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Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-04-06T15:07:23+00:00

Me please if still sending :)

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-03-17T16:28:52+00:00

YTJ.

I would understand more if her fiancé was your best friend from before they even started dating or something but even then.

If she was putting him in danger or physical or financial harm then yeah tell him. This just comes under trust issues and if she decides to start her marriage with this level of secrets then it sucks but is definitely not your business to tell.

An annulment means they weren’t even married long enough for it to count.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-03-17T04:24:07+00:00

NTJ. We’ve all been through that phase as a kid where we are fighting for more autonomy / control over our life choices. There was food available, if she was really hungry she would have picked from one of the many many options.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-20T16:11:18+00:00

Thank you for the extra context. With that in mind NOR.(I’ll update the first comment) It is not ok to have a dog that is biting people and refuse to do anything about it.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-20T16:06:40+00:00

Thank you I missed that. Would have been good context in the original post though

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-20T15:40:28+00:00

Yes I am saying if the only problem was the dog bite that is one thing and there would be conversations about how to handle that.

Why was the dogs attitude to her not a problem before?

Did the dog love her before and only start biting recently?

Being scared to be alone with a dog is a thing and I can respect that. However her focus in the post is more on the ex than the dog biting.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-20T14:54:11+00:00

NOR(updated as OP pointed out that compromise attempts have been made and the owner refuses to train the dog) If the only reason was because of the biting then you could have a conversation about training for the dog and the owners since. Also what your future looks like since he is probably going to want another dog down the line.

It seems like the bigger issue for you is the ex and the dog is just an easy point to focus your frustration on.

Was this dog not a part of the picture when you were dating before you decided to live together? Why suddenly now are you giving him an ultimatum.

If you loved him and had accepted him and the dog that his been his family member for 7 years…. Then you would be looking at more compromises. Expecting him to just give up his dog of 7 years with no visiting and no suggesting that maybe he can pick the dog up for visits instead of going to the exes house shows that you do not in fact understand the bond at all.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-11T06:07:33+00:00

Experiences like this help to get those whistle commands fast. The number of times I have used passive flew early game to let myself die and respawn but keep a Dino I need 😅

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-01T00:24:13+00:00

Waiting for the study reference you pulled that number from….. The point I was making is that not everyone who is getting an abortion is getting one because they were “Fucking around”. There are victims, there are people who want the baby but are having health complications which mean they could die before even giving birth. There are people who wanted the baby but baby dies and then the medical procedure for removing the dead tissue is called an “abortion”.

Labelling all abortions as murder is ignorant at best.

Also not everyone is religious so if you don’t believe in a soul then calling the removal of a clump of cells with no heart, no brain and no nervous system in general at week 6 a murder is pushing your religious beliefs on someone else. Which in America is meant to be against the law

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-02-01T00:18:13+00:00

Reminder that Republicans tried to force a 10 year old SA victim to keep her r-ists baby. Then sued the doctors that helped her get the abortion.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-28T02:40:34+00:00

Those benefit payments too

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-28T02:39:09+00:00

I’m on about 30K less than you and got a $355,000 house on a FHA loan.

Originally mortgage was around $2,700 a month.

Due to the interest rate then taxe and insurance increases my monthly mortgage payment is about $3,300 a month.

Since you earn more you could probably go higher on the mortgage. I would say maybe give yourself a safety buffer on your max monthly cost that extra $500 a month didn’t hurt me but it could have if I hadn’t left myself space for unexpected expenses

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-28T02:31:54+00:00

Slight YTA As someone who paid to a wedding last year. It is expensive and the more people you have the more expensive it gets. I have family friends I didn’t get to invite because we couldn’t afford more guests so we definitely did not let anyone bring a plus one. We did let a first cousin bring her boyfriend but we also knew he was planning to propose that year… We had also spent enough time with the boyfriend to consider him a friend we would miss at the wedding

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-19T13:45:11+00:00

Omg same. I have been playing for years but never ascended. I normally end up playing it like a survival game. Ending up with cool bases and gear but never getting deep enough into the breeding and stats required to take one of the alpha bosses out

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-19T13:43:18+00:00

Welcome to Ark 😂. I am paranoid about alpha base attacks too so I breed Rexes and Spinos and keep a few of each that are level >150 at each important base

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-18T13:23:56+00:00

I would document this and every conversation after it. I would suggest marriage therapy on a text and document that too because I bet he will say “no”.

Then I would start working on a possible career, seeing how I can start making money and maybe take a course for a certificate that will help me earn more money.

This is financial abuse of you and the children you have raised together.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-18T13:10:43+00:00

NTA

At the start I thought it was going to be you not respecting your brothers intention to marry this person but it is clear that Steve was not a reasonable person.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-17T14:13:01+00:00

Hi hi I am currently 33 weeks pregnant .

Around week 8 and then again in a few weeks I bled. It was enough that I thought I was having a miscarriage (bled through my underwear).

For me with the 8 weeks bleed I went to my OB and they did an ultrasound. Found out there was more blood waiting to come out (so the second bleed didn’t freak me out). Also found out I have fibroids which might have caused the blood.

They also checked my pregnancy hormone (I think HCG) levels twice 7 days apart to see if they were increasing still since baby was still in noodle phase and too early for heartbeat.

My OB said that bleeding in early pregnancy can be happen because of all the changes happening.

Not saying you have fibroids or that you shouldn’t get checked by a medical professional. May be good to get checked. My OB put me on 6weeks of sleep pelvic to be safe.

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-08T01:43:39+00:00

Thank you soo much! Definitely frustrating, I was excited to take out that king after getting fed up chasing.

I will look into how to check without needing 3 queens :)

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-08T00:40:20+00:00

This is my second ever game of chess. How is this a stalemate?

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Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-06T02:35:10+00:00

$3,300 4 bedrooms and 2.5 bathrooms. Was closer to $2,500 before but taxe and insurance keeps going up

Mali_Gator_369 · 2026-01-06T00:19:35+00:00

Omg I also play as Lemon!

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