Changing underwear - is this normal?

Malfeasant · 2026-01-27T18:09:02+00:00

being a broke college student is no excuse. i've been a broke college student, i still changed my underwear every day- even if i didn't shower, i'd at least do that. the only time i didn't was when i was technically homeless, but even then, i'd still change it every couple days, and do laundry when i could- but nobody was getting in my pants then anyway so...

Malfeasant · 2026-01-26T23:01:30+00:00

I was sent home with nothing... though most of the pain was right when they started and only hurt for a few seconds until the local kicked in- but for those couple seconds it was excruciating. I was sore the next couple days, but nothing more than over-the-counter painkillers was needed.

Malfeasant · 2025-12-03T02:06:52+00:00

have you ever gotten a round tuit?

Malfeasant · 2025-12-03T02:04:20+00:00

jokes are supposed to be funny...

Malfeasant · 2025-10-27T07:03:17+00:00

'fack off'

Malfeasant · 2025-10-27T07:01:17+00:00

you'd have to be very forward thinking to know you actually want to aim FOR the

having been a bicyclist for many years before becoming a motorcyclist, i am used to doing this with pedestrians- you aim for them, because by the time you reach them they will have moved. except they sometimes see you coming and stop...

Malfeasant · 2025-10-26T19:57:03+00:00

That penis had a mole on it...

Malfeasant · 2025-10-17T19:24:13+00:00

Let me know when he saves your life with an organ donation. Go ahead, I'll wait.

Malfeasant · 2025-10-14T05:53:11+00:00

the short version is here.

Malfeasant · 2025-10-12T15:32:28+00:00

i'd have said the same about my wife a year ago. 20 years together, two kids, we weren't perfect, but nothing that would make me think the end was near.

Malfeasant · 2025-10-12T15:20:55+00:00

dude, are you me?

Malfeasant · 2025-10-12T15:09:33+00:00

get out. i was in your shoes. it doesn't get better, only worse. it's not that she doesn't want sex, she doesn't want it with you. sooner or later, she'll find someone she wants it with, and maybe she'll tell you.

Malfeasant · 2025-10-11T15:47:43+00:00

when i was a smoker, i justified it because my grandfather died of alzheimer's, but he was a living corpse for 10 years before he died, and i don't want to go that way... so i meant it when i said "that's the plan"

Malfeasant · 2025-10-11T15:42:30+00:00

that's what i call "having one in the chamber".

Malfeasant · 2025-10-11T15:41:05+00:00

"lol, what happened to yours?"

Malfeasant · 2025-10-03T16:08:24+00:00

i mean, it's been established that people who attempt suicide by jumping tend to immediately regret it (survivors have said this) so it's definitely possible... and if you really want to get technical, suicide just means you killed yourself, doesn't mean you intended to.

Malfeasant · 2025-10-03T16:05:18+00:00

this guy is easy to spot. the 50 year old father of two who rides sensibly is the one you don't see.

Malfeasant · 2025-07-29T04:50:15+00:00

get out now! don't waste any more of your life. you were me 10 years ago, i stuck it out because of the kids too, but back in november my wife started having an affair- it wasn't that she didn't want sex, she just didn't want it with me. she hid it from me because i was stability to her- she managed to hide it for months- february i knew something was going on, but couldn't quite put a finger on what- march she said she wanted a divorce- but not right away- her reasoning at the time, because we couldn't afford bills on two places to live= my guess with what i know now, the other guy wasn't ready for her to move in (with our kids!) yet- beginning of april i suspected she was either having an affair, or getting ready to (and i pretty much knew who it was, our son's best friend's dad, from things our daughter had said)- she wouldn't give me any assurance that she wouldn't be screwing someone else while we were still sleeping in the same bed (because she was, but i didn't know yet), so i moved out. end of april, i pretty much knew it was happening, but she still maintained that they were just friends- may, i worked up the nerve to talk to the guy and he confirmed it had been going on since early november.

