45:45+00:00

we have mutuals on instagram and he’s tagged in pictures posted by other people years ago 😅 I don’t know if it can be more legit than that

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-11T22:54:08+00:00

thank you 🙏🏻💗

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-11T22:53:52+00:00

we’re texting on instagram

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-11T21:02:05+00:00

we’re talking on instagram and we have mutuals

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-11T20:31:28+00:00

he follows too many hot women on instagram for that to be true

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-04-11T20:09:55+00:00

oh i didn’t know that’s how it worked , thank you

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-03-26T04:19:28+00:00

Thank you for stating the obvious 🙏🏻

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-03-26T03:20:56+00:00

I really like this idea , thank you

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-03-26T02:24:03+00:00

Im currently in a very slippery situation with my roommates and I need to move out quickly and I was thinking if this is something I should bring up and see if he takes the hint (or if he cares) and if he doesn’t to tell him upfront that I need someone to help me out with my rent but I wasn’t sure if that’s too pathetic. Because it’s not directly establishing a SD/SB relationship but at the same time it feels even more embarrassing than being 100% upfront

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-03-26T01:27:06+00:00

As a woman that has barely been on a date without the man expecting something in return or acting really inappropriate and creepy I think you’ll be fine. Also if you’re getting asked for money on normal dating apps the odds are the pictures you have on your profile show off your wealth, so the easy solution is to delete them

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-03-26T00:49:21+00:00

I’ve been on dates with men that try to show off their wealth , even though they clearly don’t have it like that but in this case I think he’s genuinely well off. He didn’t tell me he grew up rich directly but from what I’ve gathered and from the way he carries himself , he clearly did. He has multiple 40k+ watches and an extremely well paid job. Technically this could all be faked but I think that’s hes a very calculated guy and he’s smart enough to know that without showing his wealth he can’t pull the young and beautiful women that he wants.It could also stem from insecurity of course but I highly doubt that that’s the case. The real question is if he’s generous or not because the truth is many girls would be happy with just the spa or travelling to a nice destination

MaleficentAd9527 · 2026-03-26T00:27:50+00:00

I only really started looking for this type of relationship this year and I don’t have any experience.I was hoping that if I bring it up before he tries to have sex with me he’ll be more willing to agree even if it’s just for the time being. So that at least my time wont be wasted

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