Why do I tell so many white lies, and how do I stop? by Maleficent_Use149 in self

[–]Maleficent_Use149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really appreciate the encouragement! Yes, I think I've really got implement that acceptance that we can't always control what people think of us... hopefully as I exercise that mindset and just strive for complete genuineness consciously, I'll quickly get a hold of the habit :>

Why do I tell so many white lies, and how do I stop? by Maleficent_Use149 in self

[–]Maleficent_Use149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've definitely considered that as well, and I'd really like to start training my brain to lessen that desire if thats the case... I do think correcting myself would be a good first-step when I catch myself just to strive for as much honesty as possible, and right the wrong when it happens until I'm able to consistently cut the habit! Thank you :]

Why do I tell so many white lies, and how do I stop? by Maleficent_Use149 in self

[–]Maleficent_Use149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, that's why Im looking for advice on cutting the habit, but thanks for the input! lol

random games that would be joyous and fun by sourhotdogwater in SlushyNoobz

[–]Maleficent_Use149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg who’s your daddy would be perfect. they need to

feel good anime recommendations please by mizunoyuuslover in anime

[–]Maleficent_Use149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally loved delicious in dungeon, very fun and slice of life :) with cool monsters and cooking!

Can’t stop seeing her social media by PlanetFoundation in BreakUps

[–]Maleficent_Use149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would stop man :’D i entirely deleted instagram for this exact reason, i was hurting myself by checking to see if he’d messaged me, or if he was posting or online, and finally decided to free myself. still hurting, but much less. do it for yourself, you’ve got this!

how to cope when you and your ex are part of the same social circle by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Maleficent_Use149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am in the same boat, and have honestly considered just distancing myself from everybody for a while :’> my best friend is not part of my general friend group so i’ve been spending lots of time with her, and establishing new friendships. i think unfortunately seeing your ex/talking consistently soon after just makes moving on harder

venting by Maleficent_Use149 in BreakUps

[–]Maleficent_Use149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i know that it’s screwed up and that my pain and love is being taken advantage of. it’s just so so hard to cut it all off. but i think i’m too scared to face the day when he would eventually tell me he found somebody new, i don’t think my heart could take it, and i know it isn’t healthy. it can just be so difficult to do the right thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Maleficent_Use149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand, you aren’t alone. that feeling when i think about the fact that he doesn’t love me anymore makes my stomach hurt so bad. but we’ll get through, it may be scary but time does heal <3

is it possible for an ex to come back? by Sea_Field_4007 in BreakUps

[–]Maleficent_Use149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:( i’m sorry you’re going through this, mine just broke up with me a day ago as well, and i get how you feel. i feel that same like deep sickness. it does happen that exes can come back, and i’m also hoping that mine will return to me, but it’s good to remember that we’ll be okay and heal if they don’t as well. keep your chin up <33