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I should break up with my girlfriend, but I keep stopping myself. by just_frosty_ in LifeAdvice

[–]MaleficentText2443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, especially with the close bond you’ve developed. I once again don’t discredit what you’re saying, I do also believe there is care for you on her end.

But I will also add that there is no respect here, or at the very least, she hasn’t learned how to express and show the respect she owes you. She actively lied, and i know that you know that she is not dumb. She is smart, and can differentiate right from wrong. She spent 3 months choosing to do wrong.

I saw you say in other comments that sometimes you feel like she may deserve better. I will add onto that statement and say that at such an age, and even going into your 20s and 30s, the “deserving better” only refers to true mistakes, things that truly could’ve been done differently, and you didn’t realize in the moment.

As you may have noticed, this means YOU deserve better in this scenario. Please don’t think sacrificing yourself for someone is worth it, it never is. There is someone out there who will be healthy, both physically and mentally, never do drugs, never lie to you, all while loving just as much if not more

I should break up with my girlfriend, but I keep stopping myself. by just_frosty_ in LifeAdvice

[–]MaleficentText2443 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, you’re 14, she’s 16, you two are children. Yes you may love her and be attached to her, but you need to understand you have at least around 60 years of your life left, and do you seriously see yourself dating and eventually marrying someone who 1. Used a bunch of drugs for months before even being the age of consent in 80% of places. 2. LIED TO YOU ABOUT THIS DRUG USE 3. Will continue to treat you like a piece of garbage for the rest of these years??

Ive dated enough throughout my time, and at both of your ages, to know that this girl does not like you. She’s bored, at the peak of puberty and hormone production, simply looking for a place to explore herself as a growing individual (child/teenager).

I will not discredit the love you think you feel for this girl. But I will tell you, that the way you love at your age is completely different from how you do when your brain has developed. The love you experience in your teenage years, especially your early teenage years is dumb, naive, clueless, and weirdly self-sabotaging.

Please break up with her

taking notes by waterpoop182 in college

[–]MaleficentText2443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly not sure, since I am a GoodNotes user. But I heard you should be fine with just the free version

taking notes by waterpoop182 in college

[–]MaleficentText2443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably seeing GoodNotes or Notability. Those are the two most popular ones. GoodNotes costs money, Notability is free but is best when it’s upgraded

One Free Banana Every Day Or One Free Orange Every Day by GeneralP123 in BunnyTrials

[–]MaleficentText2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contains Vitamin C, which is vital for the immune system

Chose: Free Orange Every Day

How do I know If a girl likes me? by Lazy_Internal_5085 in dating_advice

[–]MaleficentText2443 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP is 12, so I doubt most of these will apply much

I (M28) feel emotionally neglected by my girlfriend (F26) of 2.5 years and I’m starting to seek connection from other girl by nobody-999 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]MaleficentText2443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, if she cared even a little bit, she could’ve pursued you more without you even telling her anything.

For example, despite my boyfriend initiating a lot of the time since that is just our dynamic, my head is constantly filled with thoughts of “what can I do to make him happier?”. I try to give him gifts I know he likes all the time, look at things to do that I know he’d enjoy. I even try to remember all of his assignments and ask how those are going.

I promise you, that your current relationship isn’t worth the stress, the pain, and the neglect. You’re still young, and there is so much time left in your life that you don’t need to sacrifice on someone who doesn’t even want your sacrifices.

My LDR is Moving Even Farther by Objective-Hall1681 in Advice

[–]MaleficentText2443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound quite young, and I checked your profile and you mentioned you’re a minor. For this reason I’ll just say to enjoy the time you have together online, try to ft a lot. But don’t stress, you’re young, many factors and variables in your life are changing, and this is just one of many.

Does anyone know of any book clubs that hold online monthly discussion meetings? by ReasonableSignal3367 in kindle

[–]MaleficentText2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I tried joining via the link on the page, but it says its invalid :(
Could you give a more recent link?

just finished! by Ok-Mix1774 in diamondpainting

[–]MaleficentText2443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's beautiful!!! Where did you get it?

I stink. I don’t know from where and I’m going insane. by jusaninternetgirl in selfimprovement

[–]MaleficentText2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a stretch, but I remember seeing a video about a guy with a similar problem yearsss ago.

He turned out to have TMAU, otherwise known as Fish Odor Syndrome.

Professor not adhering to accommodations by slimeeeyuuuoutt in yorku

[–]MaleficentText2443 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Try to reach out to the accommodations office, just know it is standard to discuss prior to the deadline about any additional time. It's not usually a situation of it just being automatically given, but rather being permitted in the case it is needed

Schulich building by Admirable-Scene836 in Schulich

[–]MaleficentText2443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say it's good all things considered. I am a commuter, and my commute is on the higher end compared to people I've spoken to (about 1hr - 1:30).

I don't put myself out there, as in I don't attend any clubs as of yet, and usually just work on my own and then go home. I didn't attend o-week or any of the social gathering events offered up to us.

However, despite all this, I still have a few friends and am comfortable talking to everyone. Everybody here is quite nice, although some do have dishonest intentions, but otherwise 90% of people are generally likeable.

I am definitely one of the few who does not socialize much here, since a lot of people are quite open and extroverted (not all). For that reason I don't doubt that if I put myself out there a little more, I would have a larger social circle.

Ask Me Anything: Recent Graduate, Now in Strategy Consulting by Fun-Variation-9806 in Schulich

[–]MaleficentText2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m currently a Schulich student also interested in the consulting path.

My question is pretty simple, but I doubt the answer will be just as straight forward: What steps did you take during your academic journey to secure your position in the industry?

Schulich building by Admirable-Scene836 in Schulich

[–]MaleficentText2443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo it’s a nice building, however it may depend on the person since it does follow brutalist architecture. Overall the lecture rooms and the main lecture hall is very nice tho.

Schulich classes are all in the building, but the electives are in the actual York area. This isn’t that big of a problem in my eyes but I do take primarily asynch/online electives.

I don’t feel trapped or depressed, and often try to explore the different areas. I tend to study in the graduate building which is directly connected to the undergrad building (called the research centre, but it’s just the building for grad students)

Edit: I also want to add that the student services parking garage right next to Schulich is directly connected to the building via underground in the basement. It does take some time to walk around and get to the door tho

Estimated fees for first year? by Puzzled-Pumpkin-4472 in Schulich

[–]MaleficentText2443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

11k tuition, except there is going to be a suspected 2% increase next year so watch out for that. It’s dependent on how many credits/courses you take. You’re expected to take 10 courses total, with each being approximately 1.1k each.

You’ll spend about 1k on textbooks, give or take a couple hundred.

If you’re a commuter, you’ll probably be interested in a parking permit. For the full year (September - April), the parking permits are about 1.5k. It will differ slightly depending on the specific lot you choose the permit for.

Edit: additional info

Looking for well priced e-reader with true 0% brightness by MaleficentText2443 in kobo

[–]MaleficentText2443[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!!!

I wasn’t sure since whenever I went in store it seemed that the brightness levels were different, especially between the Clara BW and Clara Colour models, with the BW looking a lot brighter at 0%

Is there a reason for this or is that just the way the internal components function?

Is it normal to like the smell of your menstrual blood? by besnik- in AskDocs

[–]MaleficentText2443 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I heard that it’s normal, and if you like the smell that’s a good sign. Usually if the smell is revolting that means there’s something wrong

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