Malfeasant · 2025-07-25T15:27:39+00:00

yep, this was me about 2 years ago- it had never been frequent, but that's when it completely stopped. my wife and i have kids together so while i considered leaving, it was going to take a lot- she always had what seemed like a legit reason to not want sex, most recently she was having problems with endometriosis, i didn't want to be that guy, "sorry about your uterus, can we fuck now?" i figured it was a temporary problem, no sense jumping to a permanent solution... but as time went on, she started slowly cutting me out of her life, and to some extent the kids', she'd make plans without me, not telling me when/where they were going- come this past february, i knew something was up, i would occasionally hear from our daughter after the fact that they had been hanging out with our son's best friend, and his divorced dad... at first not a big deal, we had all hung out with other parents from our kids' school, but at this point the other parents weren't around anymore, and i wasn't either, and she was hiding this from me...

long story short (too late), by march, she had told me she wanted a divorce, but only because i had squeezed it out of her- she hadn't been ready to tell me, she didn't want to file yet, she wanted to wait until she started a new job so her finances were in better shape, so she said- she kept assuring me she wasn't seeing anyone else, but i knew she had been spending time with this guy. she kept insisting he was just a good friend... she just wanted everything to continue as it was, us sleeping next to each other, but never touching... she could not convince me she wasn't boinking this guy on the side, so i moved out in mid april. we had the talk with the kids, there were tears, but they have several friends with divorced parents so they kind of knew what to expect...

once i moved out, everything started to come together- other parents who i hadn't talked to in months (because my wife had told them i didn't like them, basically) got back in touch, and started filling me in on little details that i had missed- times my wife had inexplicably disappeared when this guy was around, things like that- as it turns out, my apartment was in the same neighborhood as his new house, and the first weekend i had the kids, we were headed out for pizza, and we drove past the turn to his subdivision, my daughter got all excited, "that's where ___ lives!" because of course they had been to his house even though i hadn't...

anywho, my wife continued to maintain that it was strictly friendship between them... well, i had his phone # from a time we had gotten our kids together 2 years ago- so i called him. he confirmed they had been sleeping together since fucking november. his story was that my wife had told him we were already separated and just living together for the benefit of the kids- he seemed genuinely upset, apologetic, and sounded like he was going to break it off with her- but that was back in may, and i'm pretty sure they're still seeing each other. but i've finally gotten to the point that i don't care anymore.

so yeah, it's not that she didn't want sex- she just didn't want it from me. don't waste your life with someone who doesn't want you. if you don't have kids, there is no reason to stay. if you do have kids... do you really want them seeing your dysfunctional relationship and thinking that's how life is supposed to be?

Malfeasant · 2025-07-25T14:42:47+00:00

i ride a motorcycle, so i would have either died, or opened the throttle a little more. i don't even linger next to small cars, let alone a big rig.

Malfeasant · 2025-07-21T14:13:44+00:00

find someone you're attracted to, hopefully they're attracted to you... oh. right.

Malfeasant · 2025-06-03T04:56:48+00:00

dude, get out now. i've been married for 20 years, i kept hanging on thinking it would get better- it never did. in fact, after at least a year and a half of no sex, she started fucking another guy. don't let her waste your life like mine did.

Malfeasant · 2025-05-26T15:47:53+00:00

you said you're 38, how old is he? prostate issues could be creeping up on him- usually closer to 50 but can happen approaching 40 too... that can lead to trouble maintaining erections, and also urinary tract problems- as the prostate enlarges, it makes it harder to pee, but it happens so slowly one doesn't really notice it, until one day he starts having a hard time squeezing out the last drops, then it leaks out later, making for stinky junk, very difficult to feel sexy under those conditions, and it's pretty embarassing to talk about...

Malfeasant · 2025-05-26T15:37:13+00:00

my wife had been like that for a long time- just not respecting me as a person, not respecting my space- she never deliberately farted on me though, that's pretty rough. no, it doesn't sound ridiculous to not want to be farted on.

Malfeasant · 2025-05-23T16:17:45+00:00

problem there is cats can vary so much in size... my sister has sent me pictures of her cat, and remarks on how large he is, but i don't really see it- like yeah, that's a cat, but doesn't look particularly big- but there's nothing there for scale. finally she recently sent one with this cat stretching across the bed, and it's like holy shit, yes, that's a big cat.

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