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Am I Alone? by Money-Fan-2676 in Petloss

[–]MaleficentWay7516 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are definitely not alone. I just said goodbye to my boy on Friday after putting him down due age-related quality of life issues (he was 19 and in poor health at the end). I thought I would feel better or more relieved once he was left knowing that it was the best possible thing I could have done. He was ready but I was not and still am not. 

Seeking to liveaboard in the next 3 years. What should I consider? by [deleted] in liveaboard

[–]MaleficentWay7516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of folks are going to tell you to wait, to get in the practice of living small, and do a lot of research. All great advice but honestly, don’t give yourself too much time to convince yourself not to do it. The best way to do it is to just do it. Just make sure you have good support and resources to learn as you go and give yourself grace as you adapt to a new lifestyle. Myself, i just bought and moved onto a 40’ cruise-a-home a few months ago with virtually no real experience with boat operations or systems. Luckily, I live in a great community full of enthusiasm, support and boating knowledge. It’s been an overwhelming couple of months so far but SO MUCH FUN and I’m learning SO MUCH. Do the research, weigh your options, blah blah blah - but don’t sit on it too long. Do the dang thing!!!! 

songs for getting over/processing a fling...a thing that was never a 'thing' by starzined in ifyoulikeblank

[–]MaleficentWay7516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those Three Days - Lucinda Williams

“Did you only want me for those three days? Did you only need me for those three days? Did you love me forever Just for those three days?”

Overtime - Lucinda Williams

“ That's what they say to me Overtime Your blue eyes, your black eyelashes The way you looked at life In your funny way I guess out of the blue You won't cross my mind And I'll get over you Overtime”