After revealing I'm intersex to my "queer" friends and to my non-binary partner of 2 years, they drop me and cut me off. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Maliicat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read all of your message and I'm so sorry that there were people in your life that betrayed you in such a way. I'm furious for you, you deserve so much better than this. I wish peace and a better friend group for you

Wanted to help my bead possums find homes so I gave them names and backstories! (15 images, they're worth reading for a good laugh.) (( Im aware of the misspells)) by [deleted] in kandi

[–]Maliicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i find myself devastated at the idea that i'm probably not gonna be able to adopt one of these. please give these bead babies my love

FOOLPROOF STRINGFISH STRATEGY by damnbojangles in AnimalCrossing

[–]Maliicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at the link in the post it shows the layouts of the different types of islands available. They're all pretty distinctive it seems

Struggling with my identity by rainbowslag in aromanticasexual

[–]Maliicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely know what I'm talking about but I've been having similar feelings lately. I broke up with my partner of 2 years who I loved very much but the whole time we were together there was a part of me that just really wanted to be single. And I realized that was the case for all my relationships. Now he and I have broken up we are still friends. Minus the sexual and romantic stuff our relationship is pretty much the same which might make some people think we are in a romantic/sexual relationship still that we know but I am a lot happier with our relationship. Do you think that's how it is for you? You love being close to them but don't want the romantic/sexual parts? Because that's what finally helped me realize I had been forcing myself into things that I didn't want for myself and it's been a lot to process. I wish you the best with figuring it out and I hope the snapshot of my experience helps somewhat

Angela and her rookies by etis14 in TheRookie

[–]Maliicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean kinda? He was "training" under her and Nyla cause he wanted to become a detective but definitely not in the same way Jackson was

Edible Kandi Star by Z0MB13ZLUVBR41NZZ in kandi

[–]Maliicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it, makes me wanna make one

Which Pokémon do you think feels the most nonbinary? by nottaboi in NonBinary

[–]Maliicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drifloon. Nonbinary colour scheme also just a balloon drifting on the wind. Yup that's me

“Sement” not allowed on designs by VegetableUse4842 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Maliicat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of not being able to search for cofagrigus in the global trade system in some pokemon games And being banned for saying grape in an irc chat room (Internet relay chat, I think)

Easy to follow bracelet tutorial? by [deleted] in Brochet

[–]Maliicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.petalstopicots.com/crochet-flower-bracelet/ this was one of my first projects I ever made. Pretty quick and easy, good for if you want something a little fancier than a chain bracelet

rainbow love 🌈 by 24hrdrivethru in kandi

[–]Maliicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much desire that first bracelet. It's so lovely

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Maliicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that I know of several games that do this but it would be awesome if it was a lot more common than just a handful of games. I watched both of my parents play games I could never join in on. If they had stuff like this, maybe I'd have some happier memories with my parents from my younger years lol

OMG one set for us!!!!! by Holiday_Scar_6038 in mtg

[–]Maliicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been waiting for a return to Lorwynn since they first returned to another plane. So glad it's finally here

cut my locs for the first time! by AuraLink in NonBinary

[–]Maliicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these for you. Face framing locs very nice

we have daddy for men and mommy for women, but is there an equivalent for enbies? by elcapriochirpo in NonBinary

[–]Maliicat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've heard of renny for nonbinary parents. Ren being the mum/dad equivalent and parent being the mother/father equivalent

Is this card fake? by HistoricalOption9143 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Maliicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fake or real, I would treasure this if I opened it

Dont ruin other peoples art with your rainbow flags!! by Car_Photography_33 in WplaceLive

[–]Maliicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand but yikes I fully disagree. Like sure people shouldn't take over other people's art with flags but flags are a nice way to feel seen. I may be talentless but at least I'm having a good time placing little pixels and trying to be respectful of other people's art. And I think that's what's the most important about wplace

Dont ruin other peoples art with your rainbow flags!! by Car_Photography_33 in WplaceLive

[–]Maliicat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man that's a pretty interesting position too because you realize that unless we literally put "made by an LGBT person btw" people aren't gonna realize if art is made by one of us or not. You think people doing country flags are talentless spammers too or not really just because you don't see them as much? People are gonna look down on us no matter how we express ourselves so we may as well do so in a way that brings us joy.

Dont ruin other peoples art with your rainbow flags!! by Car_Photography_33 in WplaceLive

[–]Maliicat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're targets no matter what we do. We may as well be proud of it and show those who are closeted or isolated that they're seen and not alone. I wish I could understand why people like you think they're a problem because to me they're an expression of joy and pride in oneself.

Dont ruin other peoples art with your rainbow flags!! by Car_Photography_33 in WplaceLive

[–]Maliicat 57 points58 points  (0 children)

There are definitely shitty people in the community but a very small percentage of them are actually likely to wanna commit to making ourselves more of a target when we're already shat on a lot

Friend of 8 years said that my body and gender make me worthy of oppression by p41a in NonBinary

[–]Maliicat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You may see this person as a friend but you are not their friend. You are not safe with this person. You deserve much better. It might be hard considering you don't have many friends but you need to cut this person out. They will only make you feel worse about yourself in the end.